Jump to content

shyanne

Members
 View Profile  See their activity

  • Posts

    329

  • Joined

 Content Type 

Everything posted by shyanne

  1. shyanne
    i totally agree with raykay... my girls will NEVER be allowed to have a boy in their bedroom alone. your only 15
  2. shyanne
    this is your second time asking/posting the same question... this time your telling us that your therapist said you should.. this is my theory.... i think your the one that keeps asking the therapist if you should just like you keep asking us here.. make up your own mind... will this help heal your pain??? if so...just do it.
  3. shyanne
    i say your lucky she dumped you.. now you can find yourself a good woman.
  4. shyanne
    you can't tell someone you love them until you truly know or think you do. some guys lie and say i love you right away. when really how can they. i think he is being very honest with you and is a good guy.. enjoy his company and don't rush things like that. it may push him away.. i never told my husband i loved him until monthssss after we started dating because i just didn't feel it. even though he would tell me all the time. when i felt that i loved him, i told him so
  5. shyanne
    1 i don't know 2 nothing 3 would love to know 4 must be really, really hard for some
  6. shyanne
    i don't think that's a good thing and i wouldn't be happy. before kids, my husband would always go out to bars with me and my friends unless he had to work.. a lot of times.... he was the only guy.
  7. shyanne
    did i write this? i don't even bother trying anymore.. haven't in a very long time but that was once my life story.
  8. shyanne
    block his phone number.. that's a good start
  9. shyanne
    i think it's good you question it now. i think all that's important for a life long relationship and if you don't feel it now, you won't ever. don't stay with someone your not completely in love with. it's not good now.... it will get worse and you'll be very unhappy if you stay. more so, if your married with kids. maybe take a break from him and date others.. if it was meant to be, you guys will get back together later in life or the break will help you decide if you truly loved him.
  10. shyanne
    that's an excellent book, i have it. plus the next one. "what to expect the first year"
  11. shyanne
    it's not right for your mom to laugh at anyone....it's just not nice. however, i can't blame her for not wanting you with him... that's a big charge and a big turn off.. i wouldn't want to date someone who had a charge like that and i certainly wouldn't want my child dating someone like that. doesn't matter how long ago it was or if it was just once.... once is enough. he sounds like he has too many problems and you shouldn't have to worry about him.. you should really try to move on. he is not your problem and sounds obsessed with you now so what will happen if you continue with this guy.......it may get worse. love is a big word.
  12. shyanne
    exactly..... i've smoked some here and there in my later teens but never that much.. that's way too much.. it's just no good for you. your young and need your brain cells and memory for when your older.. that's a good way to become a not so smart adult
  13. shyanne
    seeing those pictures and letters should help you get over him. you will find someone else one day
  14. shyanne
    you can't do nothing.. you work or you go to school...period. preferable school. you know you can do it so do it and prove you can or you will regret it later in life..even if you always had a job. stop smoking weed. if you smoke daily, your addicted and need help. that's not smart.
  15. shyanne
    lol lol lol that's not how. if your interested....let her know
  16. shyanne
    i don't think you should ever keep something like that a secret. i think you should tell your husband too. if you guys were soulmate he would feel the same for you, or so they say. being with someone in jail or someone that hits you is not a good thing. maybe you should focus on your kids and you more. i hope your husband hasn't hit you since.. and if he does, be strong enough to leave. that's not a healthy relationship nor is being in love with someone in prison.
  17. shyanne
    exactly.... if he doesn't reply, you give your self closure.. don't bother with him anymore, not worth it. it would be nice if he was man enough to just tell you but some aren't.. you need to be woman enough to do it for him.
  18. shyanne
    you should never have to hide your past from anyone nor should anyone that loves you put it down.. that's part of who you are.. you need to be happy in your life. she does sound like she's over possessive and that's never a good thing. in order to have a good relationship you have to trust each other fully. really think about this before marriage. she sounds controlling
  19. shyanne
    i agree they should beable to if they wish at that age
  20. shyanne
    i would feel the same way his ex feels..sorry. it's the best way to go. i think it's great that he gave that up mostly for his child and that he wants to be part of the childs life. he may go back just like alcoholics, your taking a chance. one that can not be taken with a child. i hope he can continue to stay off it and become a great dad. maybe in the future things will change but he has to prove it to her first and that's totally understandable.
  21. shyanne
    if your talking about buying a house... lots of people buy a house before being married and consider it an investment. if the relationship doesn't work out, you sell it and both walk away with a profit.
  22. shyanne
    that's great your not shy anymore. i'm sure you feel like a new person. i can't really give you advise on dating but one thing i tell everyone i know that is single...... stop looking so hard and it will come. sometimes when we search for the perfect person, it doesn't happen and can bring us down. i would just enjoy life, meeting, talking to new people and one day you'll find someone special.. there is someone out there for everyone. sometimes it just takes time. good luck
  23. shyanne
    i think it's time for you both to stop drinking. nothing wrong with having a few drinks but there is if you drink so much that you black out. back in my late teens and early 20's i did get drunk a number of times but never to that point. how is that fun? the most that ever happened to me is a hangover that would last all day long. those hangover days ended before i had my first child. not fun either... i always drank beer and was able to handle more than most others but you need to know when to stop. if you don't, you need help.
  24. shyanne
    my yongest daughter gives me a hard time about smoking. so does her dad and my oldest but i really feel bad when she tells me. i think those ads are good because i really don't want my kids to smoke. i tell them it's bad and i have to stop.. now only if i could
  25. shyanne
    some ads ask for salary desired.. since a specific figure can eliminate you if it is too high or low, you could list a fairly wide range or you could write "salary requirements depend on job responsibilities and can be discussed at an interview" or negotiable
×
×
  • Create New...