Coop987

Soooo are u guys saying that i should stop being friends with him??...through him i have i also met many new ppl and have actually started to be more social (lol usually i am soo shy) But i guess that doesnt matter....It would be hard to stop being friends with him because he is such a part of my daily life...AND I DONT AGREE that guys and girls cant be just friends....i have had many guy friends that i have known all my life and i wouldnt ever dream of liking them in that way..and vice versa.

All they say is that it is out of the question and i should not even think about it. Recently my mom has brought him up saying that "she knows i still miss his but i need to get over him because he is too old" but wut really pisses me off is that she said that i was "infatuated" with him. I tried to explain that i was in love with him...but she said i cant possibly know wut love is. Honestly, i think i am just going to give up. I do love and miss this guy but it is obvious that my parents are not going to budge...heyy only 2 years until im 18...HAAha

Woah... See i have incredibly overprotective parents...but even saying that...they are not THAT protective..You need to stand up to them and tell them how you are feeling...I mean come on...U are 22 years old. Since you sound like a very responsible ADULT...KEY WORD should allow you to have some freedoms...

Heyy i dont think that i is just GUYS that dont forget their first love. I know that my first love always will have a speical place...It is just something about them being your first...

Hmmm....the girl is my friend....but so is he...i talk to him more than i do her...actually more than i have to her ever...basically we just did a sport together and in the halls it was a "hey" "how are you" thing. Now if this was one of my really good friends boyfriends...maybe i would understand your advice...But see...i think that guys and girls can be just friends...and how you said "cant i find a girl friend to talk to" I have plenty of friends that are girls and frankly...sometimes guys are just wayy easier to talk to cuz they are such less drama.... Oooh im too young for drama..there is plenty of drama at any age...obviously you dont remember high school that well.

Being in LOVE is the greatest feeling...It is knowing that that person is so amazing...but also knowing, and accepting, that they arent perfect. Love is waking up in the morning hoping that your paths will cross at some time during the day. Love is wanting to be with them when you are apart from them. Aside from those things, love cant be explained. It's something that just IS.Even if you havnt been in love yet...eventually you will be. And you will definitely know it because there is no other feeling like it!

Okkk...so basically here is the story... My friend Stacy's (who i met through cheerleading...we talik..but not really good friends) boyfriend Scott messaged me about a month ago on myspace...and since then we talk every day and have become like best friends...he talks to me about everything from family and problems to comforting me through my last break up (he is friends with my ex) any ways...his when stacy found out that we had been emailiing and talking...she FLIPPED!!! She wont even look at me now...and when she is with her boyfriend he cant even look at me without getting yelled at from her...OUr relationship is purley platonic...but she cannot get the fact that i am also one of his good friends...she wants to be his only frined that is a girl. See... they have been together for almost 2 years so i dont wanna go and cause harm in their relationship...but i also do not want to stop talking to him...he is a great friend..WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Okkk....so i get what everyone is saying about it being illegal...and i it was..then there would definitely be a problem...but you say that it is not illegal...so lets just forget about that point... Ok so ppl are saying all this stuff about being at a differnt point in life...ya she is at a diferent point thaan you...being 16 and all...but if you truly care for this girl and she truly cares for you...you can make it work...I know it sounds soo cliche but really age isnt anything but a number...ya you have had more life experience then her and been through all the stuff that she is just now going through..but thats great cuz you can help her through it... And if you cant help you you fall in love with...its not your choice...just cuz she is 16 doesnt mean you should stop loving her and stop having a relationship with her....IF it is meant to be...it will work out.. As long her parents are not totallly against it (because she IS still a minor)...but i think that if you guys are really in love....it CAN work!!! **hope it helped!!! I have been in a situation like yours..but i was the girl...unfotunately things didnt turn out the way i hoped...stupid parents...but i wish you all the luck** ~Spenser

