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TW graphic child abuse, this is a really hard post to read and write. I am numb. My bf of two years just came crying hysterically to me. He confided that he molested (his choice of words, I call it rape) his little sister when he was 12-13 and she was 3 or 4. It happened three times. Twice he got her to perform oral by saying his penis was a lollypop and the third time he penetrated with his finger using lotion. He told her if she told anyone that she would go to a dark place underground or something like that. He said she seemed like she thought it was just a game of some sort. The third time she went and told her 7-year-old sister he put lotion on her va…

Hello first of all thank you for reading this, your kindness is never overlooked. Be aware this will be long & weird... I have strong reason to believe I was sexually abused as a small child. Maybe around 3/4. To start the thoughts first started happening when i realized i related to every sexual abuse story on law & order and if i didnt i somehow felt connected as if it happened to me or that i wished I was sexually abused? (LIKE WHAT?) Ever since i was in 6th grade these thoughts would form. I had a dream of a man jerking off to me and what i thought was pee when I was only 4 or 5. I always wanted to make out with the boys in my preschool and lied to boys i…

Hello, I have many disorders. I have Autism, Dyslexia, and Schizoid personality disorder. I have depression and PTSD too. I think I'm getting abused by people. Mostly verbal abuse. It happens online and when I'm not online. I am bullied a lot I think. Well people are mean to me and it seems like they hate me. They call me names like stupid and they think I have a low IQ. But I have many things wrong with me and it gets in the way and it makes it hard to function daily. I get headaches a lot. I don't know why but I think it's due to stress and they don't go away. It seems I have absent seizures as well. I'm reaching out for help. I hope this is the rig…

Hi guys need your advice please...my neighbours upstairs are talking about me and spreading rumours to others in the complex...maybe they jealous that I stay alone and upstairs they are 4 of them living there lol...what should I do as I'm getting pretty pissed off...they dont mind their own buisness and want me out....what should I do....thanks for your feedback

Hi All 🙂 First time poster, long time lurker (on this site 😉 ) so please be extra kind!! I'll go straight to the point - it has recently come to light that my ex boss (I used to be a moderator on another forum, that might ring a bell for some of you 😉 ) 'chose' to use me as a cobaye for this brain-to-brain psychological experiment without my knowledge or consent, for free obviously. It seems him and his affair partner / lead researcher (high profile US university psych prof located in the North East Coast) wanted to know how the autistic brain works with a series of abusive psychological plot twists designed to humiliate and denigrate me. The premise was t…

I had a friendship with this guy 18 years ago, just good friends we hung out a lot. Well we’ve been Facebook friends for years. We talk occasionally so when he said he was coming up to see me. He lives two hours away, I was excited. I told him we can meet for dinner. He said that sounds good. His mom was also a good friend of my moms back then. I gave him my address to pick me up. I figured he’s an old friend and no harm. Well he picked me up and suggested we take the dinner back to his hotel room just to relax and catch up on old times. It was getting stormy and we still can’t eat inside at most places because of COVID. I agreed and this is where I …

I had been dating a guy (let's call him ex date) for 2 months, I stopped having feelings & sexual attraction for him so I broke it off, but we were still good friends. Shortly after that I started developing a romantic connection with an online friend (over text) and we were planning to meet. I told him that I wouldn't sleep with anyone until we met, which would be in less than a month. Two weeks after the break with ex date, and a day after I made that promise, I got extremely drunk at a small get together my roommate had. One of the guests was sending live and my ex date viewed it, he saw and heard that I was drunk off my face, that I walked in to a wall etc. a…

Hello. I hope this is the correct forum to post this. My fiance' & I live in seperate homes five minutes away from each other in the same town. For the last few weeks her daughter, boyfiend & baby have been living with her & her two younger daughters. They do not contribute at all apart from a few pounds when the daughter gets benefits. They had to leave their previous home because of problems with drug gangs. They both smoke a lot of dope although not in my fiance's home. My fiance is a lovely. generous woman but also quite tough when needs be. Anyway things are taking their toll now & stress levels are high there. She had a…

