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  1. So I've found out that my boyfriend watches porn and it made me feel really upset and angry and hurt. It makes me feel like I'm not enough to make him happy, it makes me feel like he fantasizes about these other women and he would rather be with them than me. It makes me feel like I can't live up to it... ultimately slashing my self esteem and making me feel really down and rubbish about myself. I've talked to him about it and he tried explaining that it's not like that, he doesn't know or care about these people it's just visual stuff and it's no big deal and he was only watching it becau
  2. Okay so my boyfriend and I are both pretty insecure. This is something we are aware of and working on. Anyways, the other day he was showing me something on his phone and happened to scroll past a porn video he had saved on his phone. I have always told him I don’t care if he watches porn and have kind of an “out of sight out of mind” policy about it. I don’t mind the idea of it and I know pretty much every man watches it but seeing it for myself made me sick to my stomach. I also asked him a few weeks before if he watched it and he said no. I’m not sure why he lied because we are usually pret
  3. Hi, here it is: my boyfriend masturbates every day in front of porn when I am right next to him, for some reason it deeply hurts me. I am cool with the fact that he masturbate or watch porn on his own time. But when I am around it hurts. When he start to watch porn and masturbate I sometimes try to participate or have sex with him. But he imediately turns the screen of his computer away so that the content of what he is watching is out of my sight and asks me to turn around. What hurts the most is that he chooses porn over having sex with me ( I am a 25 yo attractive girl). I talked to him
  4. Hi, My 24 yo daughter is in porn. I found her pseudonym online last night. She has posted hundreds of EXPLICIT shots of herself in the "act". I also found her pseudonym's twitter account where she posts daily about her "shoots" and how excited she is. According to her first post, she's been doing this for 2 years. Over those 2 years my husband and I have tried to give her a part time job with us which she flaked on constantly. Working with us she had learned advanced excel and office skills that I hoped she could apply to other more lucrative work. In the meantime I paid her rent and supplemen
  5. Hi I never liked the men in my life to look at porn once we were together and after having been married to a secret porn addict (he was looking at it whenever he could I think), I just don't know if I can agree to go out with someone again. Yes, the sexless or very depressing sex life which exists with a porn addict has scarred me, but my feelings about porn have existed since I was very young. I grew up on an army base and the way that porn and strip clubs reduce sex to a transaction disturbs me. I don't care what a guy did before we got together unless he was unfaithful to someone. I li
  6. I'm in my early 20s and am absolutely fed up with the way my male peers treat and look at me. I've only been with one guy in my entire life but before and after our relationship, I was always ogled, groped, and treated like a sex object. I never understood why guys would perceive me this way because I am incredibly shy and introverted. People mainly describe me as shy and sweet as well because of my youthful appearance. Ironically, guys my age and older will sometimes lead me on after socializing with them by asking to pick me up to their apartments, go out on dates, and eventually spend t
  7. Hi I'm new here I've been married for 18/years to a wonderful man. He enjoys porn from time to time and I recently discovered that this stems from his young adult hood. Before I discovered his habits I caught him a couple of times and I forgive him but I didn't know the full extent until he came clean . He says he's not addicted because he doesn't watch it daily but he enjoys it . Our sex life hasn't been the greatest but in recent light I discovered our relationship was lacking intimacy so the time to recent seems right. I expressed my feelings that porn makes me feel like I'm not enough and
  8. Me and my boyfriend have been together over 9 years. We have had some issues the last couple of years which has lead to some truths coming out - long story short, he thought I’d cheated on him but I havn’t, I’ve had some low points and lied about confiding in people and something else when I was paranoid - causing even more trust issues - I know I made it worse. My boyfriend asked me a few years ago if I’d ever watched porn/masturbated etc. I was so embarrassed and didn’t want to talk about it so lied and said not, even though I had watched porn regularly (frequency varied over time but no
