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female 37 (a) yes.....maybe 1989 or 1991 that's one date i'm not 100% sure of. for at least 10years before we got married. we married after 12 years total together. (b) we weren't ready to marry but loved each other. (d) we been together for many years and had a child (e) not the best (f) i guess you really have to love and get to know how someone is, what type of person they are... maybe how their family is, good morals cause that's important. sometimes you don't know that until dating for a few years or living with someone. (g) just by dating, meeting people in their family and getting to really know them. sometimes by even living with them first. that's when most true colors come out. i think. (h) i wish i was married before we had our first child. i think that's important. (i) that's a hard one... i would recommend it only if you loved each other.. because you get to know how that person really is.. sometimes just dating, even if you see each other lots is still hard to know.. you get to decide if the good out weighs the bad... sometimes when you live with someone they may have little things you don't like... so before you marry you can decide if you can handle the those things. marriage is a big decision, not something people should just do at the first "i love you"
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first of all, it doesn't matter if your friends doesn't like him.. however, if your sure the same things will happen again it may be better if you don't try. follow your heart and only that.
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wow i am speechless..i guess this was what i needed
shyanne replied to sukerbut's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
i think 3 months of knowing someone is too early to be moving in... you should never move in with someone unless you love them. i don't see how people can love or know someone after only 3 months but some say that they can love.. love is a big word and a word that we shouldn't just throw around. -
YES 100% i grew up believing that.. my mom would swear by it.
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i think you should be very careful with online friendships.. it's very easy for people to mislead you and easy to tell lies... you seem to be a smart person.... your right about how it's not possible to fall in love with someone online. sure you can truly like someone but not in love.. you can't truly know someone until you meet them. i always wonder about people who talk about being in love with someone they never even met. i think they may not be very "relationship" smart. if you know what i mean. something just not right about that.
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if your only interested in being friends..... you should treat it like a friendship. i mean, as a woman...i wouldn't be walking down the street holding my girlfriends hand.. by doing so, that would give the person the wrong impression. like maybe there is a chance for more. if you don't want more, you don't and that just wouldn't be proper to do. misleading if you will.
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i think maybe you should go talk to a professional about how you feel.. they would be able to give you better advise and help.. doesn't matter if there is an afterlife or god... that's something you will find out one day when your time here is over. for now, you need to live life to the fullest and do things that truly make you happy for yourself.. your the only one that is important and only you can make things well for you... but i really think to help you get there, you first need to talk out your problems and how you feel with someone who can help and understand totally... which you won't find here.
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i never gave much thought on life after death or any of that stuff until my grandmother and mom died... i now truly believe that we do have a soul that leaves our body.
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men and women you had relationships with..... should never date your best friend or family members
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yes this is very true. men and women should also respect each other.
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i think any girl would feel the same way you do. he needs to understand how you feel too... if he doesn't, he's not worth your time.
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My long gone daddy...
shyanne replied to AnotherBrokenDoll's topic in Poetry, Prose, Art & Photography's Topics
yes i love your peom too. i can relate to parts of it -
that was a great idea. best way for her to find out. people lie all the time. he can't lie to her if he doesn't know it's her. did he want to meet this other girl or just chat online? i think some guys just like to chat or get bad pictures because they're guys. guys are into that stuff or so i think. they will look at any sexy pictures women will send but doesn't mean that he would meet her for sex or want a real relationship. you should've asked him out instead of asking him if he had a girlfriend or sex with someone from there.
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you have the right to ask again... i would.
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this is untrue.. if you don't smoke much and only once in a while you would be fine unless you smoked in the last couple of months.. not sure how long it takes to get out of your system. sounds like annie knows about that. not even sure how much you need to smoke in order for it to show. i know when and if i ever did smoke, it was only one or two little puffs.. not much, it doesn't take much if you don't smoke lots. not a good thing to con't doing lots. it will cause you to become forgetful and lazy.. maybe more.
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i think sometimes it helps people feel better if they talk about problems or things that bother them. a good friend wouldn't complain about how many problems you have or why you feel the way you do.. they would listen and try to give you honest opinions. sometimes you may not like what they say but you asked. a good friend would also keep it between the two of you. only a bad friend would complain about your problems to others.. that's why lots of people are here, because it feels good to get things off your chest and tell someone.
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he's a baby... leave him alone
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you should totally forget her or try too. there is no excuse for what she did. unless she was hurt some how and unable to meet you or answer your calls. that's just rude.
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i'm glad you have decided to keep the rings.... even if you and your husband do get a divorce, those rings belong to your daughter. doesn't matter about the certificate, just paper. something may be over but the rings are or will be very special to the daughter you share.
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girls and women find all types of men attractive for their own reasons.. lots of girls have large arms and boyfriends with skinny arms, not a big deal.. that stuff doesn't matter as much as how much they like you, for you not for your size. your girlfriend is or was dating you because she found you attractive and i'm sure she's not the only girl that did. i don't think it's a good thing to tell women you had a gay relationship because that alone could be a turn off or may think your very confused. do some thinking and decide what you want and like, men or women. never worry about what people think of you. you will find some women will like you and some won't.. same with every other man is this world. be the best person you can be and be proud of how you look. you can't change how you look but you can change how you feel about yourself. know that there will be women out there that will find you attractive. there will..... there is someone special out there for everyone, someone that will love you as you are and love how you look.
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well if that's how he is and uses women for that reason only, i guess it's good that your not with him... remember that if he tries to sleep with you or wants to get back together. he may use you for the same reason. you can and will find better.
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why would she say this?
shyanne replied to NewPhillyGuy's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
that statement would hurt anyone.. only a very cold hearted person could say or feel that. maybe she said it because she was mad at you for some reason and didn't totally mean it. when some people are mad they say things in hopes of hurting the other person. not very mature people but one day she'll grow up.. or regret what she said. for now, be strong and move on. i don't think i could get over a statement like that and would always be on my mind. i think that would end the relationship for me... even if i really loved the person. that's very hurtful words for anyone to hear. let her family worry about if she kills herself... send the brother an email and let him know what she's saying. she needs some help and her family may be the best people to find her help or support her. -
your mom and dad are just looking out for you. they worry and love you more than anything else in the world.. they want you to be happy and are scared this older man my hurt you or is dating you for the wrong reasons. you need to sit down and have a very long, serious talk with them and tell them how you feel.. it's very important that they meet your boyfriend and get to talk and know him. they may change how they feel and give your their blessing. if they don't, they may see something you don't. thereforeeee, listen to what they tell you and really try to understand it. than make your decision to continue dating him or maybe not.
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i think this guy is with you because he likes and wants to be with you. each guy is different. just because your last boyfriend did something wrong to you doesn't mean the new one will. you first need to feel good about yourself and want things just for you and not to make men happy. relationships are built on trust and honesty so it's important for you to tell him how and why you feel the way you do. i don't think the problem is with him, he's with you for a reason. the problem is within yourself and how you feel. only you can fix that and not by anything he says. trust him when he tells you he wants to be with you and enjoy your time together, thinking of just each other.