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Hi. I'm F49, never-married. I'm average/pleasant looking, good stable job, nice personality (generally get along with people, have interests, have friends, not a recluse). A bit on the quiet side but I have social skills 🙂 About 5 months ago, I connected with a man my age on a dating app. We had a lot in common, he too was never married, good job, attractive but not George Clooney-ish. Same level of education as me We talked for a few weeks, then he said he just wanted to be friends. I was disappointed because I thought he was my needle in a haystack and we had some interesting convos! He was nice and I appreciated that he didnt ghost me. However, I noticed…

I have this internet friend who lives on the whole other side of the world. And I'm madly in love with her. I finally got the courage to confess to her and she told me that she doesn't think she feels the same. She said she loves me so much as a friend. But she isn't sure what else she feels. She DID say that she is really attracted to me but she just never thought about us in that way so I caught her off guard. She also isn't sure how the long distance would work. But I already have plans to fly to go see her in about half a year. She said she wants to think about ur more because she isn't sure how she feels about me. I told her I could wait but it's KI…

Hey guys I would really appreciate your feedback....I suspect that my phone has been cloned....I'm not a phone fundi but I can hear neighbours chatting about what I'm doing on my phone...I'm not 100% sure but something is fishy I smell a rat....any advice on how I would know that my phone has been hacked...I have no concrete evidence so I dont wanna say for sure Thank you

Hi everyone! This is my first time on this website and I really need advice. I don't have anyone to turn to or ask about this situation... family and friends tend to not know what to say.. Okay, so I will jump into my love life story. I've only dated two people and I am a F23 who has not dated anyone since 2018. My last boyfriend was very abusive mentally. He use to call me very ugly names along with degrading me saying I was always cheating etc. Up until then I have not had any luck with the right guy. Recently, I thought I was deeply involve with this one guy he told me in order for me to stay in his life I need to give him $300-$600 just to stay in his life. I sai…

So I met this guy online through Instagram over quarantine and we became very close friends. We would stay up late nights to talk about random things and most of this guy has everything I would look for in a potential partner and the only problem was he was just a friend. He is a great guy and I didn't want to lose him as a friend and I keep conflicting myself between choosing him as a friend or more. To make things worse, I don't even think he likes me that way. He broke up with his ex almost 2 months ago and he is still not over her. So even though we have gone through the whole "convo" and he admitted that he would not go for a serious relationship with me or with anyo…

Hi all, I used to be a streamer and got quite a decent following and there was a guy who would come to my streams a lot and was a supporter, though he did seem to have some behavior that seemed a bit as though he wasn't the best with social interactions and didn't seem very socially aware. I have stopped streaming now but this guy is on two of my social media platforms. He lives in a different country and doesn't know my full name and I think he is harmless, but he won't stop reaching out. We have never video chatted but he has called me quite a few times over instagram via video call and keeps saying "let me know if you want to catch up", or "we should do a vid…

I moved to Netherlands. I was working in a job until i was fakely accused and fired. I've met a beautiful Spanish girl I instantly fell in love. I know her name I checked her name on planning. I found her on Facebook. I was speaking with her for a while. But I would like to see her again I don't know where she lives. We don't have mutual friends on Facebook. I missed her so much. What should I do?

hello everyone, I need your help my facebook account was hacked and figured out that facebook has no chat support or email of anything. I have tried to report the hacked account but the hacker changed my email settings. I cant recuperate password by phone and email. Do you have any idea how to recuperate my account. Please help I am really getting frustrated...

