Relationship Advice

My relationship has lost its spark...Don't know what to do anymore...
Hi everyone, seeking some advice on my current relationship, any comments/suggestions/personal experience (from male and female perspective) would be helpful;

My boyfriend of 4 years cheated multiple times online. What can I do?
Going to summarise in points, else it will be so long I'll need two posts! Apologies in advance for the long post - didn't realise till I posted and saw how much I

Questioning if i was wrong, when he lied about being married in the past
So I been dating this guy for almost a year, up until this january 2019. A brief history- We met at work in march 2018, and all of my coworkers who knew said he was a

Chandler's Dating / Relationship Journal
For my own personal self to figure out the qualities I want in a man or for others to read for a little laugh. I am a 19 year old girl (despite the boy name :tongue:) in

What a dilemma!
Ok so here’s my story I’m married for 10 years. I have 2 kids. I am a supervisor for an employee and had a sexual dream about her one night. After that I began

Short guide through the breakup
I spent countless of hours on this forum when my "the ex" left me (you can check out my old posts) and it helped me a lot,so I'm hoping to help somebody else with my

Abusive ex contacted me to apologize????? Mental torture
I'm feeling really confused. A recently went through an abusive break up from an abusive relationship. It ended terribly and in an immature manner on his end. He blocked

It seems like she’s pulling away. What should I do or say?
Everything has changed, I don’t understand how things could be so great one week and complete crap the next. We have been talking for a couple months and it’s been up

Boyfriend keeps in touch with girl he dated behind my back
I've been in a committed relationship with a man for 2 years. A few days ago, I casually happened to glance at his email while I was sitting next to him when I saw an

Too Damaged for a Relationship?
Hello, my name is Chandler, and I am a 19 year old female despite the boy name, lol. I joined this forum because I'm in need of advice, and I apologize in advanced for

Single and Alone as Usual
so 38 pansexual from Kentucky trans woman I have been single for 4 years now and it isn't getting any easier I've tried to find love I've tried to find a soulmate I know

What’s the next step?
My story starts like any other, I met a girl and although the circumstances are somewhat unique, the events after are not really that special. When I say that I mean

Is this a kind of OCD? What attitude should I adopt?
Hi all. I need some opinions on a problem I am having issues with. Whenever my relationship with any person(friends,family) has problems, like having an argument with

My boyfriend is a manchild?
Hello, This is my situation and I'm not sure what to do: I'm a 23 year old woman and I met my 29 year old boyfriend abroad in his country while I was travelling. We

i need advice
my girlfriend and i have been dating for 3 months and have had an on and off again thing for about a year. we are in love and for the most part things are perfect. both

She cancelled our date
We had a date set up days in advance and she called me the night before to cancel the date because she wanted to go to a concert with her friend. She told me "I really

Am I a bad person?
I have been seeing a woman for 4 years. We started with amazing chemistry and still have it occasionally. I have been struggling for 3 years, much of our

What do I do with my mil
Hi everyone I just need an extra pair of eyes to help me see things through. I have been married with my husband for 4 years and we had 2 beautiful babies. My mother in

Have you ever told someone you barely know that you *like* them?
Anyone have stories about telling a crush you like them? Outcomes good, bad, indifferent, etc.? If you don't want to read this lengthy post but feel like sharing the

What’s the most non-awkward way to begin a friendship socially?
I can’t even believe I’m asking this because I have made many friends in my 40 years but they have pretty much all been organic. I live in a very hustle bustle area

Did he still have feelings for her when he and I got together?
Ok, I'm back here again asking for advice for the third time regarding my relationship with my bf of a year. He was hanging out with a girl he went to high school

My ex girlfriend texted me a question mark several months after she dumped me.
I decided to cave in, submit and ask because at this point, not only am I hurting, i’m completely confused. Having dated a fair share of women and having relatively

First kiss
Do you think it would be cheesy to have the first kiss in a parking lot after walking her to her car?

Has anyone ever...?
So, like many couples, my partner and I have had the issue of trust come up in some capacity or another. One day, the thought crossed my mind, "What if I created a fake

how to attract positivity?
Please help!! I feel so bad. I am waiting for a response these days, which is really going to be very difficult if it is going to be negative. I really have worked for

Unexpected Breakup, handling it poorly, chances he'll come back?
My ex and I dated for about a month back in September, when things got deeper and he started to fall harder he ran, breaking up with me the day after our first serious

Am I being too sensitive?
So I work for a doctor who owns her own practice. There are four other doctors here as well, along with me (the office manager/biller), and the medical assistant

The Poetry
There has to be more people than me that's processing this heartache in writing! Are you? Post here! I'd like to hear it!

Not enjoying my nanny job
Hi, I’m hoping for some advice as I’m really at a loss with the child I look after. I started a job about four months ago with a three year old boy and I knew he had

Why does my ex girlfriend’s family frequently reaches out to me??
Okay, so my ex girlfriend ( we’re both 21) and I broken up late 2017. 2 weeks after she started dating someone else and is still with that person I believe; and ever