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Hello everyone, I'm looking for some advice as I've never encountered this situation so I'm unsure what to think of it. I met a guy and we have gone out a few times. On the second date we shared our first kiss and he immediately proceeded to appreciate my butt. By I appreciate I mean not only giving me compliments on how good it looks but also touching it. He even put his hand down my pants to caress it. On our third date while I was putting something in the car he immediately proceeded to stand behind me so that his member was touching my butt. He didn't do anything else other than stand behind me so that he could feel my butt touching him. It just feels weird when …

Please note, this does contain some descriptions of sex as they are relevant to the issue I have. I have been seeing my ex frequently for the past several months as we've slowly been rekindling our desire to get back together. We have had several very positive interactions. She recently has came out as bisexual and was involved with a woman, who is still in her life and she may be sexually active with. She has told me she is interested in a future with me but needs some time to process her sexuality, her work stresses, and how to handle the other woman. She has often said she feels very guilty that this woman is still in her life, believes it's short-term, but doesn'…

Hello! Here is my story: I had my first time with my boyfriend a long time ago, but it wasn't the way I wanted it to be. I felt pressured to do it because he wouldn't stop asking every night I stayed over or just other nights when we were texting he would bring it up and even if I explain to him he was still trying to convince me with his explanations. Sometimes he asked a few times a night and often he touched me down there and even if I removed his hand he would put it back there. I really wasn't ready for a step like that yet and as a girl I wanted it to be special and romantic if it happens. One night he asked again and I said yes because I thought that maybe I w…

So for anyone who wasn't following my original post, here it is: So I actually do really like this guy. I think he's really nice and genuine from what I know of him so far. We also do have a few things in common, even though it may not seem like it from the outset. We messaged each other every day and on our third in person date I came to his place for dinner. He cooked dinner for me and we had a few alcoholic drinks and watched a movie. I was actually feeling kinda drunk and got my confidence up and I really wanted to kiss him. I started cuddling up to him and holding his hand and stuff. He said he'd been trying to be respectful and not come on to me or anythi…

I occasionally *** with this guy. We have sort of a booty call thing which is pretty straight forward. Last time he invited me over and we had sex and after a week I invited him for whiskey at my place but kind of last minute. He said he's going out with his brother and if he doesn't drink much he might pass by but probably not tonight. Told him it's cool, to have fun and to text me later if he'll make it but to not worry cause we can do this another time and he said, yes exactly. I didn't think it needed a response so I left it there. He didn't write to me but given that we are casually ***ing I don't really expect regular communication. I haven't texted him as when I'm …

I’m a bisexual female. I’ve always been more into women than men, but I am also a Christian and know based on the religion that it’s wrong. So I stopped acting on my feelings for women and decided to date men. I fell in love with a man and we are married and have a child together. The thing is...I have never enjoyed making out with my husband and the sex I have with him has never been as enjoyable as with a woman. I’ve spoken to him about my wants and desires in the bedroom but he does not change. I’ve asked him if it would be ok if I could have an opportunity to fool around with women. He could even watch. He turned that down. Idk what to do. I am going crazy and want to…

Asking women only. In what order of progression for sex is the best? Doing an story for my job. Wondering how you like sex to go, from beginning to end. Thank you for any help

My husband and I have been in a relashionship for 12 years. For a while now our sex life as been unfulfilling. The problem lies in the differences in our libido and preferences. I'm much more physical than he is, even in the most mundane aspects of our daily lifes. I like longer hugs, deeper kisses and a lot more touching than he does. Luckily, we could find some compromise and live happy and generally peaceful lives. However, when it comes to sex, our needs are too discrepant. I love having sex and if it were up to me, we would have it every day. Although he likes sex, he feels it's quite tiring and doesn't want/need it as often. He feels comfortable havin…

