Relationship Advice

Met a guy... scared he may have a gf
So I decided for the first time since my breakup which was a few months ago to finally go on a date with a guy. It's been my first time on tinder (I'm a 21 female btw!)

I need help.
Hello, I’m not sure if anyone will be reading this. But my name is Alyssa. I’m a 22 year old recent college graduate. I have been been dating this guy for on and off

A tight family and a boyfriend who can't say "No".
This is my first post on here so sorry for how extremely long it is, but I have a lot to say. So, let me start this off by saying that I am dating what people may

I feel like life is pointless without my S/O
Every day feels like it drags on forever. I don't enjoy doing mostly anything anymore, and I don't like 95% of the people I'm ever around. I feel unwanted and unwelcome

Not seeing my post
How long for a new thread to be displayed? I posted one earlier this evening, but am not seeing it.

A customer gave me money as a gift - not sure how I feel
I work as a barista in a small coffee shop. I enjoy what I do, know most of my customers and they all tip very well. One of my regular male customers came in today and

Love triangle
Hi all, I'm in a bit of a relationship dilemma. I've been with my current boyfriend for 2 years. We're both in our early 20s so still quite young. We've had an amazing

Am I friendzoned or is there a chance she might change her mind?
Met a girl from Bumble and here's how it's gone dating wise: Sat 29 Dec - went for a few afternoon drinks. Sun 30 Dec - Went out for a meal and more drinks, ended up

At a breaking point.. Due next month.. Advice?
Need some non biased opinions on this. Well it's ongoing issues but this just went down like 20 mins ago. My fiancй has been off work for awhile and has a habit of

This friend ‘break up’ has emotionally damaged me more than a real break up.
I had a best friend who I had known since I was a baby. Throughout school years she would ignore me at school with her being the ‘cool’ girls and myself being just

My employee asked me out and now I feel awkward
I was asked before Christmas to manage a new employee for a few months. I’m 2 positions senior to him and unfortunately don’t have a middle person in between. Due to his

How To Deal With Mutual Debts
Hi, My partner and I have just “broken up” there is hopes for us in the future as this is kind of a break (we are not talking about the breakup/break in this message

What is the wisest/best way to handle this issue?
My boyfriend of a year is leaving to a city that is 4 hours away for 2 weeks his job is sending him, I feel sad, empty, like I depend to much on him, I even cried

Could you forgive being cheated on?
This is in no way looking for advice based on my ex cheating on me (that was given in a specific thread), but for you personally, if you discovered that your boyfriend

Newly married...
I am married a couple of weeks. My husband's family do nothing for us and did nothing for the wedding to help us. My parents helped so much and continue to help us with

Am I being taken advantage of?
So, long history with the woman I love. Been seeing her for 5 years, with the past 6 months being the roughest. She has told me that she feels hardly any emotional

Too much baggage?
I've been dating this girl for 2 months now, it's been good so far. She's sweet, kind, and I feel that we are mostly compatible. But in the past few days I've been

was breaking up the right choice?
My ex-boyfriend and I dated for three years. I broke up with him less than a month ago and I am having second thoughts. We moved in together after a few months. We have

Girl I barely know said she's not ready for a relationship.
This is situation is a first for me lol. Basically I met this girl on tinder who lives less than 5 miles away 3 days ago. We really did hit it off. She seemed like sees

Second thoughts about leaving a practice to start my own
Hi Everyone, I'm a little worried that I might have made a mistake by opening up my own private practice in October/November. I was originally a private contractor in

Why do people do this?
I can count numerous times where I’m in bed with a woman, and she tells me that she’s happy I’m there, it feels good, etc. Me, as a guy, will only say that when it

Really Confused
So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2.5 years. It has been half long distance and half with each other. Over the last few months we have seem to have

How to heal?
Dear all, I would like some advice on how to heal, for myself and for anyone else going through what feels like the most horrible thing in the world. In my case

Next steps
I've been in a relationship now with someone for 7 months and I've hit a bit of a crossroads. I do love him but I'm feeling doubt. He is currently unemployed and before

He’s not “happy”.
Partner isn’t happy. Well ex partner. He ended things because he isn’t happy in himself. He says he needs to find his happiness while he’s not in a relationship. He says

No Contact does work - when you’re not trying it
I’m just recently going through a breakup and started reading about going no contact to move on, and how some also use it as a means to win back their ex. I then

Is there a way to help a friend?
Hi. I don't want to force a friend of mine to come out. But I'm tired of hearing from them wanting a partner in life and not doing anything about it. Here's the story

All excited for her to now be unavailable
Hey guys. This place helped me a lot over a terrible toxic breakup about two years ago and I finally just recently opened my heart up for dating again. I've been playing

I work at a horrible place
I've been at a company for 7 months now, and it's by far the worse place I've worked at. Starting that the owner of the company is a millionaire who is rude to all of

It is so easy for him to hit me, but leaving him isn't so simple.
I apologize for the lengthy post, but I figured the near-whole story is better than just the highlights. Some details: -I am a 24 year old graduate student working