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So the thing is very complex, I like a girl on my classroom but when I confess her she was committed with anthore man. But talking to her even after her "No" she started reveling about her relationship problems. Her first year was good with him but over the 15-20 months they had almost 5+ big Big arugments ( block and unblock from social media), now she had promise me that if any one more agrument in next 20-22 months she will be with me. I had no issue being option of her, I just love her and want her. My question is will be there any fights in next 20-24 months 😌? I just want her. I know any fight she will be mine. Will I get her? What are chances of fight to be happen?…

(Using the app we met on) I broke my no contact rule with my LD ex boyfriend who broke up with me😔 I was out having a good time for pre Halloween festivities with my friends. Unfortunately liquid courage gave me a boost and my get up was creepy but HOT so I wanted him Too see what he is missing. I thought certainly he would bite but all he said was “be safe have fun”. I feel like an idiot for reaching out and thinking he would actually compliment me 🥺 We haven’t spoken in over 2weeks now and last he said to me was “I loved you but in the end I turned my feelings off & I made it about physical attraction” <~~ May have not been to that extent verbiage wise but …

My soon to be ex after being with him for almost 9 plus years did this::: he just had a one night and had just met her at their mutual friends house who introduced them that was on Father’s Day. September 4th He left with her for almost 10 days when he was severely intoxicated. He came back and asked me to forgive him. I was dumb and I did. We went through counseling and changed his number. 1 entire month later he was severely intoxicated once again and she picked him up. We haven’t had any contact with each other as I blocked his number. It’s been 12 days and they both live at a mutual friends house who introduced them. She is going through her divorce and now my…

I found a text on my boyfriends phone from another man about hooking up. I then snooped on his phone and found a website where he placed an ad seeking men for discreet encounters. I confronted him and he became very enraged. Called me some names then went silent and left. I gave it a few days then sent him a message saying if this is how he feels we should expect had a conversation about it that I'm here for friendship and if he needed to talk. He quickly accused me of trying to make myself feel better, that he did those things but didnt act on them so he's not wrong. Conversation got ugly and now I'm blocked from social media and his phone. I know going through hi…

Foreground information: I am a 22 year old female, and I'm not used to online dating. Real life dating, especially during the pandemic has become much harder, and I wasn't planning to fall in love with someone online and I need advice. So a couple months ago (I want to say 5 or so) I met this girl on a discord server about movie discussion (I'm a big film nerd, and the girlfriend in question Lucy is big into anime), and the two of us had a lot of chemistry. I wanted to keep things casually, because I'm typically shy, but I ended up falling for this person way harder than I originally thought. She is struggling with depression and undisclosed trauma, so it's a …

Hi, don’t really know whether to call her an ex or not but basically was someone I was dating that we on path to be in a relationship but didn’t workout I did post a topic about it not that long ago if anyone fancies a read. Anyway speaking to my mate tonight he was friends with her and somehow a friend of hers got talking about him and she messaged him to see how he was etc. And in that convo she mention how Am I doing, am I ok and also she thinks the world of me? Just wondering what she’s trying to do is it a way for her to try reach out to me without messaging me? Haven’t really had this before so just curious how others view it? Don’t worry I don’t have…

I have been dating a girl for about half a year, and lately I have been wondering whether the relationship between us is healthy and if it should go on. The reasons why I think I should breakup are: 1. I feel that I am attracted to other girls more than to her 2. We don't have enough things in common. We like different music\series\movies\food\books\... We also have different taste in things. 3. We have different lifestyles, I am an engineer, I like to read books, learn things, I always look for ways to improve my life and have a better future. and she spends most of her time with friends, or watching TV, or just spending time doing nothing at home. 4. …

So, I've been friends with this girl for 8 years, strictly that, and within those 8 years, we were dating other people, and that never bothered our friendship or affected it in anyway. But in late 2020, I noticed that she started to show more interest and sexual tension towards me for the first time in the 8 years in friendship. I went along with it and we ended up going on dates and eventually, we hooked up for the first time, after that she was really submissive, always calling me, texting me, etc. We liked each other, but we agreed that we shouldn't date exclusively and take things slow, but around April 2021, she was becoming distant and I backed off, didn't talk to h…

