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  1. Hi All, I have a question. I have a male coworker that acts weird around me. So when I first started at this company I was heavier and the gyms had not opened yet due to Covid, but when they did, I lost 11kgs, started working out regularly, I have gained muscle, I am fit and I eat as clean as possible. I have changed my wardrobe and am generally more confident in myself. He spoke to me for the first time in June this year and he started asking me if I was married, etc and I said no, I’ve been single for 6 years - he asked why, I said because I don’t want what other people want...I am
  2. I am a 45 year old woman professional and in great shape. I recently met a 23 year old male at a restaurant that I frequent (he works there) and he has been pursuing me. At first I was bit freaked about the age difference, but now find him quite attractive. Im really out of the dating game, but want to check this guy out. My last relationship was with a man, similar to my age who is gay and has never come out. Im looking to have some fun and enjoy life while you can in these crazy Covid times. I find engaging with this man a little odd. Is this what 23 year old do? FaceTime f
  3. Okay so Max and I met on bumble, but immediately after matching they were back to living in New York and I was still out at school in Minnesota. We never met in person, but were fast friends. We flirted, but I was clear that I didn't want a long distance relationship. We were both seeing people, and Max soon started a monogamous relationship. I was pleased, but didn't hear much about their partner. I regularly pressed Max not to flirt with me, as it was confusing to me since we were not in a romantic relationship. But I valued our friendship, and knew that there were feelings I couldn't quite
  4. This one is going to be a long story so buckle up!! My life has been a bit of a whirlwind, I'm in my early 20s and everything was going smoothly, career started doing well and then I was diagnosed with a potentially terminal illness. Normal life of hanging out with friends, parties, getting promoted quickly turned into hospital visits hooked up to IV and living on a oxygen concentrator. I've had relationships before, but once this happened I kind of figured nobody would EVER be interested in someone like me. But then I met this guy. We were introduced through a programme that was desig
  5. My husband and I have only been married since the New Year, together for about 3. We recently made some new friends online during the quarantine, and he ended up bonding very closely with one of the girls over a common game interest. They literally spend hours in voice calls together whilst I'm at work (he's currently at college on 3 days a week so has a lot of free time) and if I ask what he's up to he'll say he's talking to her. He invited her up for Halloween and a few days before that actually tried to bring up an old topic with me that we'd joked about before and suggested we
  6. So I have been with my fiancé for over a year, we just had a child together 2 months ago. When I was pregnant I wouldn’t have sex with him however he said it wasn’t a big deal and it didn’t bother him that he would never go stray to someone else. Well a few weeks ago i went through his phone and found out that he has been seeing this older woman (42) he is (25) and they have been sleeping together. When I found out he begged me not to leave him, Cried freaking out and said he didn’t love her it’s just this older woman he used to work with and the opportunity presented itself. I do believe this
  7. I'm in my early 20s and am absolutely fed up with the way my male peers treat and look at me. I've only been with one guy in my entire life but before and after our relationship, I was always ogled, groped, and treated like a sex object. I never understood why guys would perceive me this way because I am incredibly shy and introverted. People mainly describe me as shy and sweet as well because of my youthful appearance. Ironically, guys my age and older will sometimes lead me on after socializing with them by asking to pick me up to their apartments, go out on dates, and eventually spend t
  8. Hi guys...not used this for a long long while. But I think I'm just not getting something. Met a woman on an App. Chatted for just under a week. We discovered we had so much in common. I'm a teacher, she's a paediatric nurse. I have an 8 year old kid, she has a 7 year old. But also our whole attitudes to life seemed to match on our attitudes to enjoying ourselves, risk taking, humour etc. On paper at least I have not found someone to have so much in common ever and I'm 42. She is 37. We laughed and joked and flirted. We agreed to meet up on the Saturday for drinks. By that