ok so basically last august i met my boyfriend, Josh who is 18 and graduated from my hugh school last year, and i immediately knew i liked him...like soon turned into love....but the only problem was...we were dating in secret because i knew my super strict parents would not understand...let alone approve...Me and Josh dated until the beginning of November...and that is when my parents found out and immediately forbid me from ever seeing him or talking to him again...they took away my cell, hid all the home phones, never left me home alone, and grounded me until summer. (but im now ungrounded) . I know it sounds pathetic but i cry myself to sleep each night wishing i could just hear his voice and tell me everything is going to be all right. So now i am trying to convince my SUPER protective parents that he really is a good guy....wut do i do? Oh...and just recently i started talking to him over email....its nice to email him...but its jsut not the same...wut do i do?

I am trying to convince my parents to let me see my 18 year old boyfriend...i am almost 16...do you guys have any advice on what to say to them...the only reason they do not want us together is that he is 18...he did nothing wrong..now they wont let me see him or talk to him...Plz help

Hi..my name is Spenser and i am almost 16 years old...last august i met my ex boyfriend, Josh who is 18 and graduated from my hugh school last year, and i immediately knew i liked him...like soon turned into love....but the only problem was...we were dating in secret because i knew my super strict parents would not understand...let alone approve...Me and Josh dated until the beginning of November...and that is when my parents found out and immediately forbid me from ever seeing him or talking to him again...they took away my cell, hid all the home phones, never left me home alone, and grounded me until summer. (but im now ungrounded) Its been 3 months since i have talked to Josh and i miss him every day. I know it sounds pathetic but i cry myself to sleep each night wishing i could just hear his voice and tell me everything is going to be all right. My sixteenth birthday is coming up and i am thinking of trying to ask my rents if i can at least talk to him and be friends with him. I know that i am in love with him so its not like i can just get over him...and we have mutual friends so i know that he doesnt already have some other girlfriend... **plz give me sum advice...should i ask my parents to be able to have some contact with him..or is it a lost cause...and if it isnt....what should i tell my parents that would actually get them thinking how i am or at least let them understand a little bit and allow me to talk to him. ** Thank you soo much...any advice will help Spenser

my friends have said he still feels the same way but feels its pointless because he cant even talk to me...and it hurts to much to have to think about me every day and how we cant be together

I tryed to get them to meet him after they found out but they were so hung up on the fact that he was 18....that they wouldnt listen...they told me it was illeagel for us to even date....which is NOT true.....i tryed telling him that he is a honest, smart, hardworking guy that actually treats me with love and respect...he didnt do drugs and he was a great guy...but my parents would rather me go out with a guy in my own grade....i tryed to tell them that age isnt the only factor becasue my bf b4 him was in my grade and he drinks adn does drugs every weekend.....but they wouldnt listen....its been 4 months and i want to try to reason with....but i need to do it in an adult way...any ideas?

Hi..my name is Spenser and i am almost 16 years old...last august i met my ex boyfriend, Josh who is 18 and graduated from my hugh school last year, and i immediately knew i liked him...like soon turned into love....but the only problem was...we were dating in secret because i knew my super strict parents would not understand...let alone approve...Me and Josh dated until the beginning of November...and that is when my parents found out and immediately forbid me from ever seeing him or talking to him again...they took away my cell, hid all the home phones, never left me home alone, and grounded me until summer. (but im now ungrounded) Its been 3 months since i have talked to Josh and i miss him every day. I know it sounds pathetic but i cry myself to sleep each night wishing i could just hear his voice and tell me everything is going to be all right. My sixteenth birthday is coming up and i am thinking of trying to ask my rents if i can at least talk to him and be friends with him. I know that i am in love with him so its not like i can just get over him...and we have mutual friends so i know that he doesnt already have some other girlfriend... **plz give me sum advice...should i ask my parents to be able to have some contact with him..or is it a lost cause...and if it isnt....what should i tell my parents that would actually get them thinking how i am or at least let them understand a little bit and allow me to talk to him. ** Thank you soo much...any advice will help Spenser