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My husband was sharing with me some porn he was looking at and I was feeling flirty so I sent him a b00b pic and said “these are better” trying to start a fun convo and he replied with “those are nice, the others are videos though and they are posted 😏” this immediately made me feel bad. I explained that sometimes he says things that dig at my confidence and he doesn’t seem to understand why. I felt like he just told me why my pic wasn’t better but he says I make him walk on eggshells because he never knows what to say anymore so he prefers to let me do my own thing because I misinterpret the things he says. Help! Am I being difficult?

When I was younger, I know my siblings and I engaged in sexual intercourse. It was often. I think it started when my mom started neglecting us to to drug use but I cannot remember how it all started or the first time. When i was in 5th grade I remember my older and the rest of my siblings had me lie down legs spread and have sex with my little brother (4-6) years old. I have been open about it with my mom and grandmother who raised me but I never told them the part where I had sex with my little brother. My brother who is 22 years old now is very secretive, he doesn’t talk much or socialize a lot(to our knowledge). I want to tell them but I don’t know what to do. While i …

Hello everyone. I have been with my husband for 9 years now and he has only tried to go down on me twice and its only ever a tongue flick or two. Then he just freaks out and stops. I go down on him almost every time before sex and sometimes just for the hell of it. He says he has a fear of it because his brother got a disease from his wife . But could there be another reason. I mean he was very inexperienced when we first got together.

I went on a very impressive first date about a month ago. Like ridiculously romantic - invitation to the beach to watch sunset with a bottle of wine and drinks afterwards. He gave me the most beautiful kiss just as the red sun disappeared from view. Due to me having to travel and him having to travel and deal with a complicated death in the family, our second date was only last Saturday. We kept in-touch a bit (through texts) while away and he mentioned he would like to meet up for dinner once we both returned. Also, I bumped into him at a local restaurant the day before he texted me for date #2. When he texted me to meet up last week, I literally started to shak…

Hello, I need some advice. My boyfriend (24) and I (25) have been together for 3 and a half years now. He is very loving, thoughtful, and caring. He pays for everything and treats me well. However, the one thing that does bother me, is that he talks about having a threesome often when we have sex. When we do it, he would some storytelling, where he brings up my sister and other female friends. I would play along because it is in the moment, but deep down inside, I am bothered by it. He says he wants both of us to do sexual things with them. We have sex 3x a week. He would bring them up 2 out of 3 times a week. Is it normal? I have low self esteem and I brought it up to h…

Hello, I have been seeing a girl for a while and things seem ok. However, my penis size is below average. The foreplay is great, and the sex is mind blowing, but, when she gets a bit drunk, she tells me that my penis is the smallest she’s ever had. When we have penetrative sex, she wants “more” but I physically don’t have enough! She tells me she’s sorry the next day, but I feel very emasculated as I know some of the people she has had sex with in the past, which plays on my mind as I know that their “equipment” is bigger then mine. What do I do?

I have been to a lovely steam room several times for therapeutic reasons. It loosens up my tight muscles and helps me sleep. Tonight I was on the upper level and a man started talking to me. Fine I thought, no harm in chatting. Of course we are all in bathing suits. Mine is nothing sexy at all. More like competitive swimmer attire. He kept looking at my legs and saying "wow your legs are awesome". He went on to discuss his back problems and asked if I knew how to tweeq his stuck shoulder joint. Really, is this proper decoram for a public steam room or am I simply socially daft?

