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  1. My love must be a kind of blind love I can't see anyone but you Are the stars out tonight? I don't know if it's cloudy or bright? I only have eyes for you dear The moon may be high But I can't see a thing in the sky I only have eyes for you I don't know if we're in a garden Or on a crowded avenue You are here And so am I Maybe millions of people go by But they all disappear from view And I only have eyes for you -The Flamingos, 'I Only Have Eyes For You'
  2. Max Cherry: I'll bet, besides maybe an afro, you look exactly how you did at 29. Jackie Brown: Well, my ass ain't the same. Max Cherry: Bigger? Jackie Brown: Yeah. Max Cherry: Ain't nothin' wrong with that! -Jackie Brown, Quentin Tarantino.
  3. "I wonder, I wonder. Pretty baby, how I wonder?" -Ray Charles, 'I Wonder Who's Kissing Her Now'.
  4. Ever got stuck in a weird rut where you just don't know what music you want to listen too? You desperately rummage around your brain trying to think of something that is going to fit your mood or give you something and no matter how hard you search, nothing comes? It has to be one of the most frustrating feelings for me. I always have music on. I'm like, a music junkie. I love it. Drives - got to have music. Lounge - got to have music. Cooking? Music. In the garden? Music, definitely. The only place music doesn't seem to fit in with the groove for me seems to be, during sex. Why?! I
  5. Can I just also add Bliss, to offset my high criticism, is that most people who I admire, respect and draw knowledge from are actually religious, and I strangely get on more with religions people. I think it is because we are both old school in our own ways, so we find common ground within those areas. Some of the most intelligent people I have ever known have been religious. But some haven't. I just wanted to add that, because I never want to be throwing out persecution here or self righteousness because I presume I'm right and ruffling your feathers when that is not my intention a
  6. Bliss, Just to add, it popped into my head. I don't know if you have ever read anything by Christopher Hitchens? He was a writer who edited Vanity Fair and wrote many a book, some criticising religion. This quote from him just popped into my mind, which sums up all my feelings towards the traditional Christian faiths regarding this topic, the Virgin Birth: "Which is more likely: that all natural order is suspended, or that a Jewish minx should tell a lie?" 😉 Lo x
  7. Martialbliss - YES! Bill mother loving' GATES! Mr, ohhh, little old me? Just harmless nerdy me? In my little pink fluffy sweater? Just want to get you the vaccine ya'll, but I did tell you, remember, my TED Talk? Don't worry, I have a 1 in 20 financial return on the vaccine, nothing to see here though! I hate to be that person bliss who says YES, I HAVE heard that! But, I have!!! And I am no longer embarrassed to say I have heard most speculations towards Gates from Alex Jones on InfoWars and I no longer care if that does seal the deal for everyone that I am, yes, officially a nutty
  8. Hey Jibralta! I always love your user name! I love typing it out! It feels luxurious and pretty and exotic! No, you are probably more right than you know. I have never fit in anywhere. I know that is a big massive phoney cliche everyone says but I can't describe it any other way. Through every season and group in life I have always been the "odd one out" and in the end I am kind of singled out but, I tap out long before this eventually happens now! I have no problem at all making friends, I love walking into a room completely unknown and just discovering who is there, talking to them
  9. Dias! Thank you for the lovely advice. So true, so helpful, so sweet. You are all so forgiving and very sweet! Maybe we all strive for this perfection and we forget that life isn't going to be like that for the majority of people. Is it for anyone?! There are different shades of easy and hard and traumatic and blissful and sometimes we are lucky to never have to suffer anything too horrific and we can coast through our lives on mostly, compared to some, easy street. Maybe as a westerner I am just so used to the culture of feeling sorry for myself and having too much luxurious t
  10. Jibralta! I know exactly what you mean. Powdery lookin! I know. And definitely not the kind of face I would usually find attractive but to me he was undoubtedly gorgeous in a very unique way. No one really looks like Elvis. Unless yes, you are Priscilla. LOL!!!!!!!!! You are so right. What a strange man as well. I don't know whether he was naughty, to be pitied, a genius, mentally not right... God knows what, the more I read or whatever I just don't know what to think but I am eternally fascinated by him and he is a fellow night owl like myself so 😉 And I was laughing, yes, not filli
  11. Maritalbliss! What a quick reply! All these responses is I think just what I needed this afternoon in rarely sunny old England! You have given such great advice, I can already tell this is coming from experience and not a youtube guru or a book you once read. I am not normally a believer that to give advice on a topic, you need lived or first hand experience, but there just is something about growing, raising and loving a baby into a toddler and then I don't have a clue about the next bits but, it almost needs a witness because I know myself, pre-kids, wow, I would like to call myse
  12. I think I just need coffee. Lo x (Real answer to everything. You're welcome).
  13. Maybe I am going through a mid life crisis and my past annoying behaviour was a quarter life crisis and I am having an early mid life crisis whilst not being technically middle aged and by 40 I can say I am having my fully fledged mid life crisis and then by 50 I can just write it off to getting old and cranky and if I get to 90 which hopefully I will out of sheer stubbornness I will have zero f***s to give in all completion and I will know the true meaning of life and will be... actually old... and wondering why I spent the whole of my life thinking I was old when I wasn't. Meta. L
  14. D is away on business, seven nights seven days. I think 3 days in it's just dawning on me that I feel lonely. I'll be skipping around like a new born fawn soon running bubble baths and putting puppets on my fingers and singing badly sung nursery rhymes to my kids like a coked up children TV presenter in an hour and all will be well. Just gotta hold out another hour into the future or something or other. Lo x
  15. Off the back of a big massive knees up of a kill joy I just felt compelled to add: Why do I always end up hating everyone? Even people who seem so very nice and normal and haven't really, technically, done anything too me but just disagree, not like me, not approve or something. Why? It's getting to a stage where for the first time in my life, I am so jaded by it, that all will to make my usual bold efforts with people, for always being the event organiser, always being the hostess, always being the one who introduces, forms the friendship groups, plays chess with everyone here there
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