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Hi everyone..Little back story on my ex and I. We were LD for 6.5months we met on a messenger app Feb 2021 developed a bond.By July 2021 we met for the first time and our connection was very deep. In august I noticed his distance.He was less involved in our relationship.I continuously asked but he blamed his depression. I made plans to go visit him in his home town for a week long trip. In September I spent 6days with him he introduced me to his friends and even his family. I felt like we were developing a deeper part of our relationship. This man cooked for me and served me in my 35yrs never have i ever had a man do such a small meaningful gesture. One night wh…

I just don’t know what to do. I’ve been with my girlfriend for over two years now, but nothing feels great anymore. It started in April or May or so of this year when she told me one of my harmless interests made her uncomfortable, myself resorting to public forums in order to talk about the thing I was interested in. It wasn’t anything jarring, just a game I liked. She wasn’t willing to explain to me why it made her uncomfortable, but I respected her decision and simply didn’t discuss it around her. I realized after finding more friends irl and online that I stopped talking to her as much every day, with myself dropping my position as the usual first good morning te…

First of all, a little context: me and my girlfriend met at the end of 2019 during an semester of studies in europe (we are from Brazil). We got engaged, and in the start of 2020 we came back to our country, holding into our relationship despite the 700+km between us. So, the pandemic hit and true long distance relationship started. It was not a big problem at first, we both had to finish our degrees and we were pretty connected all the time, playing videogames, watching movies, 3+ hours of calls everyday, etc. Overall a pretty decent time. Then, the rules about quarentine got flexible and we started seeing each other in person again, let's say a week per month, and plann…

Im writing this just in case anything happens to me Dear XX It's been decades, years, months, days that i have written this letter. You might forgot about me since we've moved on and I know it's been a long time. I love you so much even though we broke up because of our childish reasons. We were wrong to ignore each other. I should've approached you out earlier but i was too childish thinking you are ignoring me on purpose. I dont know we even broke up to be honest. Why would you be silent FOR WEEKS if i made you mad? I wish you were being honest with me. Im sorry for being a emotional and negative person in the relationship. I went through a rough …

A month ago my ex is chasing me a, then all of a sudden she ask me how I feel about her. I still was still in love with her, but I couldn't tell her because she would try to take advantage. I don't admit it but then she tells me she use to have feelings for me, then tells me she only used me and said she been in contact with her the father of her children. I told I don't I care because I don't want her and I ask why she's contacting she couldn't answer the question and she hangs up. A couple weeks later she's back chasing me then gets cold again, she starts a fight up with me on purpose then blocks my number. I contact her on a burner number she tells me she blocked becau…

about a year ago while on a trip I met a guy and i didn't really want anything serious I didn't took things too seriously , I thought is just someone I met for fun and maybe never going to see eachother again, I came back to my hometown and we kept contact , things keep getting better and better and we saw each other in person 2 more times, and we fall for eachother ,the issues is that when we first I met him I lied about my age and for some stupid reason and my insecurities I told him I was 28 years but I was actually 30years old ,and he was 29 years old , since than I felt really bad about it and at the beginning I kept telling my self that this relation is long dis…

Heyho, I've (F18) recently met this guy (M23) when I was on vacation like 6h away from my home. I developed a crush on him and responded to his Instagram story. He answered pretty quickly for a few times (we were chatting via Instagram direct messages) and then he just stopped and didn't answer for like two days. I was bummed. But then, he replied to my Instagram story and asked me something about it, he complimented the drawings I upload on my insta and he even commented something on an old drawing of mine. Then I texted him back - he saw the message pretty quickly but hasn't responded for around five hours now. He's just giving me mixed signs, leaving me on …

My girlfriend and I started dating in college and we’ve been together for 2 years. She went off to grad school this fall and now we’re doing long distance. Before she moved to the different state she and I decided that I would move with her. But she said that when she was drunk and then the next day she said she wasn’t comfortable with it since she and I are both closeted and haven’t told our parents. She thinks that it would be obvious to everyone that we are dating if I followed her to her grad school. This summer she went to a bar and she was bragging to me how a guy told her he could make her squirt and then another guy later came up and kept kissing her cheek. She di…