Hey! me and my partner have been together on and off for a year, we have had our ups and downs, we are happy together but some days we fight and we are not happy with each other. I love him, and we went out on a date on his birthday, he enjoyed it, we went out on the lake on a swan, and we had a good time, after that we argued and he moved on with my best friend when he came running back to me saying he missed me etc. we are currently together and we often fight but we are happy together.he often cheated on me and I am so silly for taking him back but i cant deny the love i have for him, my best mate pushed her things up and he fell in love and cheated on me saying things…

hey! I just feel like I need any advice regarding sex. I feel very egoistic in bed. I enjoy what we do in bed with this guy, I like the beginning part, foreplay and so on, it gets us both very excited, but I have an orgasm in the first 3 minutes after foreplay and that's it, I need to sleep after it and relax... I don't need that much stimulation, I don't need penetration actually, and if we start penetration I get bored of it in a couple of minutes and I just go for the orgasm and that's it. So that's the awkward moment where I have been satisfied, but he not yet, and I just need to sleep, I feel like I am not making any effort to satisfy him too afterwards, but …

Hi, so recently been dating a girl I genuinely found a great connection with. Nothing was rushed and had a natural flow to things. All of a sudden she stopped talking and texting like we where doing, seemed to be too busy to meet up again. At first she messaged saying that right now ain't the right time to be getting involved with anyone, with personal reasons she had, that was done I accepted that, said we could meet up for a coffee sometime. A few weeks later I messaged asking if she wanted a quick catch up over a coffee, to which then she replied it's probably best not to as regards us becoming a couple, she feels something is missing and said she just knows she will l…

Last night the guy I’ve been getting to know invited me over to hang at his house to watch a Halloween movie. We were sitting together and I snuggled into him and fell asleep (embarrassing part #1). He woke me up when the movie was over and I said “Oh God Frank, I’m sorry I fell asleep!” So embarrassing part #2 is I called him the wrong name. I felt crappy as soon as it happened and apologized, but he brushed it off and was like “well that’ll probably happen every now and again.” I am super embarrassed by these things. I don’t want him to feel like I was bored… in fact I was just comfortable and felt really relaxed with him. And secondly, do I need to sa…

I met a guy, we have a great time, every time he tells me he can't wait to see me. During the second time, we never have any intimate moments (kissing/ holding hands), I just loved to chat with him that's all, and think that he is super nice. I enjoyed the time with him a lot. I was worried at one point that he was not that interested because he had not made the move to get intimate. The third time we met, we went hiking, we chatted and hung out the whole day. Later, we decided to go to see a movie at his house. we started to hug each other during the movie. And later I went to his bedroom, we started to kiss, I could feel that he really liked kissing me. Then, I sta…

I met a guy couple months ago, first time I saw him, I really liked him, he was good looking, great hair. I had this good image about him. So the second time I saw him, I was really hyped. But when I saw him (morning time lots of light), I was kinda disappointed, I felt like he was not that good looking, he had bad skin, messy hair (the first time I met him at night I didn't really look at that), he does not have a good style(maybe just the second time didn't dress well). Just overall I was not super into him. He has a great personality and super nice though. Based on how he looked the second time I don't really like him. Is it ok to believe that you can change …

I am a 46 year old man that has been never married and single for a very long time. I am originally from India and have been living in the US for 20 years now Apart from dating apps I am also looking for women in Indian Matrimonial apps. A matrimonial app is similar to dating apps but more serious and geared towards marriage I matched with a woman living in New Jersey (I live in California). We both started talking through the app and then she gave me her phone number. In the very first phone call we found that there were some differences between us. She is from North India and speaks Hindi and is a vegetarian while I am from South India and do not speak Hindi a…

My best friend has had six partners in the past 4 years so there's only been about a month space maximum in between each one. I've noticed a pattern that she comes around, we spend a lot of time together and get real close when she's momentarily single. However once she starts heading into a relationship again, she's a lot more distant and its particularly exaggerated this time around. Her latest boyfriend is older than her and she's the happiest she's ever been and I'm ecstatic for her cause he treats her the best and has set a standard for her no other boyfriend has come close to. She's sure he's the one and it's the first time she's said this but I think he could…

I can not believe I am writing another I lost my best friend to suicide letter but I am . He was the first person I spoke to when I woke up and the last person that I would text good night. I could tell him anything and everything he would never judge me . He knew how to get me to talk . I wasn’t someone who found it easy to talk to people but with him it was different. I am just wondering what people believe happens to our soul once we are gone . Everyone has different beliefs . I was hoping that he would come visit me or let me know some how that he’s still here . This hurts so bad and I’m trying to process the information and deal with it the best that I can .