  9. I know. I shouldn’t have. But I did and now I have to deal with it. I’ve told him before that I’m not 100% okay with free porn but I’m getting better. It’s not something I want to bother me and I’ve been working on it. But once you start paying for it and getting custom videos then it becomes cheating to me. You can’t tell me it’s ‘just a video’ then pay $85 for a custom video from a porn star. It’s something we’ve talked about before. I’ve told him I don’t like that he’s paid for it before and I don’t want him to do it again and he agreed and said he wouldn’t. Well, I went snooping on his por
  10. Never got to the point where I have needed to post in a forum but really need some advice on this one. I am deeply in love with my fiancée and she is perfect in so many ways but there is only one thing in the entire relationship that upsets me and I can’t help but feel the urge to say something but how I say it is so important as it’s a sensitive area. To cut a huge story short we only met in March this year and moved in together and the begin of lock down so we was not alone and everything has been perfect we both have a young child from Previous relationships and are already engaged, I’
  11. Hi everyone, This is my first post here and I feel like I'm just reaching for answers from someone, anyone. So a bit of background first: been with my partner for 6 years and we have a 1 year old together. We have a home and both have good jobs. We were extremely physical in the beginning of our relationship and couldn't keep our hands off eachother. The last 2 years have been a massive slump. Since I got pregnant he has hardly touched me (in fact twice in 2 years which I will mention later). When we were trying to conceive I suffered a few miscarriages and the last one before our ful
  12. hello, idk how to properly start, i just really need to rant right now stuck in quarantine, I have to do college thru online meetings and unfortunately im doing it from home, with my family. which doesnt necessarily unsupportive, BUT this house dynamic just went banana when I'm home. I mean, basically I've never stay at home more than a month (because I study in other city) and now its almost 6months, I really feel like this house is full of people who needs therapy. my mom lash out everytime i do OR dont do chores. If I do, it never meets her 'standards' if I dont, she questions my purp
  13. Been with my girlfriend for near 2 years, had ups and downs etc you get through it together. But some thing's have only really just started to click after a big argument which I think has affected me. I've noticed that she never initiates sex, phone sex or even complimenting me. Or when we do have sex or phone sex it's mostly me doing my best to satisfy her to the point that sometimes I don't even get to finish because she's done. This has gone on for months. I thought this may be down to her confidence which I decided we needed to talk about and said what can I do or we do to help you b
  14. Hi I have been in a relationship with this guy for 5 months now but we've been talking to each other for about 8 months. It started off as a long distance relationship where we would communicate regularly on the phone and finally decided to meet. The attraction was mutual and has been since then. However, due to unforeseen circumstances I had to move even further away (different continent and time zone) around a month after we met. This did not affect our communication in anyway since we're anticipating being together in the next few months (me moving to a new country permanently). He is a
  15. He just won't stop. At the beginning it was more intense, like he would turn around to check out the girl. Sometimes he stared at them really intense beside me. Now he's making efforts because I told him that I don't like it, but he fails sometimes. He stare at them, and he told me sometimes he's wondering how the girl would be as a girlfriend, or even sometimes he told me he has sexual desires. I know it's not wrong to notice attractive people, but when it's staring at them beside me, I feel like an idiot. He told me he does it when we're not together, but I just can't imagine my boyfriend ga
  16. I found out recently that my boyfriend of 4 years has been watching porn, viewing photos of naked women and visiting adult chat rooms through the entirety of our relationship. I had vocalized my dislike for porn/ porn related materials since the beginning of our relationship and he assured me that he did not like it either and did not use/watch it. After I found out, he continued to watch it and lied about it twice before I finally asked him to move out. He moved out for about a week, during which he communicated to me how sorry he was, shared articles he had read about how to quit using porn,
  17. Hello I been married for about a year and me and my husband been together for about 3 years. We have some bumps but he loves me and I love him the same. Here is my question. When we started dating we had sex a lot. Like every day or night whenever we could. And it’s been slowing down which i understand. He is a huge gamer and I go to sleep before him. And sometimes he wakes me up and we have sex. About twice a week. Well I miss the old him but I understand when I asked him that why you don’t want me like you used to? And he said my testosterone went down or I go to sleep before him. Of cour