Hey :) So, because I (18F) am a very shy person (I've never been diagnosed with social anxiety, but I relate to a lot of the symptoms), I have always been scared to date - scared to put myself out there and actually TALK to the people I like (scary thing). But some time ago, I have visited a city which is like 6 hours away from my home with my sister and we met a friend of hers there. And well, we spent some time together. Even though it was mostly my sister who talked to him, I developed a crush on him. (I don't think he really felt the same, although he spent one hour editing a picture which only I was on - he's into photography) My sister and I have been home…

Hello! Looking for some opinions/advice please. Last Christmas time I met a guy online and we just really hit it off. We spent hours on the phone, had Netflix dates through FaceTime and I felt like we began to like each other (as much as you can without meeting someone in person of course). He asked if I wanted to meet and I said yes but this was during lockdown so we physically couldn’t but we made plans to meet as soon as lockdown was lifted and this was something we spoke about quite often. However we both live in different parts of the UK and the covid lockdown kept being extended so our meeting up date kept getting pushed back. I found this really tough and…

Hi All My partner (USA, 42, 1 child, 1 dog, works in IT if that matters) and I (UK, 46, 2 children, no dogs - not keen on them - sorry 😅, University researcher) have been in a LDR since April 2018 and we are happier than ever. We communicate well, have very healthy conflict resolution skills (not that we argue much) and have been able to navigate the last 3 years with relative ease. People say LDRs are difficult but not for us - we must be outliers, despite meeting totally randomly at the worst time in our lives. Love sparked immediately, and we never looked back. Just like a dream, a perfect fairy-tale with our happy ending. Pennsylvania is his home county so h…

She broke up with me about a month ago and it’s been about 2 weeks of NC. We both have tumblrs but she doesn’t really use hers. When we were going through our rough patch, I posted there a lot with inspirational quotes or self-love quotes. I was feeling very insecure. I don’t know if she was reading them at that point or not. When she did break up with me I went straight to my tumblr to start word vomiting everything in my head about how I was feeling. (The stuff you don’t usually say out loud because your mind is a dangerous place). I was angry, I was sad, I was broken. I had gone 1 week NC and I decided since at that point we still hadn’t met yet (borders closed…

I have been talking to a really awesome girl and have developed very strong feelings for her over the time we have grown closer as friends. I share almost everything, including my dreams at night, and keep no secrets from her. She doesn't share my strong feelings but does share my caring and friendship feelings and has explained why she can't reciprocate otherwise yet, which includes past Trauma/Abuse and not being ready for something like that at this time as she wants to focus on herself first. I told her to take as much time as she needs and meant it and still do. We've yet to meet in person but have confirmed each others Identities and such and begun to develop trust.…

Hello friends, This is more of a vent then anything. It's been years since I've posted anything. for background me 44 her 41, So the Shut down happens. So what else is there to do, play video games and some of my favorites has some IRL friends that I reconnected with after a while. I have been single by choice for 4 years, I didn't want to deal with the BS of relationships and was perfectly ok with being alone. In the Gaming world, a 15 year friend tried playing match maker, I wasn't very happy about it but she introduced me to a person. And she was completely amazing, we hit it off from day one. It might seem silly but we got to know each other very well in a…

I've been talking to this guy for about 6 months now, we became friends when I was having a really difficult time, had a lot to deal with irl and not in a good position. He made my day better, we talked everyday for hours, and plus we were both in lockdown so we had a lot of time. I don't think I have connected that fast and that deep with anyone, and all I looked forward to back then was having a chat with him. The thing is, I never thought I would develop these feelings for him, so I told him on multiple occasions how I am not looking for a relationship or want to be in one, mostly because I have a lot of mental problems and didn't want to add someone that had to deal w…

My age is 28. A month ago I randomly sent a msg on whatsapp and there received by a woman. We started discussions and even went to becoming a partner in doing some freelance jobs togetherly. Interestingly, i have always attracted by women who were in the age of 30 and 35+ and really wanted to have an affair with a well-educated and a matured woman. And now it has become a reality because she is a mature and looks quite carrying about me. Every time, she is the one who initiate the conversation and call me often. And I'm really enjoying her company. She is married and have 3 kids and her husband is doing a job in a workshop in Saudi Arabia while she is living in Karachi. A…

I reallly like him, but it hasn't even been a whole week since we first talked. Even if he is genuine, how can he be sure that we would get to the next stage.

