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  1. Ex-boyfriend broke up with me and lately, I feel like I've been the one who has been pushing for us meeting up. There have been some slightly positive signs of either friendliness or reconciling, we've been speaking on the phone for an hour (something we never used to do) a few times, checking in with each other over Christmas/nye and a few texts here and there. But he's happy to catch up but doesn't want to talk about us as he feels it'll drag things out/rehash things. "I was reluctant before because as I've said a few times it just feels like we'll be rehasing things again and drawing things
  2. He wanted me back and wanted to meet up with me and when we met he talked about about our past relationship and asked if I have a boyfriend and if I still love him and that he didn't really wanna break up with and that he thinks that I rushed with the desicion to break up and stuff like that... I didn't really answer him at the moment about thoes things even though he insested that I answer and talk but the next day I thought about everything he said to me and texted him and explained to him eveything and told him that I do still love him and he replyed saying he likes me and cares about me ju
  3. A few days ago my ex boyfriend and I got into an argument (except he was kinda just talking at me while I was quite) and he ended up calling me a . I told him to get out of my car and I drove off. Initially he seemed sorry, and I guess he still does. It’s not that he doesn’t care about me either, he just has a really bad temper and can’t handle himself. I miss him a lot, and I love him a lot. But today he called me and told me that although he loved me, he was not going to change for me and that for me was just a clear sign that I have to move on. I so badly just want to call him and tell him
  4. It’s been a long time since I was last on here posting about an ex boyfriend. In an effort to get over THAT ex boyfriend I started dating someone else (big no no, I know). It wasn’t supposed to be a serious thing, but more of a fling. Well almost 3 years later and a rocky relationship, due to several factors, we broke up 15 months ago. Here’s the thing: I haven’t dated anyone seriously since. The person I’m attracted to is unavailable and the few dates I’ve had don’t really go anywhere. My ex still emails me professing his love and asking for another chance, and despite all the problems, h
  5. He literally hasn't missed A SINGLE story i have posted. He is usually one of the first one's who sees it and is number one on the list of views. He broke up with me 2 months ago, even though I didn't want to break up. Last time we spoke was a month ago. I have been doing no contact since then. Spent this time focusing on myself and bettering myself which is evident in my social media accounts. I just don't get why men do that? Does he still care? I know I wouldn't bother looking at my ex's social media if i didn't care anymore. He's haunting me.
  6. I really really really miss my ex boyfriend. We have been broken up 2.5 years and I can’t forget him, I have dated 2 other guys that were nice and funny but didn’t make me feel like he made me feel. I’m getting older (32) and worried that I’m still even thinking of him at all. He has reached out to me three times in the time we have been apart, the most recent was last November saying how he much he missed me and would love the chance to even just be friends, I was scared of getting hurt by him again so brushed it off again and said “maybe” and never got back to him . I don’t know, i know wh
  7. I do not know how to deal with my ex boyfriend anymore I dated him for a year and when we start to have misunderstading i found out i was pregnant we try to sort our differences but it get worst when i deliver he ask for a breakup but expect me to beg him and when i did not it become a problem help!!!
  8. Okay so a little bit of background incase you haven’t read any of my previous threads, thanks ;) So me and my now ex boyfriend broke up about 8 months ago now, we were together for 2 years and we were pretty serious. We still talked and tried to work things out until about 3 months ago when I found out he has a new girlfriend, it was quite sudden as I asked him frequently if anything is happening between them and he always denied until SHE texted me to leave him alone. Long story, we have eachother blocked on everything and haven’t been in touch and I’m feeling really good finally. Anyway, I
  9. I've been with my I guess ex for over 5 months and we love each other but most every time we fight it's centered around his best friend who I feel is very interpersonally ineffective. I feel like he always has some sort of problem with me whether it's my ex not hanging out with him enough, someting I said that he has interpreted negatively, accusing me of things I don't believe I have done etc. I try to be as calm as possible but last night I snapped because yet again my ex invalidated me and told me I was being ridiculous and that he didn't want another petty stupid irrelevant argument. I bro
  10. So me and my ex dated for a year and we've been broken up for almost 2 years. Our relationship is pretty complicated. So... I was his first girlfriend and we had a strong connection. We broke up because I hurt him really bad and we just went our separate ways. When we broke up for a whole year we would have sex and not speak to each other & then we will somehow see each other & not talk to each other etc. we stopped doing this since last year Christmas until now & I texted out of no where in June to see how he was doing. He would delay messages - and recently he called me at 6am &a
  11. My ex boyfriend dumped me a month ago now and i cant seem to move on. We blocked each other on everything but i dont know i cant control myself after a few days of fighting it i end up using another number to message him.. i know we are never gonna work because he cant trust me. He always accuse me of something that i havent even done. In my head all i want is prove to him that he was wrong all this time i been loyal to him..i really do love him and i want him back but i know it wont work. Please help me its like im going mental thinking of him everyday and some days i just had break down..
