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My baby’s father and I broke up a month ago. I’m currently 7 months pregnant. He broke up with me because he didn’t feel like I was affectionate enough & I don’t didn’t like hanging out with his friends because I have social anxiety. The week before we broke up he was being super distant & mean to me. I wanted to work on the relationship, go to therapy and try to make things work. At that time he had no interest in that. We still have sex and he comes over almost everyday to hang out. Then he told me he does eventually want to get back together after we have time on our own. He’s taking about getting his own place. So he’s talking about the distant future. He’s ta…

Hello, I'm a student and I came here for advice about a sensible situation, thank you in advance for the answers, sorry for the lenght, this is quite complex but I just want to have an external opinion on the feelings I go through, the whole story is just to set the context. Trigger warning : abortion/ abandonment. 8 months ago (October) I met a man on a dating app, at first he seems to be open to discover each other around a coffee, and I was more into having fun. Our conversations were the simple/quite boring kind, but I give it a try as he seemed cute and I felt good and confident in my life. So we spent a first night together not planned but on an impulsive…

So me and my boyfriend were kissing yesterday. I gave him a blowjob. Then he wiped his dick with a tissue paper. After a few minutes he rubbed my outer vaginal area with one of his fingers . According to my period tracker app, I am going to be ovulating within a day. Now my question is, can I get pregnant? I'm scared as hell and feeling paranoid as well.

Just gonna explain the whole situation cuz I need advice on it all. I’m 19 the girl is 20. Been seeing this girl a few months it was going well she said there was absolutely nothing wrong with me and I’m perfect which I believe she genuinely thinks. A few weeks ago she started mentioning that she’s worried she’s gonna push me away but I didn’t think anything of it really. Last Sunday she said she’s cutting me off because she doesn’t want a relationship and to commit and that she likes being independent and doesn’t want to loose that. She’s been in bad relationships in the past where she’s been cheated on, lied to and has been her giving and the guy taking . I really want …

My GF told me she thought she was pregnant and was very excited. We talked about baby names and were happy. Next day breaks up with me. A week later the test came back positive and was taken back then broke up with again, this time asking for space. My problem is this, this could be hormones I don’t know and that’s not what is important. What’s important to me is how do I give the space (texting annoys the hell out her now), when I want to know if she needs anything or how she’s feeling or talk about this life changing event. We did not even fight. I just don’t get this. I sent her flowers but cancelled them after someone advised me that’s not respecting spac…

Hi everyone. just seeking some help, im a guy and i just got my GF pregnant, we're both really happy about there's really not much or a problem except that i feel sorry that for my girl puking all the time and feeling nauseated and just over all weak. im not sure what my role is here im just doing all that i can but still feels like i could be doing more.

I have an unprotected sex with a boyfriend. I was supposed to get my menstruation at the beginning of the month but I didn’t. I have stomach cramps, increased appetite, headache. Am I pregnant?

Question for the Ladies: If you had a baby later in life and used an egg donor and your husbands sperm would you still feel it was 100 percent your child knowing even though you carry it, you have none of your dna in that child? And if you used an egg donated from your sister.... how would you feel for the rest of your life looking at the kid and knowing your husband technically has a child with your sister? If you were the sister would you always look at the child and think in your mind "you are looking like me, i am your mum" but never say it to anyone? Would you just rather the donor be an anonymous donor? All opinions and ponderings are welcome. Just interes…

Looking for some insight on this situation, thank you in advance for reading this entirely. My boyfriend of 2 and a half years has behaved cold, disinterested, indifferent, unaffectionate, and barely talkative towards me throughout most of my pregnancy. He's asked twice how I feel, never asks about the baby, and just generally seems to not care. I am due any day now and I've confronted him on several occasions as to why he's been distant. He proceeded to tell me that he's tired of my pregnancy, hormones, mood changes, and hurtful things I've said to him. I do admit, I have said and done some very hurtful things. For example, being upset and asking if it was a mistake, …