First, raising tiny human beings is hard...full stop there. I don't care if you have or don't have help...at the end of the day, your baby(ies) are your baby(ies), and your job 24/7 even if you are a stay at home parent or working parent. Dad, hubs, left for a traveling work position and will be gone till xmas, and then will be away for six weeks at a time. Yes, anyone can survive. But my eldest who's neurodiverse, has been on suicide watch since December, and in therapy twice a week, also lost his one good friend he's made at school who just upped and moved away without saying goodbye last week. In fact, I don't think the kid even knew, because they were chatting las…

I’m in love with my best friend. 2 years ago, we had the greatest summer of our lives. we tried to date but it ended up not working out because i was just young and irresponsible. we had a sad fall out but we’re friendly i guess. she went on and got a new boyfriend who she dated for 14 months. In august she broke up with her boyfriend. We started talking again and our old friendship made it easy for us to get close again. We started having feelings again, but this time i knew i was ready. We went through the talking stage for a month or so because she was still hurt from her breakup and obviously needed time. Eventually she told me she liked me but she was still…

My ex (LDR) only has come to me to satisfy his “sexual” needs. I will admit the times we had together the sex was AMAZING,but that’s it. I notice it was more ME trying to build a deeper emotional and mental bond but he kept me at arms length. He said “I love you” he said “I like you” first he even pursued the first meet Up, but he broke it off with me. Said he turned his feelings off and that I did not deserve him. Which the deserving part I feel Is a cop out because I KNOW WHAT I DESERVE(now I realize it’s not him) after a month of me chasing after him because I do honestly love him saw a whole future with him..well I’ve distanced myself hardly contact him. H…

So, I am a bit confused. Met this girl on Bumble and we almost immediately hit it off. Really flowing and natural conversations. From this we started to text everyday. We went on a date, and It went really well. She texted me that night about how much she enjoyed it. We even planned a follow up. Unforntuately her roommate got covid so we had to cancel. Anyways, we had kept texting all the time, I was never pushy or clingly, just went with the flow with what she was saying. The most I ever did was tell her that I liked her. She constantly told me how much she liked talking to me and how sweet I was and how good it felt that I was good to her. When I asked her to hang …

I was in a relationship for over 5 years. My ex was an alcoholic. He went to rebab 4 times. This year he was giving moral support to a coworker who lost her husband. She herself was already fooling around before her husband passed away. She introduced my husband to her friend. June Father’s Day he spent the night at her house but it was with her friend who filed for divorce in February. I caught them in the car doing it September 4th. That day he got severely intoxicated and had the 2 woman pick him up. September 13 he begs me to take him back. I was an idiot and I did. October 16th he got severely intoxicated again and started to provoke me and I told him I knew why he w…

I have this co-worker whom I've been crushing on and I've been trying to ask her out, but today I heard something that's been living in my head rent-free for the past few hours. Me, this girl, and one of our managers were working over in the Halloween section of our store and my manager asked this girl if she was dressing up for Halloween. I couldn't quite make out what my crush said, but then my manager asked if she was doing a couples costume, which I interpreted as her and a significant other doing a costume pairing together. Here's a little excerpt of the conversation: Manager: "So are you dressing up for Halloween?" Crush: (Indistinct) Manager: "S…

This first part was writen more than a month ago. Hello everybody. Lets begin by saying that last 3 weeks were happiest but also saddest in my life. Everything started when I met this girl at the party, we chated on instagram before and had an opportunity to meet up. At that party we vibed a lot and she told me that really she likes me. I said the same and we basically were extremely happy for the rest of the party which ended in 3 days. The problem was that she had a boyfriend and their relationship wasn’t that good. We decided to meet next day and talk sober. The next day I woke up and thought about it a lot and realized that what she was doing wa…

Ok I need help please me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 almost 3 months and we are long distance we live in different states. But we ft every day and text alot. Bit the past 3 days she has been distant which I noticed so I told her I would give her some space and I did she texted me that night and that's how I was doing and then called me and told me that she was going out with a friend to the movies next week and the she said he implying it's a guy friend but there going alone to see the new Halloween movie. And I'm a bit suspicious because it a guy from her work and she just started this job a week ago but she has insured me that if she ever thinks of cheat…