virgosagit

Thank you so much everyone for your feedbacks!

He said it once. We were talking about a movie where the dynamics of the couple were very complex. He didn't mention the criteria he had in mind, he just said he'd be careful not to fall into that trap. He's currently abroad on holiday and he was telling me how surprised he was about cultural differences, and more specifically about the way couples are viewed. I spoke to him about a project recently, and again he mentioned the couple... Otherwise he talks to me a lot about love and so on. It's all very confusing.

No. He only knows I'm single too. He often refers to "couples" though: what he'd look out for if he got back into a relationship, etc.

No, we're just talking. Yes I've asked about his work.

Thank you for answering. I think I just see him as a friend but we never know. What bothers me is that I feel like he's getting closer because he just like having someone to listen to him (I'm a good listener) and that he's in fact really self-absorbed. These are questions we naturally ask people to get to know them, right? We went to an exhibition once and the day before I had to finish a really big project. I was very exhausted the day we meet up and he didn't ask me any questions about it (like how it went, etc.). He told me once that he barely talks about "work" because in his opinion, it's not interesting, and that he doesn't even know where one of his best friends work (he just know what he does). Well his job may be boring but he knows how passionate I am about mine and that it's a big part of my life. He’s currently on holiday, he wanted to phone me to set a date for our next meeting. I told him that I’d be back at the end of the month because I’d be on holiday and again he wasn’t curious about where I was going and with whom. He does ask questions from time to time like "and you?" or more specific ones. But I notice that he often makes everything about himself or that his answers aren't really personal as if he was not really listening to me. And YES he does have a tendency to only talk about himself. It's the first time I've met someone like him. I don't know how to interpret that. Is he self-absorbed? Does he just like having someone to listen to him (I'm a good listener)? Thank you.

We met a few years ago in an association where we were both volunteers. Yes he's single. I don't think these are dates but he often asks me to hang out just the two of us, even tough we have friends in common. I find it curious that he texts to me so regularly... I see him as a great friend but stay open.

I’ve been chatting regularly with a guy friend for several months. He initiated the first contact (we used to exchange a few texts beforehand) and has been writing to me very often ever since. We talk about a wide range of subjects, some of them quite intimate (family, for example). On several occasions he wanted to talk to me by phone. He suggested that we go for a walk together once (a dinner followed), and we went to an exhibition together, again on his initiative. He also asked me to hang out with me to see two exhibitions with him. I wonder about his motives. I wonder if he's interested or if he sees me as a great girl friend or if he's contacting me only to relieve loneliness, although he's a very easy person to talk and well surrounded. What strikes me as strange is that he never asked me the name of my company (I run a business), and when I told him I was going on holiday, he didn't ask me where I was going either. Thanks for your time.