Background information: I have been friends with this guy for almost 6 years. We worked together and would just hang out and chill all the time. He became one of my closest friends. We drank too much one night and ended up sleeping together 4 ish years ago, but we both really enjoyed it. It didn't make the friendship weird, so we just kept sleeping together every once and awhile. We don't live in the same area anymore, so about once or twice a year now one of us will go visit the other for a weekend. In between those, we have a pretty consistet communication, and sometimes we exchange nudes. We aren't exclusive. I've dated guys between our visits, and he's had hookups. …

So, it's been a very exciting and nerve wracking couple of months. We got engaged in August, and I started my new job not long ago. And I'm now roughly 9 weeks pregnant. Had a scan yesterday due to a small bleed, no cause found, and heart beat seen. Omg I'm so in love already! No inkling on the sex and really don't mind as long as our baby is happy and healthy 😍. I've not got many symptoms, unless my cats decide to eat a mouse in front of me lol.

Well, I’m a 25 year old female, who is ready but not ready to get pregnant. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now & has been asking for a baby for about 2 years now. I loveeeeee kids, I grew up taking care of kids (moms was a foster mother). In the other hand I’m SCARED that it’s going to be too hard for me. I’m scared I won’t do so good. I just have that fear that I’ll fail. Idk I just need someone to talk to

So this guy I’ve been seeing says he can’t have a relationship right now because he wants to focus on himself to better his career, but talks about pregnancy and having a baby with me almost every time I see him. I know he doesn’t have bad intentions but I’m super confused on why he makes out that he wants a baby with me so bad when not wanting a relationship. He always makes comments about getting me pregnant or asking if I’d want his babies etc. we always use condoms and pull out method (T.M.I I know sorry) so I know he’s not actually trying to get me pregnant but he always talks about it, is it just like a fantasy or something or is he joking or what could it possibly …

One of my really good friends just told me she's pregnant and I'm beyond excited for her. She's only 6 weeks and told me not many people know yet, and that she wants to tell only her closest friends and family for now. We are going to brunch this weekend and my question is, do I bring her a little gift or is that just not appropriate, given how fragile an early pregnancy can be? Should I wait until she makes an official announcement? I want to show my joy and support, but don't want to be too much either. Thanks!

Im 20 years old and Ive been on and off with my 17 year old girlfriend for about a year now. We have a long history of very safe, protected sex and have never had any problems until recently. A couple months ago, we broke up and she called me and told me she was pregnant and had a miscarriage but the details she gave me didnt add up. Especially because shes on the pill, and i always used a condom and pulled out before ejaculating with the condom on. Now, this girl, ove come to realize is very mentally abusive and manipulative. This past time she wanted to have unprotected sex which i was not comfortable doing. I informed her i was not comfortable with it. But she got mad …

My boyfriend and I were having sex on ovulation day. We used a condom and he ejaculated inside the condom. We continued having sex when we realized the condom was on the bed beside us. He claims he only ejaculated one time when the condom was on, but the blanket under us was wet near my vagina. He told me I should get plan b. Is it possible that I could get pregnant

This is going to be a long post, sorry... And pardon my mistakes, English is not my native language. I have really no-one to talk about this so I'm also using this forum to empty myself and I hope I feel a bit better after that... Anyway, about 2 months ago I met a really nice, intelligent and attractive man. I'm 34 and he is 37-years-old. I have been single for several years now, divorced and have been leading a quite happy and active life. He is also divorced, has 2 teenage kids and quite recently broke up with his girlfriend. From the start we had a very intense connection. It was not only physical - we had so much to talk about, we share similar passions in life,…

Okay so, I’ve been on the depo shot consistently for about two years now ( never ever missed a shot), on Jan 6 I took my depo shot and on the night of Jan 7 my bf fingered me, ( I never touched him that night at all) I’ve also never had sexual intercourse, oral, anal or any of that. I got a period on the due far of my next shot (April 6), I took the next shot on April 7. Because of my anxiety, I took like A LOT of pregnancy test they were all negative. I also got a blood test done on April 10th and May 31st which was also negative. My next depo shot is July 7th. Am i being irrational? I also suffer from ibs which gives me stomach issues, I may be relating to pregnancy

