Kwothe28

I think she just met somebody else. Which isnt that surprising when you yourself didnt take her on exclusivity. So she just fades away slowly now. Its important to distinct those two. If you are "casuals" and you didnt want to proceed further, she doesnt owe you anything. Including seeing you. I also think you at least owe her a text message. Its kinda rude to just cut contact without any explanation after 3 months.

I am sorry, but that is because you probably dont. Last year I did 2 jobs and took care of a sick parent. There wasnt even a time to go out properly let alone to dedicate to some kind of self care. Its a bit beter this year(due to my mom no longer being there sadly) but I did took one of those jobs to full time so am still keeping it very busy. You would have to "pick your battles". Meaning that you do self care when other things dont take priority. For example school has frequent holidays. So then you can dedicate and find time to do something else. Also, being a caregiver is a full time job as well. And it does affect your mental health. Even when I got some time last year, I didnt do some of the stuff simply because I didnt feel like it. You would have to take that into a consideration as well. And that you would have to work on that too. Always leave time to at least talk to somebody. For example friends.

I wouldnt contact either of those two. Simply because they are not excited to meet. As soon as they cancel out and/or you have to pull words out of their mouth like teeth, that means they are not interested.

The land of the free lol Anyway, its not like it does matter in your case. What are they going to do? Fire you when you already quit and training the replacement? There is an app for ENA if you have an Android phone. I suggest you use that one instead.

No, please no. You dont confess your feelings to somebody who doesnt even finds a time to see you. You break up with somebody like that. It’s probably your first relationship and that is OK. But this isn’t something where you want to spend your time. Anybody who cant make time for you is either a) lying and doesnt really want to see you b) busy to the point they dont need a boyfriend/girlfriend Both of those indicate you got nothing to seek there. And that the best course of action is to find somebody who can make time for you.

You already asked the question here. I believe you and him are from New York and the job is in California. And you are already been told its not going to work. Too much of a difference on big issues. Sometimes it doesnt matter that the relationship is healthy. When it wouldnt work in long-term and both parties wouldnt be happy.

I dont think you being loud is an excuse for her to be cheating around. Especially with her friends husband. Talk about disrespect to her dead friend. If the marriage doesnt work she can divorce. Not having separate phone for cheating and stuff like that.

This. Also, its a common thing. When they say "depressed" they mean "You make me bummed". So after they break up with you, they "blossom". Start to lose that extra weight, to dress hot, to go out etc. Again, very common thing.

Ah, OK. But again, that is just a bad partner overall. And somebody that you shouldnt be in general. Just dont be with somebody like that. Now or in the future.

Eh, everyone would forgot about it by next week. Maybe they even already forgot. Probably watched new Tik Tok trend or something and already dont even know what happened yesterday lol Its often to teenagers that over exaggerate what happens. Your reputation isnt “ruined”. You probably dont have that high reputation in the first place to be ruined. Most of people just dont care too much unless you are somebody of the importance. Which, I am sorry, you dont seem to be. You do have a bad friend that you shouldnt hang out with. Also, I am sorry, but asking him to do that sounds like a sexual innuendo. Please avoid that with people.

But again, that could be because she really isnt that interested. Just because she doesnt care or makes an effort doesnt mean its narcissistic personality disorder. It just can be that she is a bad partner. For example what sticks out to me from original message is that you see each other every weekend. Which is not unusual, but it seems more like convenience when after a year you just see casually on the weekends. No plans for future, not mentioning children(maybe you both or one of you has one, you didnt mention) nore anything. It just seems to me that she is more interested into having somebody then into actually being with somebody.

Are we talking “micro penis” size or just “I am not porn star big” size? Because if you are not the first, dont think you should worry that much. Average vaginal depth is like 9cm(3.6 inches in Murican silly units). Bigger and wider should be better for sure, but you should be fine as long as you are at least average Asian guy big lol Second thing is, real life is not “Sex and the City” episode. Nore is it a porn script. People, especially women, are more inclined to emotional connect and not just physical one. Even if you are that small, I doubt she would leave because of it. That is more your fear than anything else.

It depends. Sadly, lots of people just are selfish and egotistical. Doesnt mean they have a narcissistic personality disorder. For example, does she have illusions of grandeur? Meaning does she give herself too much importance? Does she have a sense of entitlement over others? Does she have a need for admiration or manipulative behavior? Does she have empathy at all? Those are all very important signs of spotting a narcissist.

By being your childhood friend and taking you to prom? I would say its just a friends situation. There is a distinct difference between a date and a friends going out for coffee, or in your case ice cream. Your childhood friend is by that distinction, just a friend. I dont see how him taking you to prom changes things. Especially when you reached out to him for that, not him to you. As far as I know, other than American teen romance comedies, there is no correlation between asking somebody to prom and being romantic. Aside of some people already being a couple. Which you are not, he is your childhood friend. FRIEND.

I am sorry, but you would have to balance your life better. Meaning that if you need work for studying, then you would have to persist at the expanse of something else like social life. If you dont need work, then you could maybe cut off some hours or leave so you could maybe lead some social life. Otherwise, you would experience burnout(or shall I say you already do experience it) because, well, human body and mind needs at least some satisfaction. For example I have a buddy who has a family and works almost all day. But he takes pride in material things he obtains(he is on his way to buy 4th apartment). You dont have that. With your school obligations, you go to work and dont have an outlet where you can say “Yeah, you know, me doing that 2 days a week is worth it”. For example, maybe buying something for yourself or making time in a week to go out with friends would make that satisfaction.