  9. Recently, I saw a text between my husband and a girl that he plays soccer with. My husband and I had a conflict over our relationship and I left and went to stay in a hotel. We have been married for just shy of 10 years.The minute I left, he started asking me to come back. But the next day, he started texting girls and telling them about me leaving. I discussed this with him and told him that this is just really inappropriate. This type of interaction has something to do with why I left in the first place. He played it off like it wasn't flirtatious and he "didn't mean anything by it". I told
  10. kim42

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    Hey everyone, I’m not actually looking for advice this time, I just need to get this off my chest. I know I’ve been really stupid, and most of you will agree after reading this, but it’s alight. I posted this thread about attracting unavailable men about this guy I met and got along really well a few weeks ago. I was pretty sure we both liked each other, until I found out he had a girlfriend (thanks Google). Naturally, I stopped texting him the moment I found out. We both work for the same company, but he lives and works in a different city. We hadn’t been in touch for almost 2 weeks w
  11. I don't want to be judged for my actions, because I don't quite understand them myself, I just want some advice and insight from you guys into the way I feel. I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 and a half years. I love him so much, I think he's amazing, I can't imagine life without him and I'm pretty sure I don't want to imagine life without him. The problem is that whenever I go out (e.g. a night out with my friends or something) I am constantly flirting and seeking attention from other men. For example, last night I went out to a jazz club with my two best friends and there was
  12. I know, I know, from the title i reckon alot of people would already come to an answer but I'll explain the situation anyway! So I've been visiting a massage therapist I found on gumtree, probably about every couple of weeks when coronavirus allowed atleast! From the first time I saw her she could tell I was shy (tbh though I was amazed at how hot this eastern European lady was standing in front of me! She also offered happy ending so was probably quite nervous of this aswell, but that's where her 'services' end). Even so we got on really well, first couple of times it was general talk and
  13. I know, I know, from the title i reckon alot of people would already come to an answer but I'll explain the situation anyway! So I've been visiting a massage therapist I found on gumtree, probably about every couple of weeks when coronavirus allowed atleast! From the first time I saw her she could tell I was shy (tbh though I was amazed at how hot this eastern European lady was standing in front of me! She also offered happy ending so was probably quite nervous of this aswell, but that's where her 'services' end). Even so we got on really well, first couple of times it was general talk and
  14. I am worried my boyfriend and my Sister in law have a thing for each other. They are both flirts. My sister in law drinks wine and she gets all lovey dovey and schmoozy after a couple glasses of wine and everytime i have a new boyfriend she gets flirty with them and its getting to the point that its making me very mad. Its gotten to the point with my most recent boyfriend that i am avoiding visitation with my own brother just to avoid this situation. My boyfriend who is also a flirt even w/o drinking but give him a couple drinks and he crosses my boundaries when it comes to flirting. So we
  15. I have always been comfortable with both my looks and my personality, since I have always heard and experienced that I am consistently one of the more handsome and attractive guys in all types of environments, and I would never feel that "threatened" by other guys when it came to those traits. But there was one situation about 7-8 months ago that really made me quite uncomfortable: I had approached a cute girl, and felt that I was showing my best and most charming self, and even though she seemed a little bit hard to get at first, she seemed to start becoming quite interested in me after we
  16. Hi everyone, I'm feeling a little down this week because it seems the guy I've been seeing/flirting with is not single. I know it happens all the time but lately it has become sort of a pattern with almost all men I meet. I just don't know why I keep attracting married/unavailable men. Some of my friends told me I'm easily approachable so maybe I'm easy to talk to? I don't know, it's just annoying, I feel like I'm in this weird cycle, I meet someone, the guy makes the first move, we text, hang out a few times and then I somehow find out he's taken. I'm afraid to get 'excited' when I meet som
  17. I am a woman in my late 20s and 2 years ago, I had the sudden realisation that I had feelings for a guy friend I had known for about 3-years at the time. Before I realised this, he would sometimes flirt with me, but I wouldn't reciprocate because at the time, I saw him as just a friend and didn't want to lead him on. However, when I figured out I had feelings for him, I kept it quiet, because: 1. I figured that I had ruined any chance I had at that point 2. He was leaving the country to go to school and the plan was to study and then work there a few years after, so no point in pursuing an
