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My ex has been with someone for about 4-5 months at least we still have sex . But this women lives with him he posted her on social media in her underwear twice and when I asked about it he called her his made before . Do y’all think he lying to me and he really like her or he just ***ing with her .

For context I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2years now and we have a vary happy relationship. With the normal ups and downs, but I always got bad vibes about his best friend of 5 years. I was cordial with his best friend up until a few nights ago, me and my boyfriend got in a small fight (that is resolved and irrelevant to the issue on hand). But I texted my boyfriends Best friend asking him to talk to my boyfriend because he need some support at that time, and I knew I was not in the right mind set to help my boyfriend at the moment. But his best friend told me he was not goin to get involved "in a lovers quarrel", but unbeknownst to be at the time my boyfriend …

I started a new job at a pool a few weeks ago and I’m really into this guy. We both work a lot so I see him usually 4-5 days a week. He’s so sweet and it’s rare that I ever have an interest in anyone so when I do my feelings are usually pretty strong. Only problem is he’s 19 and I’m 16. The age of consent laws in my state are 16 so it’s not the legal part I’m concerned about anyways, just what other people would think of it or what any other 19 year olds reading this think, plus I’m not really interested in a sexual relationship anyways. I’ve thought a lot about the age gap too and I don’t think 3 years is that bad, also coming from someone who has been manipulated and co…

I(30F) been best friends with this guy(35M) for 6 years, and I have decided to cut contact just yesterday when he told me he wanted to date people. I feel crushed and sick to my stomach. We started as roommates who didn't know each other and became close almost instantly, we hung out for a while before it became intimate. When I told him about my wish to be in a relationship with him and my feelings, he was honest and told me he was seeing me more as friend. Somehow because of our closeness and all, we kept sleeping together for about a year on and off, until he decided to put an end to it because he felt bad for hurting me. I stopped insisting and we went on as frie…

Hi everyone. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and been living together for almost 1,5 year. I study dentistry and my schedule is always so full and busy and I'm so burnt out and stressed from School already. My boyfriend works from home and on his free time he sometimes plays computer games all day long. I've had several mental breakdowns in the past few months and seen a therapist since. I am sometimes so busy with school and stressed that i dont really get the time to clean the house much or so, neither does he! I've discussed it with him several times but nothing changed. I mentioned that i want to move out and focus on myself and my studies…

Granted the photo is at a distance, but he and I both know. We're 30, dated 9 months and have been no contact for 7. He initiated the break up but something felt off about it all. It was like a switch when I went to go pick up my things, he looked different, he couldn't look at me either. And I could sense he was making excuses/hiding the real reason for the break-up, something just didn't right. I later found out he was still legally married, though he never made mention of this or that he was ever married at all. I later also found out some people we know in common and learned it was at least a 7 year relationship (he told me his longest relationship was 3 years...…

Hello All. I've been feeling very insecure lately. Me and the guy I like made a promise last night. It was so he wouldn't take what we shared with another girl. I've been cheated on before and I don't want it to happen since I really like him. He told me that I could always talk to him about what I'm crying about so we could talk about it, but I felt like this would sound stupid to tell him. Should I tell him or no?

After a troubled first few years, I was still feeling unsettled and unsure about the future of our relationship. I am not able to see my friends/family circle at this time to seek advice so I sat down to write a list of pros and cons to help me make a clear-headed decision. I decided to get the bad stuff out of the way first. This is my list of cons. From the trifling and mundane to the insidious and abusive. I don't expect anyone to have the time or patience to read it all but it's going to help me to get it down. If TL;DR, there are 228 cons. Just one thing...... in light of this fact alone is it worth me starting a 'pros' list?: Cons (or things you do/ar…

So my girlfriend and I have been having problems. She has a bad relationship history that she never dealt with that was keeping her for being happy and I felt like she wasn’t acting the same and I stated to lose myself. So we decided to take break over a week ago. Her to properly deal with her past and me to find myself again. We both made a lot of mistakes, but I feel like I put a lot of the blame on her. We haven’t talked in a week. I wrote her a letter apologizing for my mistakes and admitting it wasn’t all her fault, but mine too. I left it on her car to find this morning, but noticed She deleted all our pictures of us on her Facebook last night, but not her ig. But …

Hey, I have one quick question: I found the girl I love online, and we discussed this months ago. But then I read it is illegal to sext or do anything like that where I live for people under 18. I am almost 16, and she is 16. How to I express myself sexually to her? We both agreed that "making out" and such was fine. I just don't want either of us to be charged with anything.

I had been with my ex for seven months and in that time I really enjoyed her and loved her there was something missing that I couldn’t put my finger on and it pushed me into a state of withdrawal. She was really really into me and gave me her world. I couldn’t understand why I was not feeling 100% on the relationship, she wanted me to have dinner with her parents but I was reluctant as I was not sure I wanted to take it to the next step. This created a rift and through that rift we mutually decided to split. The split was amicable and we hugged at the end as I left her house. Now that I have been apart from her one month we broke up May 14 I have had time to reflect…

My baby’s father and I broke up a month ago. I’m currently 7 months pregnant. He broke up with me because he didn’t feel like I was affectionate enough & I don’t didn’t like hanging out with his friends because I have social anxiety. The week before we broke up he was being super distant & mean to me. I wanted to work on the relationship, go to therapy and try to make things work. At that time he had no interest in that. We still have sex and he comes over almost everyday to hang out. Then he told me he does eventually want to get back together after we have time on our own. He’s taking about getting his own place. So he’s talking about the distant future. He’s ta…

I reallly like him, but it hasn't even been a whole week since we first talked. Even if he is genuine, how can he be sure that we would get to the next stage.

