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So I (37m) went on 2 fantastic dates with this girl (34f). We had met on one of the apps. We were both vibing each other a lot. We texted a lot in between the 2 dates and everything was going great. She even said so how much she was enjoying everything and how we seemed to be on the same page. Our conversations were great, we made each other laugh, and were attracted to each other. It definitely seemed like we were already talking how we’d continue seeing each other by just casual plans we would make about trying a place to eat or seeing a movie etc. I was so happy cause it had been awhile since I had a connection like this. I was giddy. After the…

• Disregard for right and wrong • Does this by knowing she should not do something but does it • Persistent lying or deceit to exploit others • She will promise things and immedidatly break that promise • Being callous, cynical and disrespectful of others • Consistantly laughs when im upset and does not give me her attention • Using charm or wit to manipulate others for personal gain or personal pleasure • Shell give me the affection ive been wanting after I refuse to do something or give her something but only if she cant find a way around it by getting said thing somewhere else or having someone els do it despite knowing im doing it becau…

For months I have been thinking about the same thing but not able to get to a conclusion. I would love your help. There is this guy, and we have been friends for a few years, and then one year back, I started having feelings for him. I thought about telling him but didn't want to jeopardize our friendship. In the last few months, we have been pretty close, like talking for 3-4 hrs and then one night during a one-night stay with friends we got drunk and kissed each other and next day we both decided not to do anything about it as if it just happened in the flow. Still, after one month, we met at my place, watched a movie, had little alcohol, and kissed again but this time …

Hi all, this is a long thread so please bear with me. I was in a relationship with a girl about 6 years ago, we were only together for around 4 months and things were going well until I found out she was engaged. One of my friends found out and when I confronted her she denied it but I found out it was true after seeing him on her social media so I deleted her off everything even though she tried messaging me just before her wedding. She eventually ended up getting divorced a year in to her marriage, that was around 5 years ago. Around last year we got back in touch and we got back together as she seemed to have changed a lot, but a while in to the relationship she r…

I found a rent-a-friend a few years ago. She has a hard life, works three jobs, and is from another country. She comes over every 3 or 4 weeks and I have dinner delivered, we watch a movie, she goes home, and I give her $100. Strictly platonic. She has a few forkfulls and takes the rest of the dinner home. A little annoying. Last week she was here and said I didn't have to pay her, but I did. I want to keep it businesslike. This past weekend she thanked me for the time and money, and recalled that I would be renting an Amtrak roomette for a 2-day trip to the mountains, and she wanted to go with me. I said yes. So we went up the other day. I paid for the…

Hi everyone, I am in need of objective opinions on a situation I am dealing with, as being in the middle of it isn't allowing me to see things clearly. As a background: I have known this guy for many years. We are not young, if that matters. We dated over a decade ago, he wasn't committing. A few years later we reconnected, had a 2.5 years relationship, he cheated with a woman who has been in his life on and off for probably longer than I was (I saw the cheating so there is no doubt about it), I ended the relationship. It's important to note that in spite of all his faults, on a friendship level we were awesome. Lots in common, even personality traits, similar prefer…

So I'm dating this guy and I've always had problems with his texting style. Some days he just wouldnt text me which is weird because I've never been in a relationship where we go days without texting. We talked about it and he said he would try to improve. Anyways, Monday I didnt hear from him and I texted him and complained. He didn't respond so I sent him a long text saying he needs to communicate more and if he can't then maybe we should just end it. Tuesday came and he still didn't respond and I then deleted him off social media. I regret deleting him. It was impulsive because I was hurt. I want this to work out more than anything. I don't know what to do. I tri…

Hello everyone, I could really use some advice here. To give a brief rundown of the situation, I (F, 46) have this friend (M, 57) whom I really get along with, except for the fact that he lies. He might be a compulsive liar, I'm not sure. For full disclosure, we met about 12 years ago, dated briefly, he is not a settle-down type of person so it didn't work out, we didn't speak for years, then we reconnected again years later, dated for about 2 years, he cheated, I caught him, dumped him, we didn't speak again for over a year, then a couple of months ago he reached out to apologize and we decided to stay friends. I know you will ask me why on earth would I be friends…