  18. Okay so me and my bf been together for 2 years going on 3 and the relationship started off rocky. In the beginning I felt like it was a one sided (my side)type of love. Idk why I stayed with him. He would talk to other girls and flirt them and everything but he always played the I love u card so I was like okay whatever. So I thought the relationship would get better over time but I was wrong. This relationship is toxic. He always disrespects me like On a daily basis. I’m always a hoe and trash and I just let anyone sleep with me and I don’t respect myself and I’m fat and useless and etc. we
  19. So there's this guy and he's my half cousin (he's 30 and I'm 23) (I've already posted about him before in an old thread.. I'm just updating it) Anyway, he's a really sweet and goofy guy and I like him alot and want him to know how I feel about it...there has been times where he flirts around with me ; like compliments me, calls me his babe, sweetie and he did tell me that he likes (over text) There was one time he even asked me to marry him, I didn't believe him but then he told me that his mother liked me and wanted us to get married (this was like a year back when he said all that to me even
  20. So I’ve always had issues with jumping WAY too fast into things. I’ve recently for the past year been trying to be okay with living alone and being single (I’m usually in relationships). The guys that I usually attract are not “quality” people, so when I meet someone good my mind gets a little too far ahead of me. I recently met a guy on fb, he is in the army and lives quite a ways away with a different time zone but he’s from my area originally. We talk everyday and flirt here and there and will FaceTime now and again. It’s honestly only been about 3 weeks but I’m getting a little bit t
  21. So I feel like I messed up. My long distance friend/ex and me started talking again about a year ago. I had full understanding that she was in a new relationship. One that hurt to see. Before we started talking again I took a break from her for 18 months. I was ok with talking again because I had convinced myself that I knew I had no chance of getting that back or even wanting it now that she's been with new people. So it was alright.. pretty normal catch up conversations. Then as the months went on I started to notice she was being flirty.. flirty Snapchat pics. My instant reaction to these w
  22. Hi, thankyou in advance to any help given. To start I'll give some background, me and my ex-girlfriend broke up two months ago, we were together for 10 months and it was going brilliantly until we started fighting almost every day and we eventually broke up. I gave her two months of no contact (I highly advise not using no contact, especially for this long) desperately hoping it would work but it didn't, it made things much worse, she went out with another person but it didn't last very long, since she has been going out almost every weekend, especially recently. After the two months were up,
  23. So my boyfriend is a senior in high school (I graduated last year). There is a girl in his class who has made it very obvious that she is interested in him and it as caused a few problems because he could not see that she was. They were friends years ago but have not been in the past 3.5 years (2 of which we have been dating.) She started texting him towards the end of the summer wanting him to come party with her and very obviously flirting and what not. He has always been friendly but never flirty. She has also been outwardly rude to me. This furthers my suspicions because we use to be frien
  24. I'm on tinder surprise, matched with this guy John (18) kept on asking me for nudes, I kept on saying no and I told him that I had trust issues as I had been used before and it hurt me and I didn't want to be used again, despite this he kept on asking for nude pictures and he rarely ever talked about anything else, sometimes when I took a long time to reply to his text or if I ignored his text he would double text me, he would sometimes ask to FaceTime but of course stRiaght away he would ask for me to show something sexual. I have never sent him nudes, yes I may have flirted with him. Today I
  25. So I’ve posted on this site before when I was in a bad place and everyone has helped me a great deal. Sometimes you can’t see the forest for the trees so I’m hoping for some clarity. I can’t talk about this with my friends because it may change the way they view my gf. Basically over a year ago before we were dating she was in a bad spot emotionally and had a flirty text and pic exchange with her first cousin. She told me this early on in our dating. How it was a huge mistake, how he hurt and ghosted her, etc. Anyway, it’s been a sore spot for me and brings me some feelings of insecurit
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