Hey all, I've been dating this girl for a while now, things are going well and I hope it keeps progressing. We haven't had sex yet and when the topic came up she said, "Do you not think it's too soon?" Now I totally respect boundaries and said to her I'm happy to go at whatever pace makes her comfortable, it's only confused me as I know with her previous partners it happened a lot quicker. Some of those partners were long term, some very short. I just don't know why it's different with me. I ask myself, could it be that she's changed as a person since then, or does she not find me as attractive as them or anything else that co…

I’m just sort of curious about this subject. I have sort of been dabbling in this forum where there are a lot of girls who where collars and considered themselves to be submissive. Is this just an act to attract males, there’s some part of me that acknowledges that people want to be part of communities and feel connected to others which share mutual interests. The part that’s confusing to me is has anyone been in a vanilla and bdsm relationship, is there much of a difference in the sexual frequency of the individuals or is it just a different type of play that people engage in?

A girl I hang out with a lot tells me occasionally that she wants me to flirt with her / doesn't know why I don't. I dont really know what she means though, and I don't know why she wants me to. I've asked her several times if she would be my girlfriend and she says she doesn't want a relationship and doesn't want to date me. We've known each other for 8 or 9 years and we've had sex probably a dozen times in the last few months (but never before january of this year). So I'm not sure where she's going with this "flirt with me" thing, and I guess I don't even know how...is it just more sexual innuendo talk when we hang out, and more flirty touching? And why does she want …

I was giving my partner oral sex, he was moaning as if he was into it, and then he pauses and starts talking about a female we both know, he noticed wasn’t at an occasion we were just at. he first said i don’t think it’s the right time to say this, then proceeded to say it anyway. I stopped oral and got quiet. took a while to process everything. is my partner just not into me? why is my partner stopping oral pleasure to mention this? am i in the wrong for being uncomfortable? should i just let it go?

I'm curious.

So I have been with my BF 51m 50f for 3 years. Sex first 6 mths amazing. Then slowed down. For last 14/15 months no sex at all. Had lots of excuses... then said my piles put him off. He does love me but I want sex/intermacy. He's even stopped snogging incase it leads to sex and in case he then cannot follow it through! I want sex he said he would step up after our last argument but 3 months on stoll no change! What do I do....

Hello, I've been dating a girl for about a month and our relationship is building up nicely. She hasn't had a great deal of previous partners, likewise nor have I. It's kind of meant that in my mind I don't feel threatened with being inadequate or anything and I have nothing to be jealous or fearful of. My ex though, she had a lot more partners than me. Of which she said came from a time in her life where she had left an abusive relationship and was desperately searching for someone to find her attractive, or want her. When we got together she referenced how she was no longer like this and regrets how she was. For some reason I keep think…

I’ve been married for 2 months now. Been living in our own home for 4 weeks. Our sex life has never been better. My husband came down with the flu last week and had a serious case of the man flu. He didn’t want to come close to me as he didn’t want to get me sick. In this time I was craving his attention and was horny but he refused to do anything so he didn’t get me sick. A week later I noticed that he was getting better. I had a shower and put some lingerie on and my clothes on top and sat on the couch tossing up whether to make a move before or after he goes for his shower. I decided to wait. After his shower I made a move and one thing lead to another and we started h…

Tips on dealing with sudden needs of romantic affection I’m 23 (M) and have been single my whole life. I don’t see it as something negative or something I should dwell on. I love my job, enjoy hanging out with my friends and spend my free time reading books I really enjoy. I consider myself very happy and fortunate to be where I am. However, there are moments where I can’t help wanting romantic gestures of affection. What do I mean? Being held in a loving, nurturing way by a woman I love and loves me. Not the kind of love you get from a parent or a friend, but that feminine touch that makes us float and intoxicated with…