So I am 30 now. An I have been in several long term relationships, I have tried to go for different men all the time. Looks, hobbies, lifestyle, the person they "pretend to be" at first. Because people say i go for the same type of man. So I go out of my way to find men different from the last. The problem is.. as different as they all appear to be at first. They all end up extremely emotional abusive. My boyfriend now must call me a dumb *** at least several times daily..that an other fowl disgusting names. But every guy I have dated has put me down or called me names in 1 way or another. I break up with men who speak to me like that..just to find another. I re…

A letter with typed text and glued on. It says: "Youre ex is an amazing women. Thanks for cheating so she met me. THANKS" I dont know if my ex still has a new boyfriend,i have never met him and i have no argue with my ex. Is it my ex trying to get some reaction from me? WHO sends a letter like this?

I'm not sure if this is the right topic or not. My boyfriend of 7 years has never physically harmed me but how do I know if I'm in an emotionally/mentally/narcissistic abusive relationship?

Please try to put yourself in my shoes while reading and remember that I'm not a mentally strong person. I had been harassed multiple times by a co-worker two years ago. My mental health wasn't at its best by the time and the things he had done made it even worse. After what he did to me, I began to fear and avoid every man I saw. I've been avoiding a relationship for two years because of that. I know I shouldn't have judged all men just because of what one of them did but after being harassed, I unintentionally developed a fear. Please don't think that I'm spreading hate against men. So I was in a bad situation for two years and last summer I met a guy. We…

My relationship has had a fair amount of physical and verbal abuse coming from both sides… everyone tells me my bf is the abuser, but how do I know if I’m the abusive one or he is?? How do I know whose actions are reactive abuse?? If you need more info to respond let me know…

I’m not really sure how to word this. I’ve been with my child’s father since I was 16. I’m 24 now. I have a history of drug use with him but we have both been clean for almost 5 years since I had my daughter. The constant fighting and abuse hasn’t stopped though. When we were using he used to hit me but he hasn’t in quite a few years. However when we argue and he screams at me it really it triggers my PTSD from everything in the past. We fight constantly and I’m definitely not innocent because I also start fights and call him names, and he does the same to me. I try to keep it away from my daughter but he does it in front of her constantly. I tell him to leave and he won’…

Hi to everyone reading this post! I really need some advice with this. I have been friends with this guy for over 8 years now since we were in highschool and we all were 14. We know his girlfriend quite well and she became a part of our group since he has been with her for over 4 years now and she has been really opening up to us for over a year because she was shy before. I became good friends with her since her and me have alot in common. It began like small fights they had in our discord voice chat. Little arguments about stupid stuff one person said and the other person took it the wrong way. He would stay mad for a bit but not long and the rest of our friend gro…

So I'm 23 and it was the day before I moved across the country so I stayed at my father and his new wife's house. The morning I was going to leave his wife went to work so my dad and I decided we should go to breakfast as we usually do. He came out in a towel and hugged me telling me how much he was going to miss me. He started rubbing my back, then he moved his hand to my lower back and went under my shirt rubbing my back. I tried to pull out of the hug as I felt super weirded out and uncomfortable. He then kissed me super soft and sensually on the lips (I've pecked my mom on the lips for years but never my dad). When he did this I tensed my entire body and try to pull a…

The other day I had an altercation with a girl that slept with my ex and I ended up hitting her and we had a fight. I regret it so much, I should of never hit her or even approached her but I guess I was drunk and being an arsehole. She ended up having a lump on her head and I wasn’t hurt. This girl is from the same town as me and I am bound to see her out eventually. She has a big group of friends, one of the girls in that group hates me already (the feeling is mutual) and sent me a big paragraph saying ‘you’ve messed with the wrong girls’ and another girl in that group is a known fighter and is pretty ruthless so I’ve heard. I’m basically just scared, believe it or …