Hi guys, I feel really silly writing here but I don't have anyone to talk to. Yesterday night I had anal sex with my Tinder date. It was our first date and we really had a great time together. After getting a little bit tipsy together he initiated a conversation about sex and somewhere along the topic anal sex popped up. I told him that I've once tried anal sex before but had to stop because it hurt to much. He asked me if I would try it again and I sad yes. After a while we started to get intimate. After having vaginal sex we initiated anal sex. The pain was manageable. He was very cold during sex though, no facial expressions, no eye contact, no noises, no talking …

I’ve been with my boyfriend a year and nothing like this has happened before… Last night he and I got very drunk. When we got home I felt dizzy and tired so went straight to bed. Soon after he came upstairs, undressed me, groped me and tried to have sex with me. All the while I was just lying there, eyes closed and unresponsive. There’s no way I could have or would have consented. I just froze and didn’t really know what to do. After he couldn’t get it in me he turned over and masturbated next to me while watching porn. This morning he is claiming to have no memory other than masturbating. He looks very upset with himself and sorry. He says that he was so drunk he li…

Asking women only. In what order of progression for sex is the best? Doing an story for my job. Wondering how you like sex to go, from beginning to end. Thank you for any help

Hi all! So after various unsatisfying relationships (to the point I believed I was asexual - absolutely not the case, as it turns out!) and extremely limited experience in very minor BDSM (I think that's how it's called? - not sure on the vernacular, sorry 😅 - not an expert on this) things, my partner and I think we have found a happy and mutually fulfilling compromise between my needs for a deep, meaningful connection on all levels and his personal preferences. I guess there is a specific term for this too, but I don't go by labels. Anyway. My (general) question: Does anyone have tips to ensure the perfect relationship we have worked hard on establi…

I really need some advice. So tonight my friend's brother(27, m) texted me(19, f) if I think I would give a good bj then asked for boob pics. I told him I was uncomfortable with the pics. And I know he is out with friends right now at a hotel cause of my best friend (his sis, 21, f). So I ask if he knows it's me he is texting, thinking he meant to send the texts to someone else. He says he's not and that he knew, so I start to freak out cause I never really saw him in that way and there were no hints before any of this that he was interested. Next thing I know I receive a dong pic and asked about it. I don't reply and he send another one. I'm really upset and guilty right…

Is it normal for men to not have precum? I dont know if i dont produce or if i produce a small amount of it. All i can assume is that there's no pre leaking out

So my wife & I are planning our first threesome with a friend of mine I've known my entire life and who she has met a few times and hit it off with well enough. He and I have talked about it a lot and she and I have talked about it a lot. There will be some guy on guy stuff (basically hands and oral) that we are all looking forward to. We have a game plan down of when it's happening: he's coming to visit for a weekend from about 14 hours away for a weekend event, and we'll do our thing on night 2/3. The only things I'm hung up on (since I'm kind of coordinating things) is how to initiate it, and what to have on in the background, if anything. Any advice? We'll be…

I been seeing this guy its a fiends with beniftis today he decided he didn't want to continue doing it anymore becuse it was hurting me which it was I would text him the next day over and over making it seem like this arrangement was hurting me I would tell him I am good with the arrangement but then the next day I would act differently about it he gave me lots of chances finally he said I can't do it anymore . Broke it off with me i wanted him to tell me he didn't want to see me to my face so I went to his house when I got there we talked about how he might be developing feelings for me but he knows I won't be good to continue this but then he keeper saying that I look…

Hello everyone, I'm looking for some advice as I've never encountered this situation so I'm unsure what to think of it. I met a guy and we have gone out a few times. On the second date we shared our first kiss and he immediately proceeded to appreciate my butt. By I appreciate I mean not only giving me compliments on how good it looks but also touching it. He even put his hand down my pants to caress it. On our third date while I was putting something in the car he immediately proceeded to stand behind me so that his member was touching my butt. He didn't do anything else other than stand behind me so that he could feel my butt touching him. It just feels weird when …

Please note, this does contain some descriptions of sex as they are relevant to the issue I have. I have been seeing my ex frequently for the past several months as we've slowly been rekindling our desire to get back together. We have had several very positive interactions. She recently has came out as bisexual and was involved with a woman, who is still in her life and she may be sexually active with. She has told me she is interested in a future with me but needs some time to process her sexuality, her work stresses, and how to handle the other woman. She has often said she feels very guilty that this woman is still in her life, believes it's short-term, but doesn'…

