I am 64 yrs old and dating a 58 year old for 7 years and living together for the past 6 years. She is asking when am I going to propose to her and get married. I do have some reservation about it. We both lost our spouses due to cancer. For the most part we get along well. There are a good many times where she blows little things up. the proverbial mole hill into a mountain. I am very conscience of my finances and do not like blowing money away. She on the other hand will over draw her bank account and received NSF fees of $35.00 on a regular bases. One month she had over 20 NSF fees, that is $700 gone!!!! Money that is supposed to be for us and she gives it to the bank in overdraft fees!
She loses her temper easy and says it is because she feels she is in a relationship that is going nowhere and she must prepare for her future. My family does not care for her that much because of her personality and she has no friends because of that same reason. Her doctor spoke with her about being bi-polar and she cursed the doctor out and never went back. Do I owe her to marry her? If not what do I owe her? I feel I am wasting her time and I do not want to be that person. Yes I would marry her if I thought things would change. She did marry once after 2 years of her husband passing away but that marriage lasted for only 6 months.