After I was cheated on in December, I have made a long review of my love and sex life, and I realized that other than my ex husband, since 2000, I haven't had a boyfriend. Just many relationships, you know the kind, the "we don't need a label, our love is stronger than that" only to be ghosted or exchanged for someone else, and the explanation, if there is one is usually "we never labeled our relationship because it wasn't one". Is this it? Is my great love story just a handful of bad experiences with jerks? I am young, I am not ready to bid my sex life farewell, but I refuse to accept that the only way to have a sex life is to sleep around with a bunch of jerks that…

This might be a strange one, sorry. I need some advice regarding increasingly worrying behavior my friend is showing Some background: we’re both straight guys in our mid-30s, he’s a few years older than me. We’ve been very close friends during childhood and our teenage years, then drifted apart in our 20s. We’ve been in touch over the years, but really only reconnected in the last 12 months. I’ve been back in the town for over a year due to COVID and remote work. Here’s the thing, he’s been through some really rough times in the last few years – bad ongoing divorce (his wife’s decision), moved back with his parents, can’t find work due to health problems. Unders…

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. He had always been quick to orgasm in the bedroom but over the last year and a half, he orgasms in less than 30 seconds. In January, I sat him down and tried to figure out what the problem was, I told him I was feeling unsatisfied and undesired - as he was never the one to initiate sex. It was always me to be the one to start things. He told me he had a porn addiction, and he would orgasm quick when watching porn which therefore programmed his brain to ejaculated quickly in the bedroom. He swore to me he would stop watching porn and try to rewire his brain so our sex could last longer. Fast forward to today, I snooped on …

Hello. My husband and I have been married for just under 6 years. We are 30 years old. We haven’t had sex in 2 years because he is ready for children and I am not quite yet. So anytime we try and get intimate, he gets bitter and is turned off because I’m not ready to get pregnant. I literally haven’t had sex in almost 2 years because my husband only wants to if he knows it will end with a baby being made. Help!

Hi everyone, I posted this in another forum a while back and all I got was judgmental nonsense, so I ask you to please be respectful. I was married for 7 years until 2019 when my ex-husband wanted to dissolve the marriage. I feel that until that moment, we had a very good marriage with the exception of our sex life. Shortly into our relationship, I noticed that my sexual drive was a lot higher than his. I tried to talk about it, but in the end he told me that I talked our sex life to death, and I guess it's not untrue, because towards the end of our marriage our sex life was basically non-existent. I'm now in a new relationship, and although it was like a sexua…

This question is based on a previous post I made about my boyfriend getting moody when I don’t want to have sex. After reading the replies to that, me and him had a conversation, and it led me to want to know how others view sex in a relationship. I’m mostly looking for a male perspective, but of course I would like to hear from anyone who has answers (whether in a relationship or not). feel free to simply answer the title with your opinion “how Important is sex in a relationship”? But below I have some related/unrelated questions that I would like to hear about as well. Main Questions: how often do you feel you should be having sex with your partne…

AMP Virginity Story I originally went hoping for handjob. After the massage she asked what I wanted. I spontaneously asked for a bj . She claimed I had a "long" (but not thick) penis. I couldn't feel anything over the condom during the bj. Plus it lacked technique or enthusiasm. She asked again if I wanted intercourse. I agreed because the bj was bad and it looked like she really didn't want to do it. Given my "long penis" she signaled until what point she could take the penis, and told me to try not to go to deep. Seemed about 4 to 5 inches only in my opinion (I thought these ladies were supposed to be professional smh). At the time I didn't think the depth wo…

Hello, I’m not sure who will see this as it’s my first time using this website (hope I’m posting this right), but I feel like I need an outside perspective on this. This may be long as I want to minimize the amount of unknown information to make this non one sided or biased. The main issue: my online boyfriend (age20) gets very moody when I (21) am not in the mood to do any sexual activity. context: we have been together for about a year now and since 2021 started I’ve noticed this issue coming up a lot. When he’s in the mood for sex (this is an online relationship so I’m talking about phone sex) and I’m not it’s like a switch goes off; he’ll become qu…