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I’ve been with this guy for a little over a year now. Lately things have gotten bad. Constant fights etc. the fighting pushes me away and makes me wanna be distant. He’s had co workers send him pics of a girl he used to work with ( just a normal work pic, but why did this happen?? ), also I swear he’s checked ppl out before when he’s with me, although he swears he doesn’t. I have trust issues, which he knows…. He constantly accuses me of stuff too… which I don’t do anything. He constantly pics fights, and snaps at me… but other times he treats me perfect and says how much he loves me and going to be with me forever… it’s so up and down and I’m emotionally drained……

My boyfriend is the only person I have ever been with, kissed, had sex with and been on a date with. I rejected other guys before him. He has slept with 15 people and has had a threesome and been at an orgy. I know the details of his experiences and they really get to me, making me angry and upset often as I cannot stop thinking about it. Should I leave him and find someone else? We sort of plan on being together for the rest of our lives but I cannot come to terms with what he has experienced and what I have missed out on.

Hi! I've been going out with this great girl and after last night I worried that I messed up our chemistry. We had a great third date at the end of last week where we kissed before we left. Last night she invited me over for dinner and we went on a hike. During the hike we talked and had a great time, but I wasn't feeling well (cramps) and I was so focused on how I was feeling I didn't initiate another kiss and the date just ended on a hug. I did apologize for not feeling well but she didn't really mention it in the return text. I guess I'm overthinking because I also feel like she could have kissed me if she wanted to and I wanted her to but we didn't make it happen. but…

So my girlfriend of 3.5 years are going through some things. My fault I held everything in and didn't open up and the stree anxiety depression got to me and I snapped. I broke it off when I really didn't want to. We are talking again taking it kind slow and making a plan together for our possible future. I say possible because I'm getting a strange vibe. Last night she asked me via text what my love language is and what do I think the meaning of love is or why I say i love her. Now I'm a pretty sophisticated guy but at the same time I'm a pretty simple man little backwoods t shirt jeans work boots kinda guy. I'm also not very emotional probably because I've be…

How do I delete my account? I don't see the option anywhere. Thanks in advance.

Hey it's Tiny! 36-year-old woman. Live alone in an apartment owned by my parents and renting from them the past seven 7.5 years. Working as a disability and mental health support worker for eight years. Have a Bachelor of Psychology and two community college diplomas in mental health and disability. I'm looking for marriage and to have kids. I've had a number of serious relationships but they were all only two years or just over two years. I lived with one partner and was engaged to him. Now have been single for 1.5 years or so. This guy messaged me on a paid dating website which is meant to be for serious relationships. He's 30 years old and he works full-time…

Hi Before I begin I am not only interested in comments good or bad to what I say but also the things you struggle with (if u decide to share such things) There are two things I have struggled with One I feel I have been making headway with but it can be so easy to fall back I need to be careful and the other I have failed miserably at. I will begin with the latter People yelling and screaming at me. I remember when I was 10 my dad yelling at me about cleaning the tub and no matter how hard I tried to do what he wanted I was getting it wrong. It got worse and worse until I broke down crying in the tub and while I think somehow what happened affected me deeply because whil…

Hello everyone! I'm new here and I hope not to violate any rules. But I'm wishing everyone well and a huge thank you if I get a reply to a bunch of nonsense I'm about to tell... The thing is I have a crush on my friend whom I met online 10 months ago.. He told me back then he had a girlfriend but I got a crush anyway. We talked lots during first 2,3 months. After I understood that I had a crush, we somehow got into flirting. He told me things were rocky between him and his gf, he never led me on and told me the flirt was just for fun. I didn't like it but I had feelings for him and I was happy to get a bit closer. Sometime after I felt bad for it, of course …

first of all thank you for your time and, my english may not be that good but im gonna try my best im a 15 year old girl and i have a 4 years older sister (19) who literally starts punching me on the face and pulling my hair whenever i ask her to, for example; move away when im sweeping the floor or when i ask her to clean the mess she made with food on MY bed... like im not even asking her to do me a favor she just refuses to act like a decent human being, she takes "dont tell me what to do" to a whoooooole new level.. she gets so easily offended by literally nothing and thats her biggest insecurity i once called her a snowflake and she almost broke my nose lmao i r…