  12. So if you are like me, then you will hold on as long as you can to the one you love and don’t want to lose. You don’t even realize that you have let all yo ur self respect go out the window. Because you are determined to see any sign of it maybe working out! And if you are like me you also know that you hold on because you know that once you let go that will be the end and you will never go back. I posted on her about a week or so ago, and I took in the comments and advice. It helped me put things in perspective. And I got fed up quick with living with my ex. Because I was jumping
  13. Maybe some of you have read my previous posts and whatnot but the summary of it is im 18 and he is 19, we dated for three years and broke up almost 6 months ago. At first we became fwb but i broke it off in august/early September. Yesterday night my ex and I were talking (we have been in regular contact) and I asked how his party was on friday night and he said it was okay and admitted that while he was out at a party he realised how ungrateful he was. He has jokingly said “can i be your boyfriend” or maybe seriously im not sure but usually I brush it off. Yesterday he asked if we could go
  14. Last night- my ex boyfriend messaged me. We’ve been in an off and on again relationship for a while.. so I know I should not just jump back in and that I should take what he says with a grain of salt.. but what do you make of this ? [ATTACH]11588[/ATTACH] what should I do? All of me wants to message back.. but none of me wants to get hurt again..
  15. Hey...I'm wondering if anyone can shed some light on an issue. I think I'm unable to think clear as I'm upset. I was with my ex bf for two years..long story short..he wasn't making anytime for us, always letting me down..so I finished it. He was upset but couldn't see he's errors or was unwilling to change..I had mentioned when together what was wrong. We been split up for 8 months..last contact 4 months ago. When out of the blue, he phones me up. I missed he's call but he called the next day and we spoke..just general chat, still calling me darling and normal kisses on text etc....I was
  16. Me and this girl have been in a relationship for 5 months, before me she was in a 3 year relationship. They was only broken up 3 weeks before she told me she wanted me. We moved in together 2 months into the relationship. She always talks about how abusive he was towards her etc. She said she never wants anything to do with him. well last night I got on the computer and seen she made a new Twitter account just to talk to her ex. This is isn't the first time she's went behind my back to talk to him I caught her a couple months back texting and even a phone call. but making a enti
  17. I was in a relationship with a guy who had good morals and it's what I liked most about him. He was the type that was always helping strangers going out of his way for people. He adored me and never stopped trying to make me happy and cheered me up when I was sad. He would go to my grandmothers house and help her with her garden and take my little brother to go see a movie while i was at work in his free time. He always told me how lucky he felt to have me and that I was out of his league. To be honest I thought he was a safe choice . He broke up with me suddenly which is fine people somtimes
  18. Just wondering if anyone has managed to gain trust back from their ex? For some reason he doesn't trust me to even meet with me to talk over things after 4 years together. Says he doesn't trust me not to cause a scene 😞
  19. My ex is so use to me being wrapped around his finger and always responding to him. I've never let him think that he might one day he won't have me. I don't think he believes I'll ever move on I think he feels like no matter what he does I'll stay.
  20. So My ex boyfriend broke up with me about 9 months ago, every since I have noticed that he is always liking my pictures, I don't follow him any more because if I see his pictures it just hurts me deep down. So along with him always liking my pictures he always views my story. Sometimes I do come across him in other picture or I see him around town. I have noticed that he still wears items that I have bought him in the past. I don't know, I just don't understand why he would do that, its not like he's coming back.
  21. We dated in high school. I was 17 years old and he was 19 years old. Two nights ago I get a FaceTime call and I pick it up thinking it's someone else. It's my ex boyfriend from high school. We text for a couple hours. He kept asking to meet up and "catch up." I kept asking him why because I thought it was kind of weird that after 7 years you're contacting me. I have no clue how he even got my phone number. We chatted for a couple hours in the middle of the night talking about how each other has been. I found his Instagram and he has a girlfriend and they planned a big vacation to a foreign cou
  22. I’ve been working on things with my ex bf. We dated for two months about 5 months ago. He came back into my life and wanted to work on things( our breakup involved no cheating). We’ve been working on things for about a month, everything has been going wonderful, literally perfect. Well, while we were out at brunch I saw a text he left sent another girl “hey beautiful”. I immediately got upset. I asked who she was and he told me a girl he dated back in high school that’s going through a divorce and he saw her when he was back home a few weeks back. We are in Cali, his back home is in Alabama. H
  23. Try not to make this too long ..... We have been broken up almost officially a year now. We went though a lot ... It was a mutual break at first because we were moving really fast. We were very serious .. knew we wanted to spend our lives together & all that.. I have 2 children that he also loved & knew he wanted. We had one month NC post break up .... since we have basically been talking on & off. Saw each other in July of last year & basically have every month or couple months. I have gotten so many mixed signals. He tells me he still loves me .. & gets jealous at t
  24. I was in a relationship with my boyfriend for just under two years. Within those two years our relationship was a roller coaster mainly because my boyfriend was addicted to weed. I would always try to work around it but it got to the point where all he wanted to do was smoke and spend no time with me, so he broke up with me because he was no longer attracted to me. I was really sad and angry because all I wanted to do was spend time with him, but I realized I wasn't appreciated nor valued. A few weeks later I was slowly able to get back on my feet. To me the relationship was over because I
  25. I was in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for 1 year and 8 months, we overall had a very good relationship and I personally couldn’t fault it.he was amazing and very loving, caring and affectionate and Romantic, then he got a new job which I helped him get and he started speaking to a girl from work (he had only been there 4 weeks and was speaking to her for 2 of them) and I found out they had been speaking and arranged to meet up I found out after the first meeting, I asked him why he done it he said it was a mistake but then went on to say it was being he felt I was becoming a nag, and th
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