I have PTSD which has further developed into depression and severe anxiety. This is the result of me being a victim of a violent crime in my own home in 2011 or 2012. I have trouble with my memory due to injuries sustained. I am living with a man who claims to be bipolar. We met in 2014. I unfortunately jumped into the relationship far too quickly. It was happy at first. He now he seems to be dealing with erectile dysfunction and other medical problems. He is verbally abusive and sometimes even physically abusive. To me as well as our cat. I have finally gotten his mother involved. I recently told her he had hit me on multiple occasions. She said i…

i hallucinated a rape i dont know if it was a real hallucination or not i cant remember any flashbacks of being raped but this rape turned me into a vegetable at writing emails i lost the ability 2 talk normally after I turned 15 when the rape happened hallucinated or not i dont know I am trying 2 forgive the guy who did this 2 me i wish hed admit 2 everything but how can he when i might of hallucinated it.... it hurts me so much that i saw a man i loved raping me in a hallucination it could of been real i dont know i want answers i want some comfort for suffering with sexual hallucinations thats what everyone called what happened that night a hallucination I dont know wh…

Over the past few months I've blacked out drunk 3 times. I haven't changed anything about my drinking habits, although I have lost a significant amount of weight, but I never blacked out before these 3 incidents. This last time my boyfriend asked if I remember anything about the previous night, which I did not. He reenacted everything that occurred, which was him undressing me, giving me oral several times and having sex with me over the course of 2 hours, with breaks for water. This is our sexual norm when I'm awake and I've always told him he could make love to me anytime, even if I was in such a state. I don't feel violated, we are very much happy and in love. We…

So here it goes. The past year I’ve had a spiritual awakening. But what I didn’t expect was to learn so much about Narcissistic Abuse. My entire family is narcissistic so much so that some of them refer to themselves as psychopaths. I myself am an Empath. Now I’m trying to figure out who my husband actually is. In 4 years I’ve never actually had a conversation with any of the women in his family. When we’re around his mom he translates from Arabic to English but the convo is so superficial I feel emotionally drained by the end of it. As soon as we sit down they just start speaking in their language as if I’m not even there. I’m the one that intitiates the “how are you” co…

So a few years ago I was with a group of girls that were my friends and we wanted to have a night of fun meaning we would drink and just hangout. I had a boyfriend at the time and was extremely loyal towards. My friends and I had parents who were extremely strict which I forgot to say we were in high school at the time so we had no where to go. I remembered this one kid I knew from sports and I texted him to see if we could come over which he said sure. We didn’t want to share our alcohol with him and his friends so we decided to park in the parking lot in front of his house and drink a lot. I barely ate before so I got super drunk which I never been this drunk in my enti…

I have a couple of situations I think she's gaslighting me in: 1. when we were dating, I owned a house a was renting a room out and my wife and I weren't living together. My roommate asked if his female friend could stay in our spare bedroom for a few days because she was getting kicked out of her house, so I said yes, and this was in person. When I talked to my wife (girlfriend at the time) said I should have called and asked her first, that we should be making decisions that affect both of us together, and that it's not smart to have another girl stay in my house; her thinking it could lead to me cheating or something. This was like 8 months ago. I brought this up …

I grew up in an abusive household. My dad use to beat me up daily. I was desperate to get out. So when I was 18, I decided to runaway but I had no way to financially support myself. I had met a guy online that said he would help me. He told me he was in his early 30s and had kids and just really wanted to help me. We met up a few times before I decided to leave with him. Then one night I left with him. He suggested we stay in a nearby hotel the first night. I agreed but said I wanted my own room. When I got to the hotel, it ended up being one hotel room with a single bed. I told him I wasn’t comfortable with it and he sexually assaulted me. I didn’t really make a big deal…

Hi, I have been married for two years now my wife hit me twice today for the first time. Her stated reason was that I was not willing to talk to her when she wanted to - we had been having a quarrel since morning. I don’t know how to react. I don’t want to give up on the marriage but this is making me question whether I even know her at all. Any suggestions?