miticalzz
-
Posts
63 -
Joined
miticalzz's Achievements
-
would you date someone that is married but says they are filing for a divorce soon?
-
ok, my bf won't talk to me. and has not talked to me for over two months. we got onto a HUGE fight the end of june. it was his fault because he cheated on me. i tried calling him to talk things thru but he won't answer or call me back. my friends say i need to give it more time and he never said we were broke up. so they think were not. i think when a guy doesn't answer your phone calls for two months it means he is done. should i move on?
-
i left a few messages after we got in the fight i don't think he could retrieve them so i thought he possbily changed it so that he could retrive my messages.
-
hello, my bf and i got into a huge fight over this past weekend. he has a work cell phone that has another guys voice on the voice mail, it's been that way for 2 years and he doesn't know the code to retrieve messages. after the big fight we had i tried to call him to talk things out and found out that he has changed his voice mail to his own name. i don't know what to think of it but just find it all odd.
-
i think she cares about you but not enough to be commited or have a futrue with you. she just isn't ready or thinks your not the right guy for her.
-
hello, just wondering if anyone else feels this way. one day i hate my boyfriend and so want to end things. the next day i love him. i go back and forth and back and forth. i think about the things that he does that make me so mad and what i could do to change it. then i realize that it isn't going to change. he doesn't want to compromise. every time we fight he stays on top. then i get all pissed off because he got the better of me. i really want to end things and walk away because i'm tired of feeling this way. just want to know if anyone is going through something similar?
-
what do i do?? my bf doesn't seem to care about us anymore
miticalzz replied to miticalzz's topic in Relationship Advice
he's been acting like this for about 6 months. -
what do i do?? my bf doesn't seem to care about us anymore
miticalzz replied to miticalzz's topic in Relationship Advice
so i am boring? i try to talk about stuff and he sounds uninterested all the time. -
so fed up, so want to end things but for some reason i don't. we hardly even talk anymore. he doesn't call me or return my phone calls. when he does answer my calls he very short. phone conversation: me: so how was your weekend did you do anything fun? him: the usual me: so how come you didn't answer my calls? him: i answer when i'm near the phone if i'm not i don't me: so maybe i should just stop calling you i seem to piss you off him: i never said that me: why so pissed then him: the usual me: well i will stop calling if that is what you want him: i never said anything like that then a long pause and he says he has to go. he doesn't seem to care one way or the other if i call him or not.so what to i do? should i break up with him? he is being a real * * *.
-
all i did was kiss the new guy. it wasn't even a french kiss or anything. i did enjoy his company and his attention tho. but i guess my point is that i wish i got this kind of attention from my boyfriend but right now i'm not. and i don't understand why he is shutting me out because of what has happened to me.
-
hi dako i had something really bad happen to me about a month ago. i called my bf up sobbing and when i told him what happened he got pissed. he said he wasn't mad at me but was sick of all the drama. he won't even allow me to talk about it. i needed comfort from someone and i got it from another man. i feel bad for going off to another guy but i wish i would have gotten comfort from my boyfriend but he won't give it to me.
-
please tell me what you think. i have been in a relationship with a quite controlling boyfriend. i care for him alot and have put alot of time and effort into the relationship. recently he has shut me off because i had come to him with a serious problem that i have been having. because he is not there to support me i have run to another man for support. i feel quilty and i love him but he is just not there for me. i'm hoping all this will pass but it has been going on for about a month now. i started NC and have not contacted my bf for two weeks but yesterday i caved and ended up calling him. he was very short and rude on the phone and i can't figure out why he is behaving this way. i always listen to him when he is having problems but he just isn't there for me. i found myself liking this other man but only thing that i wish my bf would be as nice as he is. i can't move on with another guy because it just doesn't feel right or comfortable. can i stop his controlling behavior and why do you think my bf is breaking down?
-
hello. i got into a huge fight with my bf. he hasn't been very supportive and isn't really there for me. i went out with a friend and met this really nice guy. i like the guy alot and at the end of the night we ended up kissing. i really wanted to take it further but didn't because i'm hoping for a relationship with this guy. but when we were kissing i got weirded out because i kept thinking about my bf. i don't know why but maybe i was just pissed off at my bf at the time and felt vulnerable to the other guy. now i like the other guy alot and want to break things off with my bf. i don't feel like kissing him was really cheating but i know i want to see him again and if i do things will probaly go alot farther then kissing. is if wrong for me to like both guys?
-
when guys won't commit.... do they ever change their mind
miticalzz replied to miticalzz's topic in Relationship Advice
the first time he broke up with me he told me that he needed some space and wanted some alone time. i moved away and he got all uptight and said he wanted me back. he's always been saying how much he misses me. so that"s why i suggested moving back in with him and all he did was laugh. -
i finally got up enough guts to ask my bf if we would ever be living together again. and all he did was laugh at me. i asked him if i could move into his place and he told me noooooo. then i said i guess we will never ever live together again because this isn't what you want. he laughed at me again and said that he was happy living alone and that he liked be able to do whatever he wants to. i told him that he hurt my feelings and he laughed at me again. why all the laughing? he made me feel like a * * *. plus i don't get it cause he just told me a week ago that he wished he could see me more. so i have tried to talk to him but he won't answer the phone. i really think he cares about me but is too afaid to say so. what could i do?