Relationship Advice

Not sure what to do, it’s becoming suffocating
My ex boyfriend (we split in February) is still trying to stay in contact with me - we had a very toxic relationship as he was often lying and hiding things from me. I

I’m so fed up
I’m a little down atm. I’m moving house tomorrow and the one I’m leaving is beautiful. And the one I’m moving too not so much. I had to leave because it’s been sold and

Ex wants my help
My ex wants my help to fix her laptop since I'm a tech kinda guy like that. But she doesnt want to see me alone. She wants drop it off when I'm at work and pick it up

Italian boyfriend
Hi I really need some help. I have a Sicilian boyfriend we have been together almost 1 year. I’m mid 20s he’s late 20s. We met working on the cruise ships, he’s an

Was it ok for me to behave the way i did?
Hey guys this is a spinoff from my other thread and im so sorry i cant stop talking about my breakup im so heartbroken, and this seems to be the only thing thats

My woman is not respecting me and I`m lost
We have been together for 4 years, and live together. We have a good history together, only a couple of big fights that we have sorted out from both of our perspectives

No Contact
I went no contact after arguing a lot with her regarding why she wouldn't take me back. But, then I decided going no contact; for 15 days I didn't contact her, then

What should I do after my boyfriend only said ' Happy birthday' and that's it?
You know how a significant part of birthday joy is your close people cherishing and making you happy, by showing you how important you are to them? My boyfriend has

Do I unfriend the ex boyfriend that I dumped?
Please help, I am so conflicted. I broke up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years, I moved out of his place a week ago - before I broke up with him I explained all the

A little rattled
So it’s been like 3 days since she moved out (5 year relationship I pulled the trigger and ended it) There were a few lose ends. She had some packages coming in the

Boyfriend not accepted in my family
Dear NotAlone My boyfriend and I are best friends for 5 years. We are very similar in our behaviour and beliefs (except religion). Fight1:Bf disagrees with my

Complicated spider web
I have been friends with this woman for 5 years, we met gaming and immediately had a a flirty friendship. We were just friends but we were both certainly attracted to

Family members are putting pressure on me to move on from being sexually abused
I was sexually abused by my father when i was a minor and sadly i still get triggers even though it's been years. I've been in therapy on and off for years but this

Quarantine Breakup
BREAKUP ADVICE Since quarantine started in March and my boyfriend of 2 years (living together for 1) got laid off I noticed a huge decrease in his motivation, which

I lied about my past relationship years ago to my fiance. Should I come clean?
My fiance and I started dating five years ago. Before him, I had been in a serious relationship with one other person which lasted two years. We told each other about

He met someone else but wants to keep in touch with me. Will he ever come back ?
Hi everyone, I (23F) have a huge long distance crush. This guy (23M) lives far away. We met last summer, and hooked up once. We stayed in contact since all this time and

Goodbye
Hey, everyone I'm not even sure why I'm posting here. I guess it's because over time, this site was my go-to place when I was struggling. Either way, I am

Ex and I were about to get back together
My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for a few months, we started talking recently and everything has been great. I found out that while we were broken up she hung

Break up help
Hi all, Just in need of a little help I will keep it brief, 12 year relationship ended, 7 months on I'm with a lovely new girl, the problem is I'm finding it

Angry Over LTR Breakup
Hi everyone, I have been with my ex for 4 years. We’ve been LDR but I get to spend 4-5 months living with him in a year. All this while he’s been the one who’s

Started NC again
I know some of you have read my previous posts, yes it was a short relationship but it has had a lasting effect on me.. last night I decided to go NC (again) after being

Lockdown mental health
Hello all, I have been given fantastic advice on here over the past few months and have managed to use a fair bit of it. I'm a little concerned my mental health

I messaged my ex back, did this disempower me?
I broke up with my ex a week ago and moved out from his place. We were constantly arguing and I said our relationship was toxic, and clearly not going to change. There

Hope someone can help me with this
So, I’ve known this guy for awhile, we’ve been on 3 dates, all were at his place. The last date I had with him we were making out, and I gave him a handjob. He decided

Girlfriend asks me to move out
Hello. I wanted to make this thread, partly for myself to put words down about how I feel, and to hear others opinions if they have any. I have lived together with

Letting Go....
Hi guys. Hope everyone is doing well. Having some coffee this Saturday morning and just feeling the weight of the world or maybe just the weight of my choices and

Did i do the right thing?
Gf breaks up with me then on the same week goes on a camping trip with another dude. Comes back and starts crying on the phone how lousy the date was and i blow up on

I lost interest before the 1st date, should I keep my promise and at least go?
So I gradually arranged a date with this girl that I knew. It really came out of nowhere as we started out as coworkers but recently started talking and found out our