Hello! Here is my story: I had my first time with my boyfriend a long time ago, but it wasn't the way I wanted it to be. I felt pressured to do it because he wouldn't stop asking every night I stayed over or just other nights when we were texting he would bring it up and even if I explain to him he was still trying to convince me with his explanations. Sometimes he asked a few times a night and often he touched me down there and even if I removed his hand he would put it back there. I really wasn't ready for a step like that yet and as a girl I wanted it to be special and romantic if it happens. One night he asked again and I said yes because I thought that maybe I w…

So for anyone who wasn't following my original post, here it is: So I actually do really like this guy. I think he's really nice and genuine from what I know of him so far. We also do have a few things in common, even though it may not seem like it from the outset. We messaged each other every day and on our third in person date I came to his place for dinner. He cooked dinner for me and we had a few alcoholic drinks and watched a movie. I was actually feeling kinda drunk and got my confidence up and I really wanted to kiss him. I started cuddling up to him and holding his hand and stuff. He said he'd been trying to be respectful and not come on to me or anythi…

I occasionally *** with this guy. We have sort of a booty call thing which is pretty straight forward. Last time he invited me over and we had sex and after a week I invited him for whiskey at my place but kind of last minute. He said he's going out with his brother and if he doesn't drink much he might pass by but probably not tonight. Told him it's cool, to have fun and to text me later if he'll make it but to not worry cause we can do this another time and he said, yes exactly. I didn't think it needed a response so I left it there. He didn't write to me but given that we are casually ***ing I don't really expect regular communication. I haven't texted him as when I'm …

I’m a bisexual female. I’ve always been more into women than men, but I am also a Christian and know based on the religion that it’s wrong. So I stopped acting on my feelings for women and decided to date men. I fell in love with a man and we are married and have a child together. The thing is...I have never enjoyed making out with my husband and the sex I have with him has never been as enjoyable as with a woman. I’ve spoken to him about my wants and desires in the bedroom but he does not change. I’ve asked him if it would be ok if I could have an opportunity to fool around with women. He could even watch. He turned that down. Idk what to do. I am going crazy and want to…

My husband and I have been in a relashionship for 12 years. For a while now our sex life as been unfulfilling. The problem lies in the differences in our libido and preferences. I'm much more physical than he is, even in the most mundane aspects of our daily lifes. I like longer hugs, deeper kisses and a lot more touching than he does. Luckily, we could find some compromise and live happy and generally peaceful lives. However, when it comes to sex, our needs are too discrepant. I love having sex and if it were up to me, we would have it every day. Although he likes sex, he feels it's quite tiring and doesn't want/need it as often. He feels comfortable havin…

Hey all, I've been dating this girl for a while now, things are going well and I hope it keeps progressing. We haven't had sex yet and when the topic came up she said, "Do you not think it's too soon?" Now I totally respect boundaries and said to her I'm happy to go at whatever pace makes her comfortable, it's only confused me as I know with her previous partners it happened a lot quicker. Some of those partners were long term, some very short. I just don't know why it's different with me. I ask myself, could it be that she's changed as a person since then, or does she not find me as attractive as them or anything else that co…

I’m just sort of curious about this subject. I have sort of been dabbling in this forum where there are a lot of girls who where collars and considered themselves to be submissive. Is this just an act to attract males, there’s some part of me that acknowledges that people want to be part of communities and feel connected to others which share mutual interests. The part that’s confusing to me is has anyone been in a vanilla and bdsm relationship, is there much of a difference in the sexual frequency of the individuals or is it just a different type of play that people engage in?

A girl I hang out with a lot tells me occasionally that she wants me to flirt with her / doesn't know why I don't. I dont really know what she means though, and I don't know why she wants me to. I've asked her several times if she would be my girlfriend and she says she doesn't want a relationship and doesn't want to date me. We've known each other for 8 or 9 years and we've had sex probably a dozen times in the last few months (but never before january of this year). So I'm not sure where she's going with this "flirt with me" thing, and I guess I don't even know how...is it just more sexual innuendo talk when we hang out, and more flirty touching? And why does she want …