So we weren't really a couple, but we broke up in a messy fight (he was absolutely in the wrong). I haven't talked to him in 6 weeks and he unfollowed me on everything. Except his second account on instagram, where he only follows me and the account I have with my friends. I noticed that lately, he is active on that acc sometimes, so I think he's checking up on me. (Also on messenger which he normally never uses) I don't want to focus on him anymore (gosh I miss him) but I really don't want to ruin the chances of him coming back. Will he start to miss me or will he just be mad? also, he won't get notifications when we go live anymore etc. so will he forget about me?

I turned 40 a few months ago, I got pregnant at 17 y/o with my 1st daughter who is now 22, then I had a 2nd girl 5 years later. Needles to say my marriage didn't last, we were way too young and not ready, After my divorce I stayed single for a few years, then dated on and off, I have had 2 serious relationships that ended badly The common denominator here is me. I am very needy, I have this horrible need for affection and acceptance that I try for it not to show by acting aloof but deep down I just want to be loved. I fall very quickly for unavailable men who use me for a while or who lie in order to get with me. I feel very lonely, otherwise my lif…

I am over 30. I’ve only been in one serious long-term relationship that messed me up. I finally ended it in 2015. We were together almost 10 years on & off. I have been scared of dating ever since and with life troubles interfering as well I just resorted to avoidance by convincing myself I had sworn off all men after we broke it off. Around the same time of the break-up, I’ve had to deal with a physical injury that stripped me of 5 years of my life easy and been slowly and very literally getting back on my feet ever since. I work independently & generally an introvert so I don’t meet a lot of new people, but every now and then when I do me…

I've been seeing a guy I met on a dating app in march. I like him and he says he likes me. we've spent time once a week almost every week since we met. we've been having sex. he told me somewhat recently that he's not looking for a relationship. he wants to keep seeing me but he doesn't want to lead me on or make me feel bad because he doesn't want one. I'm devastated because I genuinely like this person and my intention when I started dating was to get into a relationship. I'm confused by the things he says, like I told him I wished I had waited before jumping into bed with him and he said "we can go slower, I'm totally cool with that" but if you don't want a relationshi…

I'm in my late 30's and just got dumped by my girlfriend of 6 years. I love her and it's also clear she still loves me. Her reasons for breaking up is I've been lazy , taken her for granted and kinda have lost all ambition. I previously made a lot of money as an engineer but sadly got made redundant when I was 28. I got a a really big pay out that coupled with the money I saved, I took some time to develop property (which I own out right). Fast forward some time and I met my girlfriend and I move 400 miles to be together. I got a job but it didn't last, in that time we got a dog, which I got obsessed with and spent all my time on. I'm not living o…

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, have known each other for 20+ years. He had a very troubled childhood and it left him with severe trust and abandonment issues. He is constantly questioning everything I do. We live in a small place and if I clean up and organize he accuses me of packing my things. He's been abusive verbally and physically before. Im afraid that not getting the proper help as a child, after seeing his mother shot and murdered right in front of him by his stepmom, that's it may be too late for him to change his behavior. He's a bit narcissistic.

so there's this one guy that i like but he's like other side of the word and for him he's the type to fall for people easily if the one he likes which is me stays as friends and he's the type who would go all out for someone he likes you know. cause i like to ask people out face to face like connfessing them irl rather then online cause online you'll never know your other partner would do something bad. and if i see him with someone else i would maybe get jealous so i'm not sure what to do or think for this situation