Hello everyone. So this story could be a long one, but im going to try to sum it up. I was just in an online relationship with this girl. It started because we played the same game and we were in the same faction. We complained about the same guy in the faction. As time went on we got closer and closer. I didnt think it would get like that. We would message each other about 2 minutes apart max. Always about nothing, just having fun. Eventually that 2 minutes turned to 5, then 15 then an hour. Which is fine, im not saying i need instant replies. Eventually I made the move to make us official. She said the L word first. The magic was still there and it was s…

I have been chatting with a girl from South America for over a month. We’ve exchanged photos, a video chat, tells me many details about her personal life such as work, what she is doing with her kids, etc. She asks how I am doing, and many times is first to say "Good Morning". We are also Facebook friends and I see that she is very open about her faith in God. I can legitimately say she is who she says she is. She has a decent job in sales/customer service. She wants me to come visit her, which eventually I'm willing to do, but I told her I want to learn more Spanish first. The part throwing me off is for about the past week she’s saying that she loves me very much, she's…

I posted here a while ago when I fell very heavy for some girl a few states away from me. At some point I tried posting here again but then I abstained from it entirely. My life is sort of back where it was before I took this month long back from programming and studying. Applying for jobs, doing interviews, studying DS algos. Basically a lot of hours in front of computers and books. Recently, I’ve been hanging out with my friend more and going to the gym a lot. I think I was getting really depressed from having been isolated for so long especially after tearing my quad muscle and that’s how I fell into this situation where I got tunnel vision for this girl. …

Howdy folks, I'm a 25 year old guy and I've done e-dating in the past with friends I made online, usually other artists who are a part of bigger artist circles. My last relationship was 3 years ago with my ex-girlfriend who lived a few states away. She developed cancer, which rocked the boat. Don't freak out - she survived! However, I'm a FTM (female-to-male) transitioner and she identified as a lesbian. So, ultimately, it didn't work. About a year after that time, I discovered I was bi-polar (as I was struggling heavily with depression) and sought therapy and medication for 2 years. I worked on myself as both a person and a budding young man for 3 years. I've b…

I posted in here before about meeting this person online and how I developed really strong feelings in a short period of time. I basically ignored everyone’s advice even thou they were all spot on about the right thing to do in the situation and kept talking to her anyways. I talk to her every night. I think I finally figured out that she uses sexting to keep men interested in her because she is lonely and afraid. I never realized this before, but I have been learning a lot about myself by talking to this girl. I guess I never knew that women did that type of stuff. Also, I told her that I can’t do that with her or that I wasn’t interested in it anymore bec…

I met this girl online. That same night she wanted to sext with me via voice call. I could tell that it was not normal but decided whatever because I hadn’t done anything like that in a while. Turns our I really liked doing it with her. And I basically ended up talking to her every night for the past week. At some point I was worried that she was just addicted to doing this sort of thing and I didn’t want to keep pursuing an online relationship with her if we would never meet. Long story short I broke it off with her which didn’t go well. Apparently she like fell in love with me in such a short span of time. I haven’t felt like this with anyone in such a long ti…

I am 35 and divorced. Leaving in my small hometown since my marriage ending last year. We have been in quarantine since autumn 2020, hence trips from one place to another are prohibited. Generally I didn’t approve relationships through Internet, I considered them superficial. One day I received a friend request from a guy with whom we had a common friend.I accepted it. We started communication last December and gradually we ended up communicate the whole day. He was 45 and divorced, no kids as me. He had a long term relationship after his divorce with a 15 year younger girl and worked as private security. He admired me mostly for my physique (when younger during my studie…

About 5 months back, I met a guy through a dating app and we began a "virtual relationship". He lived one state over. We talked everyday, we always facetimed everyday, there were text messages throughout the day for the past 5 months. We talked about everything - he was always respectful (no sexting or anything like that), and I actually believed, this was leading to a relationship that would happen in real life, once COVID lifted restrictions. He always made contact first thing in the morning and throughout the day. He said he was divorced as am I but seemed to have obligations to his kids, which I understood. We shared a lot of our deepest experiences, painful experi…

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I'm so desperate. I've been talking to a guy for 1 month online. I've seen him once 2 years ago at a party, but never talked to him in real life. After 1 month of talking online, we had an argument and I told him to stop texting me. I had a reason for it, he did me wrong. After that, we didn't talk for 2 weeks, we didn't text each other. After 2 weeks I sent him a random snap because I care about him and I miss him. Eventually, we started snapping each other back (evening of Wednesday 24th March). We were making jokes, having fun, he also said some nice things to me. We were doing pretty well. He went to sleep before me, so the last snaps I sent him he opened the next mor…