My colleague (who is also my friend) and I have been attracted to each other for a long time. We both became single a while ago and thats when he started hitting on me openly. We slept together and it turned into a FWB. Neither of us wants a serious relationship now. He’s a bit younger so I gues that’s another thing that prevents me from seeing us as a couple. I enjoy the sex, the cuddling and the closeness, but that’s it. I was hoping things wouldn’t change between us (yes I know sex changes everything, but still) and our friendship would stay the same. However, his behaviour became strange and confusing. We chat almost daily at work, he initiates the conv…

I have a date coming up soon, with a woman I met through this arts event that I sometimes go to. So we've at least already met once in person, unlike if we'd met through Tinder or something. I said about going for a drink and a bite to eat, But I have no idea what sort of places she likes going to. She also lives in a different town to me and I don't really know the area (at all in fact). I feel quite nervous as she comes across as the kind of woman that wants the man to 'lead'... something Im not great at. She is also really good looking, to the point where I was thinking she was way outta my league when I first met her. So I'm worried I'll make a mess of …

My younger bro is single in his mid 30s and the only person living with my mum. We have all moved out and support ourselves. My bro hasn’t been able to do that. He hasn’t been able to hold down a job for years. My mum practically cooks and cleans for him. So much so that we all think he is lazy. We don’t see any drive from him to want to do better. He doesn’t ask us if we can help him. I’ve tried helping him apply for jobs before when I was unemployed and he simply said “why don’t you sort yourself out first”. I found a job pretty quickly and he’s been in the same situation on the dole for 3 years. When he was young, the primary school teachers felt he needed a helper ass…

I’m just sort of curious about this subject. I have sort of been dabbling in this forum where there are a lot of girls who where collars and considered themselves to be submissive. Is this just an act to attract males, there’s some part of me that acknowledges that people want to be part of communities and feel connected to others which share mutual interests. The part that’s confusing to me is has anyone been in a vanilla and bdsm relationship, is there much of a difference in the sexual frequency of the individuals or is it just a different type of play that people engage in?

hey everyone. any tips on reducing breakup anxiety? I already have pretty bad anxiety with other stuff, but I'm always worried that after a breakup it feels like I won't survive. I feel anxious and get nauseous to the point I cannot eat. Any tips? do you have similar struggles? How do you get over it?

I am 60, own my own hone ( which i had planned on selling next month when my youngest moves out west) i met my boyfriend after my I had made this decision. He owns his own home and has asked me to move in with him. We have worked out bills, chores, etc. He rents the bottom if his primary home during the months of June through September-to the same couple for the last 4 years. I am a private person and have told him i like my privacy and would not want others living in there.- next year. i would financially compensate him tor the amount he would not get. We are both financially secure. He says we will see they may not want to come back.Honestly am i being unreaso…

I was in a zoom meeting and a friend of a friend asked my contact from her. When this common friend told me about her, she said that this girl "liked me." I added her and we talked for 2 days. But one of the first things she asked me was my age. I told her I'm 35 and she told me she is 21. I found her really pretty. But the next day she opened the game that she couldn't see herself with me because of the age gap. I told her that I know many couples that have a big age gap but she thinks that that is a sign of desperation. I completely respect her decision, but then why did she felt attracted to me in the first place? I have felt attraction to older and younger w…

Does anyone have any advice for not getting accepted into the university I wanted to go to? I planned on going there for so long and to be rejected just really stings. I have another option but I didn't like it as much as where I wanted to go. I am worried I won't succeed in an environment that I felt was not for me. It is also pretty far from home which makes me nervous.

Hello, I need advice on how to make this girl love me. I've fell in love with this girl on sight ever since she helped me at my lowest this year. About the girl, I've known her since year 7 of High school; we were cool and all like just acquaintances. At one point asked her out in Year 8, though I didn't have any affection for her at all rather just wanted someone. But linking back with her this year, I'm truly in love with her. There is a slight complication with getting to know her better and so, as she suffers from medium social anxiety so its hard for me and other people to approach her. I want to get closer to her physically, but I have no idea how to. Currently…

I’m feeling so down and like a failure. I guess I just wanted someone to tell me it’s gonna be ok. For the nursing test you get unlimited tried to pass so I can retake it in 45 days. I’m just sad because I didn’t think I’d fail. I seriously feel like a dummy and the biggest failure ever. There’s so many other things in my life that I haven’t succeeded at and I just feel like there’s something wrong with me.

Been dating this guy for 5 months on and off(he is 10 years my age, divorced+2 kids) He works a lot of hours and between his day time job his music and his kids i am not getting the attention that i need. But I’m letting this slide because I enjoy his company and he makes me laugh and he listens(and I’m trying to feel something for him even though it hasn’t happened yet) and he’s not treating me like those guys I’m used to that only wants one thing from me and he’s not playing games but also not all in even though he says he had so much fun with me and want to get to know me more so I am a bit in dilemma here. Thoughts on this?

Especially if they live in the same place and all the other flatmates know about the affair?