I know before I begin this long winded rollercoaster of a journey I'll be judged for what I did. At this point I feel like an absolute horrible person for multitudes of reasons, so I understand, and I get it. I met my ex in '09 and we dated til roughly '12 we met online on a game and it was long distance. We did have a few visits here and there and he met my family. During that time things were a rollercoaster, we had 1 major breakup where we didn't talk for 6months and ended up getting back together ultimately leading to him "ghosting" me (a term we didn't have back then). During that time I cursed the world, I didn't have a job for almost a year after that because…

My live in gf has lied to me on several occasions. Her answer is that I caused her to lie by questioning her. Background: early in our relationship she worked in a strip club as a bartender. I met her separately from that. She was very open, honest, fun, educated person and i began to get more serious with her, but I told her I couldn't seriously date someone who worked in a strip club. She quit. In her other job, her boss was very inappropriate saying sexual things to her. She said that he was gross and that I should just relax and understand that she has to deal with that. I felt he was a sexual predator. She insisted he may make gross jokes but was a gentleman who nev…

Okey…. I am new here that’s my first post because I need help or I will turn nuts. Some of you girls, you are crazy and moody so you make us too. Anyway let’s get in my story (We are both 18yo) Oke so, there is a girl I like and I am 99% sure she know it too. She is like a princes girl, I mean, she is good person, very good student and as I have seen she is daddy’s girl ( I write that because I want you to understand her better so keep this in your mind). She is good with me, she laughs with my jokes and smiles me, some times (not much) she calling me to talk with me and few times her friends talk about me for some things I told in class (that things hasn’t to d…

Hey everyone, there is this man who has asked me out several times, and each time he asked me out for a walk. I don't think it's because of Covid because things got back to normal in my city, and cafes and bars are open again. Now I don't expect a guy to spend a lot of money on dates, but I'd like to see some effort, like he thought about taking me somewhere. Museum and exhibitions are open too (some are for free) so there are plenty of options, but he always suggest a walk instead. I don't find it very appealing to only go for a walk, I'd like to feel at least a little special, and walks require minimum effort. He's working so it's not like he's unemployed, but as …

So I feel chemistry and tension between this guy and I. At first, it was friendly. I felt comfortable and thought nothing about it until one day he gave me the sweetest compliment. It wasn't about my body or looks but about my mental strength. There was a depth to his words and it was so endearing. After he complimented me, he seemed embarrassed and flustered. He couldn't look at me after that and his voice was soft and quiet. The next time I saw him, he seemed back to normal but he was more touchy. We don't know each other, but he was sharing a random tidbit with me. Anyways, sometimes I can't tell if he's flirting with me or simply being nice. …

This past Saturday was the party of one of my co-worker's, whom we'll just call "Emma". It was Emma's 22nd birthday and she was throwing this party, a party where a bunch of people at work called out so that they can attend. I didn't get an invite and at first I tried not to let it get to me, but I've spent the past few days hearing about the aftermath and now I can't deny how I'm feeling. It really does feel like just about everyone at work got an invite except me. These two guys in the break room were talking about it and it reached a point where one of them started listing off some co-workers who dropped by at one point. There was evidently a bunch of people here …

Hi everyone, hope you're all having a good day. I think I've posted on here before and I am still dealing with the same issues in my relationship. Now, I've tried a lot of things already to better my relationship. I've talked to my partner, I've had arguements, I've looked at all the good and the bad things that the relationship has brought me. But now I'm pretty much stuck in the same place. Yesterday my family came over, as well as a new boyfriend of a close family member of mine. Meeting him and seeing how good he is to my parents, how interested he was in all of us and how chill and kind he was made me feel very anxious about my partner. We've been together for 3,5 ye…

So from my other post I have come to understand from the replies that I should find professional help in treating my depression. I am actively working on that so that I have more stable out look on life in general. My next question is how do I enter a new relationship without the fear that I won't relive my past again and have to watch this person walk away from me like the rest did? I know this is a baggage a carry but in the past it has made pretty gun shy in new relationships. Granted I'm not planning on dating anytime soon.