I am sorry this is long. I am 23 and dated my ex-partner who is 27 for a year. Our relationship was not perfect, but we had a strong foundation, shared the same values and had so much in common. Although we had not been dating for long, he talked to me about wanting to getting married, having children etc, which made me very excited about the future. He tried to be a good partner, but there was always so much pressure on as he is in his final year of completing his PhD and has been dealing with personal issues. I was always understanding of his situation, compromised, was supportive and tried my best to be a good partner until the very end. Plans kept getting cancelled, I…

She and I met on a dating app in August and dated until the end of Oct. We hit it off immediately, had long discussions on what work we've done to better ourselves and what we want out of a relationship. I'd say we saw each other 12 times, but never went beyond deep kissing and a little bit of neck kissing. (She'd mentioned about how previous guys would always assume that being invited to her place meant it was naked time and that she appreciated that I was letting things happen at her speed.) Officially BF/GF for about a month before she calls to tell me that she's not feeling it. She's missing the "spark" and even though I'm an amazing guy who she thinks the world of, s…

Hey guys, thanks for checking out the post. So here's a rundown of the situation. I was at the strip club last week and was talking to a dancer there I've known for a couple of years. I've always kind of had a thing for her. Last time I was in ,she mentioned wanting to make some specific content (pegging)for her OnlyFans with a guy but was having trouble finding someone as the idea made most men uncomfortable. I immediately volunteered myself, we discussed the details and were both excited about it. She said she'd hit me up sometime about it so just waiting eagerly on that. I'd REALLY like to take this opportunity to woo her and maybe get the ball rolling on a relat…

Does anyone else experience that while trying to recover and move on? This morning I was feeling really good, with great clarity over my situation but then a little while ago I got so overwhelmed with every emotion - from sadness to overwhelming grief and crying - that I could barely function. I hope the waves of grief mean I'm accepting and letting go, which will help me get over her and move on.

Been seeing someone about 3 months. He's been divorced 2 years after a 34 year marriage. He tells me he’s on good term with his ex. For thanksgiving weekend I asked him his plans and he tells me he’s having dinner with his ex and their 2 grown children because he wouldn’t be with his kids otherwise. I then learn from him that his ex regrets her decision to divorce and I say well you know sometimes divorced ppl remarry to see his reaction. He says their therapist told them their problems were too pervasive. He had a girlfriend during his divorce for 6 months but told me it wasn’t anything serious as opposed to our relationship (his words, not mine indicating ou…

I've been dating this wonderful girl for over ~3.5 years now. We met as causal friends with benefits and neither of us thought the relationship would last, or get as serious as it did. Actually when we first met, I was going through a very dark period of life and just wanted any GF. I thought she probably didn't meet my criteria for a wife but I didn't care cause we both agreed it was just a casual relationship and I wasn't looking for a life partner. But over the years, we got comfortable and grew into each other. Especially during the quarantine, we got so close and spent so much time together. And now I'm not sure. We've reached a critical point of our relationshi…

Hi all, this is a long thread so please bear with me. I was in a relationship with a girl about 6 years ago, we were only together for around 4 months and things were going well until I found out she was engaged. One of my friends found out and when I confronted her she denied it but I found out it was true after seeing him on her social media so I deleted her off everything even though she tried messaging me just before her wedding. She eventually ended up getting divorced a year in to her marriage, that was around 5 years ago. Around last year we got back in touch and we got back together as she seemed to have changed a lot, but a while in to the relationship she reveal…

Hi all, this is a long thread so please bear with me. I was in a relationship with a girl about 6 years ago, we were only together for around 4 months and things were going well until I found out she was engaged. One of my friends found out and when I confronted her she denied it but I found out it was true after seeing him on her social media so I deleted her off everything even though she tried messaging me just before her wedding. She eventually ended up getting divorced a year in to her marriage, that was around 5 years ago. Around last year we got back in touch and we got back together as she seemed to have changed a lot, but a while in to the relationshi…

I’ve been with this guy for the past 5 months, and in the beginning he was the sweetest guy I’d ever met. At first I was skeptical as I am with everyone that enters my life, but with time I started getting to know him better and liking him more and more. As time went we ended up having some disagreements mostly because of me being insecure from past trauma, which I’m in therapy for and I can see myself slowly healing and getting better from that. The thing is, ever since that, I haven’t had the same guy he was before. He’s become moody, sometimes rude to me, says he doesn’t have patience anymore and even though I’ve been the nicest girl he still can’t get over our past di…