I was out with my friends at a bar in my hometown in California, A super cute boy approached me and asked to dance. We kissed and exchanged social media and left. He was from a different state about 600 miles away, and he was just visiting for the weekend. He asked if he could take me out on a date and I said I would love that. We met on a Saturday and planned our date for Monday but we ended up going back to the same bar and seeing each other again the next day on Saturday. We spent the whole night together, dancing, kissing and flirting. We went our separate ways, he was staying with a friend and I was staying with my parents (we are both 21 and In college). The next da…

So this is fairly complicated but I will try my best to explain the situation I am in. I met girl 1 the end of last year and we became really good friends and grew really close. She had told me multiple times that she just wanted to be friends as she had just gotten out of a toxic relationship. However, I failed to control my emotions and ended up falling in love with her just 4 months into our friendship. I told her that this is how I felt, even though we weren't dating, because I just wanted to be honest with her. We tried to put that behind us and move forward as friends but as you can expect it didn't last long. She felt as if there was a disconnect and she want…

The gist: Male and Female, mid to late 20's and 30's. We’ve started our long-distance relationship 2 months ago - We spend a lot of time playing online games. In the past week, we’ve spoken about two guys that bug me in one way or another. And this morning I woke up with a heavy heart and clouded mind. I thought and hoped we closed this matter last night… Should I, How do I drop this? forget this? ? guy1 who flirts with her while I’m in the same game lobby. I noticed when we play with him, her signs of affection for me disappear. I’ve expressed that I wish her signs of affection wouldn’t lessen when he enters the lobby. She expressed that she only did that beca…

Hey guys, So I started dating this guy about 2 months ago. We've never met in person. We were introduced through two mutual friends. And from the very first day, we really hit it off and have so much in common. We talk on the phone every day and I can really see a future with him. He lives a six-hour plane ride away from me and I was supposed to go see him last week. But due to covid, the trip got canceled last minute (He had already travelled to the city we were supposed to meet up). He has this course he wants to do next month, which is why I wanted to go visit him this month before he leaves for 3 months. Now he's asking me if he can borrow $1000 to do this course…

I have been working on an asignment with a girl in uni. Because of corona all the work is done online. So i only met her 3 times via teams videocall. But i really like her. Our meetings where 4 hours,5 hours and 4 hours long and we only spend like the first 1 hour on work and then we just talked until one of us had to go eat dinner. We also went back and forth writing some weird vegetable political fan fic (don't ask its a long story). But ye like i said in the title she lives quite far away. I live 2 hours away from the uni and she lives 45 minutes the other way from the uni. So even if i get the courage to ask her out on our last meeting as a group i don't know for what…

Ok folks, hear me out! I have started seeing this guy end of last year. We live in different cities (5h apart) but I knew him from work and when he knew I was in his city, he asked to whether we should go out. From then on I kept it VERY minimal from my side so he was always the one reaching out first, calling me, asking me to see him etc. He was also the one asking me whether I want to be his GF after about 3-4 months. We saw each other every 3-4 weeks roughly. Now, being in the relationship for a few months, it is still him calling me almost everyday, texting throughout the day, even telling his parents about me, introducing me to his friends etc. We already w…

We started e-dating in late February, she lives in Brazil, I live in the USA. Coincidentally she lives in the same Brazilian city my family and I used to live (prior to coming back to the USA), I have double citizenship (American and Brazilian), so our communication was fine because I know how to speak her language. The possibility of us meeting in real life is totally possible since most of my friends and family lives in that city of Brazil. She is friends with one of my friends that I made back then when I was living in Brazil, so I know for fact that she exists. We met on Facebook with the mutual friends thing, and we were internet friends for about a year. I was…

So I'll try to keep is as short as possible. First of all, I live in France and I am originally from Serbia. It was summer, I was in Serbia and I met one girl and we dated 2 days in a row, and I had to go back in France, yes, only 2 days. We stayed together and made our promises bout staying loyal, I wasn't expecting almost anything, we were texting everyday, and talk on Instagram video once a week, she was 15 and I was 17, eventually few months passed by, and I came in Serbia to meet her for new year's eve, it was cool, I left with a friend to take a drink, chill, and talk a bit, suddenly one friend calls him [we knew each other] and started talking about something and k…