I’m not necessarily worried about a breakup, but I’d still like some advice. Me (M) and my partner (F) are both 18. We live around 300 miles away from each other, but I’ve seen her many times over the last 3 to 4 years. We both say that this is the relationship that will lead to marriage, and I truly believe that. Although, it’s very hard for me to trust anyone I know, because of the lying problems I’ve encountered (and even had myself) over the past. First problem- she says that I take way too long to respond to her texts, yet she is the one who ignores mine, and says things like “I didn’t see it until now” as a frequent reason/excuse. She usually calls me after 5-12 hou…

Hey everyone, Just a quick request for advice probably from the women reading. I rematched on Bumble lately with a woman that I'd like to get to know. After 4 or 5 messages where she gave me a little more information about herself she told me she was taking a break from the app for a few days but gave me her number if I wanted to find her on Whatsapp. I texted my number and the day after asked how she was and added a funny story for which she replied "haha. Thanks X". She never elaborated to open a further conversation. I'm new to these apps after a break following a long term relationship so, wonder if I should let her come to me as I don't wan…

Y’all...I just really need to vent because I can’t even believe there are people out in the world who do this to other people. In early January, a guy messaged me on Facebook after I left a comment on his band’s Facebook page. We get to chatting and find out we have a lot in common. I’m recently divorced, but haven’t actively been dating. I figured if someone showed up in my life I would go with the flow. He lives 1000 miles away but is originally from where I live, and has plans to move back once he receives the COVID vaccination. He said he had only planned to stay out there for 6 months, but then the pandemic happened so it left him in a holding pattern. He …

Help please!!! 2 months ago I started talking to a guy online and we hit it off right away. With lockdown we have been unable to meet up but we have constantly spoke about finally meeting up, all the things we will be able to do together, he has spoken about us being a couple, we have had virtual dates (movie nights, zoom, phone calls) and he sent me flowers for Valentine’s Day!! I feel like things were going well and we liked each other as much as you can without actually meeting someone. for about a week now I feel like things have been off - he takes longer to reply, all conversation about the future has stopped, he has stopped being affectionate and attentiv…

Hello! So, I know this is trivial but I just wanted some advice (or someone to tell me to stop being stupid) 😅 I've been texting a guy for over a month now (we matched on a dating app) but haven't met irl yet. He's asked me out a couple times but I've postponed due to different issues including lockdown etc. In the first few weeks after we matched we'd text back and forth throughout the day. Once he warned me that he was going to be busy for a few days so his replies wouldn't be as regular, and apologised after those few days and explained what he'd been up to. Recently he's only texted me once a day (lucky if I get more than that) and it's usually late at night. He sen…

Hello, so I met this guy online, we instantly clicked and we have many things in common. He's 28, has a son from a previous relationship, a new business and lives 3 hours away from me. At the beginning it was all great, we talked every day. Then one day he disappeared for 4 days, I honestly thought that he ghosted me. He came back and we made amends. After his act of disappearence I became even more anxious about the situation. Oh, I forgot to mention that we have had sexting. That's something that I never did before so I think that made me more vulnerable. So one day I decided I had enough of that anxiety and he was giving me mixed signals, so I decided to take some spac…

I met this man online and gave him my snapchat, we have a 16 year difference. I'm 15 and hes 31. He's cool, nice and always compliments me. He treats me special. I obviously ask him about our age difference but he's ok with it and says he likes girls my age anyway. I understand that I'm not a little kid anymore but the age of consent is 17 where he is from. Im under that. But when I forget about his age, he gives me great advice and never treats me bad. Some things he does weird me out, but thats just his personality. I trust him now. He dosent exactly force me to do anything I dont want to, he just knows whats best for me and tells me its going to be ok. My parents don…