Hi, I went on a date a few days ago which went really well, we were only going for a couple drinks but ended up having a great time we stayed out the whole night, got drunk and kissed at the end. we’ve set up a date for next Saturday and as I’m new to all this dating stuff just wondering if I need to constantly text her? at the moment we’re chatting backwards and forwards no problem but I feel like I’ve started trying to hard to keep the conversation going because I feel like if we ain’t talking she’s gonna think I’m not interested anymore? is it fine to have a day where we don’t chat and I dunno I reach out once in a while just saying “hey, hope you’re hav…

hello so all in all I have a crush on my teacher and I have no idea what I should do the problem is that this year I have a national exam which can be considered as the turning point of a life (in my country atleast) but I keep thinkning about her and can't focus on doing anything anyway and I don't have the courage to talk to her about anything outside the topic of studying and I really get scared if I want to get her contact info besides she's not interested in me and doesn't seem to care about things like these I'm really at loss and don't know what should I do

I hope this post isn't too long. Kevin and I grew up together, though didn't start hanging out a lot until 15 years ago, we are 50 now. A few years ago the friendship dwindled to practically nothing and I'd like others opinions on how to handle it. We started hanging out a lot because we had a lot in common, both single, liked watching sports and movies and drinking. At first it was great, though around 2010 I started having to deal with family more because my father passed away. Around that time I started researching certain behaviors and realized I'd grown up with a couple narcissists in the family. I sort of took the narcissistic traits for granted, ie, well so …

I somehow accidentally applied to a job that isn’t a remote job. I’ve been looking for remote jobs OR part time jobs that I would physically go to. The reason for this is that I feel it would be easier on me with any covid fears I might have... If I go to a job physically for part time work then I feel a little better about that instead of being at a job full time among people. I’ve been home for the last year but I do venture out to some restaurants and do some things lol. But I haven’t been at a full time job in over a year now. My background is really just waitressing. Well, this job that I accidentally applied to has actually contacted me to do a phone int…

Hello everyone. I have been with my husband for 9 years now and he has only tried to go down on me twice and its only ever a tongue flick or two. Then he just freaks out and stops. I go down on him almost every time before sex and sometimes just for the hell of it. He says he has a fear of it because his brother got a disease from his wife . But could there be another reason. I mean he was very inexperienced when we first got together.

I posted here before about being robbed twice in the space of a fortnight https://www.enotalone.com/?forumId=34 I did make the baitop, I didn’t do any vigilante stuff (I did plant the baitop though). Well work has been crazy and the baitop went flat and came inside. Last night I locked up the van and locked up the house and went to sleep. This morning it was gone. Nope, still not insured (which at the heart of it is in part because I’m paranoid the insurance company won’t pay out). Yep, with a bunch of gear in it, by the time I got home I was exhausted. I thought locking it would save me from the bold move of taking the whole vehicle. Realise now the…

Wasn't sure where to put this. In the past couple years, I've gotten really into rings. I usually wear a few, no big expensive stones or anything, I like having wearing several simple rings, some of which now have some sentimental value to me. I have one in particular that seems to fit my left ring finger perfectly (it's not a kind of ring that I could have resized) and I want to wear it there but I'm not sure if I "should" because I am not married. I am less concerned about what people in my personal circle think of it but I'm wondering about career ramifications or making someone mad in that circle. Maybe I'm overthinking it? Does it really even matter these…

some context: i’m (24F) dating a Jewish guy (26M) who is proud of his roots and we’ve been together for about three months. his pride is wonderful to me since i’m puerto rican/italian and i also love my cultures and people. he told me he wanted peace between israel and palestine and i assumed that meant he wasn’t a zionist. i’m really politically involved and believe that we should stop funding the israeli military and that the state of israel oppresses palestinians. this isn’t really meant to be a pro or anti zionist debate so i would prefer yall not comment if you’re gonna make it a whole debate forum. the issue is i found a flyer for the zionist organization…