I was in a relationship with someone for a year and a half before discovering I was pregnant. This shouldn't have been possible as I was told by 6 doctors I would need IVF to conceive and extra help to continue the pregnancy despite before only in my mid to late twenties. Around the same time, I discovered that he'd had lots of hookups/said he was tricked into sleeping with a post-op transsexual (he's a surgical intern MD at the time)/all kinds of strange sexual escapades/etc... While I don't mind if others engage in it, I personally have been with one other person who I was married to. Our ideas of who the other person should be don't quite line up and I was pretty shock…

My bf is 33, we have been together close to 3 years now & have recently decided that we are going to start trying for a baby in September this year. I wanted to know your thoughts on a couple things & if you think I have reason to be concerned. - Bf has never had a high sex drive, 95% of the time I am the one initiating it, he is happy to have sex when we do so its not that he doesnt enjoy it. He also doesnt masturbate (we talk openly about these things and I know he is honest) because he prefers sex. Can easily go 7-10 days without any sort of release - NEVER wakes up with "morning wood" - Sometimes when we get hot and heavy with eachother and about to ha…

I am 15, very young i know, I started a combination pill on 17th of April, 2019. BUT i had unprotected sex on the 20th of april, before the pills were in full effect against pregnancy. He did NOT finish in me but precum exists and i was ovulating. Today i am ONE day late on my placebo/period and as you can imagine i am very worried. i have BPD. i believe that may have been a factor to my bad decision. I don’t know if i’m pregnant or if my body just isn’t used to the pills yet. i don’t think abortion is an option, but i don’t really know because i haven’t talked with my trusted adult. i have strange living arrangements. i have heard of many back alley abortion methods and …

Basically (I’m aware this was a ridiculous idea) but I had very drunken sex on the day I last Ovulated and now I’m so worried I am pregnant. I am not in a good place for this to be the situation but I would just like advice if this sounds like a pregnancy ? Like I said, I am not in a good place for it to be right now as I’m suffering with food issues. I had sex on the day I ovulated, completely unprotected with my boyfriend. (It’s a new relationship so had no birth control). I track my cycles so I know that I ovulated that day. A few days ago (about 2) I noticed pink spotting when I wiped (sorry if too much info) and I was having nauseated feelings etc. Since then the …

By how much has the protection decreased? When I was up to the middle of the last week of my combined pill pack, I missed a pill. I took two pills at the same time the next day to "make up for it". A few days into the sugar pill week, I got withdrawal bleeding as normal. In retrospect, I really should have just skipped the placebo pills completely and started a new pack, but I seldom have sex (like I then had protected sex (with a condom) 2 days into a new pack. At the time I thought a condom would be enough, but now I'm freaking out. I really cannot risk getting pregnant at this stage in my life, which is why I like to use 2 forms of BC at the same time. C…

Hi forum of eNotAlone! It is very early days for me, but I have found out I'm probably a good couple of weeks pregnant. I already have a little boy who turned 1 a few days ago. If this pregnancy goes well and we are lucky to have the baby, it means there will only be about an 18 month age gap between them. This is everything I wanted, I did used to want an even smaller age gap but, I am feeling extremely blessed but a bit terrified at the same time! And everyone said you are more relaxed with your second?! Not up to now! Mums and Dads - how do you cope with 2 under 2?! Any advice absolutely welcomed with open arms. Lo x

So my bf and I had oral sex yesterday. We're both 19 and we're not ready for pregnancy yet. I gave him a BJ and HJ, I sucked his "thing" for 15 mins and we started kissing, after that he fingered me and sucking his fingers. Plus i don't allow him to get down on me (Like his mouth touch my vagina) . I still wore my underwear. I'm wondering if his sperm or semens are still alive in my mouth. (He didn't ejaculate into my mouth, I just gave him BJ), he ejaculated after kissing and fingering. Could I get pregnant from this? Thank you.