  18. Hello, English isn't my first language, but I'll try to explain. I (22f) and my boyfriend (22) were dating from 5 years ago. I recently know that he likes to see hentai, and both of us likes Anime so I thought that was OK, I mean he's a man. But, he goes to the bathroom and jerk off everyday watching his phone. I know this because now we live together and the bathroom's door doesn't close well. And looking for something in the historial of the pc, I discovered that he watch porn as well. My problem is... that hurt me, we live together, and I can't no start thinking that maybe I'm not enough fo
  19. I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm aware of my boyfriend watching porn when he needs to get off. I originally had a lot of problems with the idea but after him explaining why he uses it, I can start to accept the fact a bit. We had some serious talks about this topic several times and I really don't want to talk about the same thing again. I'm afraid that as much as it's bothering me, if I bring this up again he will get tired of me and eventually will break up with me. I also noticed that the reason why I felt bad about him watching porn is because I was always insecure about my
  20. I need some insight on an issue I'm having with my relationship. For some background info my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. We have a 3 month old together. We also have a very healthy sex life normally have it everyday even now with a baby. We do not live together permanently we live together at his dad's most of the time because he has a large house and we cannot afford a mortgage right now. But some times I go back to my parents in another city for a eek or so with the babe because I am lonely at his dad's and want to see my family. During these times I am gone I kno
  21. I'm 28 and after my 4 year relationship ended, I've felt lost. I was inattentive, but she was needy and had trust issues (whole story in my other post). Now she's pregnant to another man 4 months after we broke up. I know there are a lot of things I need to change, things that I want to change to better myself and for myself. I want to become fit and agile, I want to stop playing so many video games, I want to stop watching porn, I want to watch less TV, I want to become a better communicator, I want to be less frustrated and irritable, I want to learn new things, and I want to learn how to
  22. So my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We had a kid after one year of being together. I felt we were moving a bit fast but he seemed super excited about everything. It was all great. We’re not married, I would like to be. He’s a really great guy. But now that we’ve been together so long and there’s a kid now I feel like our passion and romance have pretty much been stamped out. There are times I look at him and know in my heart that he loves me and that I love him. But now we’re living together after he’s lived with his parents because of work for a while. (Which sometimes I fee
  23. I've been dating this guy for around 5 months now. He is my first serious relationship as I wasn't that interested in serious dating before. He is my only sexual partner I've had and I'm his fourth. We're both 19. Before we started dating he watched porn like any other person. I also watched it before dating him, but after becoming sexually active I didn't really need it and started to find it a bit gross. He still kept watching it which didn't make me happy but I didn't think it was a big deal. It however started to feel like a problem after a couple months dating and the fact that he had
  24. Last year my boyfriend told me he has a foot fetish which I'm ok with. I make sure I keep my feet looking perfect for him as I know it turns him on, but he's only included it sexual wise a handful of times but I've seen his porn history and YouTube history so I know he's watching videos of it. I've tried sitting next to him with my feet in his lap but he doesnt do anything, is he trying to suppress it even though I'm ok? I think he likes my feet because he's been in bed before and touched them briefly which really turned him on.... Does he like it more when it's less obvious?? How ca
  25. My boyfriend and I are having problems. Long story short--he says he's a porn addict. I caught him with photos of 3 other women which he had obviously gotten through text messaging. One was of his coworker. One was from a Craigslist ad he responded to. The other, an old fling. I believe that he hasn't physically cheated, he says he just did all of this for 'material' because of his addiction. Fast forward a few months--we're trying to work on things. We're in therapy, he's agreed to go to SAA meetings. He's put 'porn blockers' on his devices and given me all of his passwords because
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