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  1. You are dodging a bullet; you both want different things. She wants to fly by the seat of her pants, whether or not she can afford pants. You want stability, roots, and a family. She will never support you in your pursuits.
  2. You sound like my MIL. You don't need to punish a grown woman. Don't mean to diss you getting help, but you if you've seen many therapists, it sounds like you fire them if they don't enable your mindset that you are always the victim.
  3. My MIL acted similarly to how you acted, and she hasn't met either of them, and I have not communicated with her in 13 years. You do realize, you chose Joe over your daughter and grandchildren. She hustled her way to make sure both kids would be present on the 30th, you originally agreed to the 30th, then instead of communicating with her that you are uncomfortable with the ultimatum, and do not think it's good to come on the 30th, you blow ALL 3 of THEM off. And btw, this is definitely about your behavior in prioritizing Joe's needs and wants. Is this a common theme in your relationships? Saying "I'm sorry" doesn't cut it when you still think you've done nothing wrong.
  4. Based on what you wrote, sounds like venting, and skirting around what you want. Not sure what I'd respond with as well. Just tell her she needs a J-O-B. If you have young kids, she can be a lunch aide, and off when they are off.
  5. The little things count. She may not want to be intimate to someone who cannot feel safe with. Are you referring to intimacy as sex, or being vulnerable and confiding in each other?
  6. Sounds like a processing disorder to me. You both sound neurodivergent to me, and you are going through a whole hyper-fixation, rejection dysphoria moment.
  7. You need a lawyer asap. You did nothing wrong. This child is a POS who knock up someone else. That's it. A man who truly loves you wouldn't have done what he did to you, or left you, or keep stringing you along, so you cannot move on. "Am I supposed to stop believing what he's telling me?" He doesn't care what people think. If he did, he wouldn't have left you to begin with.
  8. NO...those gigantic paragraphs is what keeps you in the creepy friend zone. Just ask her out for a hike, and grab something to eat together. Then, if you are vibing outside of the office, tell her you like her. Enough with the doormat routine.
  9. Your insecurity is a "you" problem, not a "we" problem. Either you like who he is, or you don't. Either you can accept who he is, or you don't. Either way, you have to work out your own insecurities on your own time. That's not his fault. And, ask yourself this...do you want to bop every dude you work with, go to school with, interact with? I'm going to say that you don't. And neither does he. If you honestly think he'd cheat on you any chance he got, then time to end it.
  10. He probably put a block on you on her phone. Send an email and call. Call from work. He is now working hard to isolate you from her. Don't give up. She may also be locked in a basement at this point.
  11. Stop planning the wedding till you are ready to get married. So far, you are still a momma's boy trying to please her. You know why? You are trying to avoid conflict and confrontation after a lifetime of being forced to be stuck in the middle between your folks which is a HORRIBLE thing to do to a kid. Their business if their business, and they should have never vented to you, their kid. Your happiness and feeling of safety should have been their top priority; not to air their dirty laundry onto you. And, yes, the part of the flight number is weird...that's what a teenager would do, maybe, and nonsense for adults, because it's called cell phones. And, you both agreed to zero access to others, but you did it like nothing, and no, unless they are paying a lion's share of the wedding, they don't need to know who's been invited at all. Sorry, but you broke your word there, and you don't even see it. Your future wife's happiness is top priority; not your mom's. The wine glass thing though; eek, no thanks.
  12. Guess you don't have adult children, or children that plan to go to college. Typically, parents are not required to pay child support once a child turns eighteen. However, if the child is still in high school after the age of eighteen, parents are required to continue paying support until the child graduates, stops attending school, fails academically, or turns twenty. But, you don't stop parenting or providing for them when they turn 18. Tough life for any kid with a parent(s) that thinks that way. I fail to see how this guy is some kind of prize, here.
  13. "Hi, I'm sorry. I care about you, and want to be there for you, but I cannot listen about your boyfriend anymore. I like you romantically, and feel you are best talking to a friend, not me." I guarantee the other guy in the office isn't listening to her talk about other dudes. Not too late to change the dynamic with honesty.
  14. 6 kids (that he knows of)...we forget the one he gave up for adoption he made with his intern at work. And soon to be 7 kids.
  15. I didn't call him promiscuous. But he still has 6 kids with 4 different women. Soon 5 different woman with his 7th kid. One of which was an intern in 2021, which is a horrific power dynamic to be placed into. We don't know if the girlfriend he had his 5th kid with was serious.
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