threebutterflies

He is lucky, he got a scholarship, so he wouldn’t be in debt. And actually, he was offended that he is not a consideration to what school I pick. I got a really nice offer to an out of state school which is close to the university we go to, and he told me he would still like to see me. I feel we may grow apart if I go to a different school

@poorlittlefish I agree. I haven't been the nicest to him either because I was frustrated, and she knows that and thinks that I am the problem, and that I am self sabotaging because I don't realize how good he is.

thank you so much for your valuable input-- i definitely need to listen to my gut more. i'd also like to add we are together for a bit more than a year

I am 22 years old, and my current bf is 21. We will both be graduating with our bachelors after this semester and we had a number of fights recently. Long story short I am frustrated with him. I find a lot of his behaviors to be very immature. I feel like I am his mother sometimes. But.. on the other hand he is overall kind and caring to me. Just very naive. And I know I can't change anyone so I am at a loss of what to do. I feel like I want a man who is more self motivated. He would be getting his masters because I want to get a masters degree... he told me that is the only reason why he is pursuing it and he doesn't really know what to do after he graduates. Which is sweet. but i personally wouldn't do that. I have met his family before, a couple of times, and his father was so upset during both of those times, and according to my bf, it had nothing to do with me. But it wasn't a good feeling. What doesn't help is that my mother believes I would not be able to find anyone else, because I am going to pursue a grad degree, which will apparently make it harder for me to find a guy, since most men do not want to be with educated women. She tells me that no guy is perfect, and implied i should settle. Am I crazy for disagreeing?