destinys_heaven

Hi!... I'm on the combined pill...if you vomit 2 -4 hours after you've taken the pill then you have to continue taking the pill as normal but use other precuations for 7 days! - if you dont have 7 pills left before the usual break then DONT take a break - its too risky!! As for diarrhea etc, seriuos diarrhea needs to be dealt with like the vomitting but if its just a bit - ie if you can leave the house then its safe. Hope that helps... x ps. the 7 day time when you have to use other precuations starts after you have stopped being sick - not feeling sick.

I have the same age gap as you and i'm 19. You sound like you both have your hearts in the right place and both care for each other for the right reasons. I have never been happier than i am with my b/f! Go for it! - only question would be do your parents know / would they disaprove? its affected my relationship and u need to think how to tackle them! good luck. xx

i thought about gwtting mum to meet him first because i think she would be much more accepting etc - only problem is that my parents have always put up this united front. when i first told them a year ago dad took control of the conversation and i know mum would run everything through him and prob end up getting swade by him - if that makes any sense!?

i dont know if it was just a tactic but dad said he didnt want to meet him because he wouldnt accept it.....

I'm a (mature) 19 year old and my boyfriend is 30. We have known each other for ages and have been a serious relationship for a while now! I love him and he loves me very mcuh! The age gap is not recognisable to us as we both share interests, morals and the outlook in life. I get on with his friends and he gets on with mine - the only problem is my parents! I attempted to tell them a year ago but didnt get anywhere. My dad was the one 'talking' and made a lot of judgements without listening to me or giving the chance for me to explain the nature of our relationship. Has anybody got any advice as how to tackle the parents pls? i'm getting desperate!

Just because someones under 18 it doesnt make the relationship illegal! 16 is the age of consent for sex and you can only get marries at 18 but there is no law saying you cant date!!!!!!!

Do you notice the age gap when your together? does she? If not, then the numbers that are written down dont matter!

I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 30 and we are head over heels! Its not right for anybody to tell you that you relationship is wrong - age is immaterial when you deeply love someone. I told my parents a year ago - not very well though because I was worried what they thought and the saw that and played off of it. 1 year on and i'm not really any further because i dont want to get my emotions played with by my parents again - anybody have any ideas how to confront them again? Anyway..you need to tell them or you will become bitter but make suree you know exactly how your going to do it! Best of luck! x