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  1. miticalzz
    would you date someone that is married but says they are filing for a divorce soon?
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    ok, my bf won't talk to me. and has not talked to me for over two months. we got onto a HUGE fight the end of june. it was his fault because he cheated on me. i tried calling him to talk things thru but he won't answer or call me back. my friends say i need to give it more time and he never said we were broke up. so they think were not. i think when a guy doesn't answer your phone calls for two months it means he is done. should i move on?
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    i left a few messages after we got in the fight i don't think he could retrieve them so i thought he possbily changed it so that he could retrive my messages.
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    hello, my bf and i got into a huge fight over this past weekend. he has a work cell phone that has another guys voice on the voice mail, it's been that way for 2 years and he doesn't know the code to retrieve messages. after the big fight we had i tried to call him to talk things out and found out that he has changed his voice mail to his own name. i don't know what to think of it but just find it all odd.
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    i think she cares about you but not enough to be commited or have a futrue with you. she just isn't ready or thinks your not the right guy for her.
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    hello, just wondering if anyone else feels this way. one day i hate my boyfriend and so want to end things. the next day i love him. i go back and forth and back and forth. i think about the things that he does that make me so mad and what i could do to change it. then i realize that it isn't going to change. he doesn't want to compromise. every time we fight he stays on top. then i get all pissed off because he got the better of me. i really want to end things and walk away because i'm tired of feeling this way. just want to know if anyone is going through something similar?
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    he's been acting like this for about 6 months.
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    so i am boring? i try to talk about stuff and he sounds uninterested all the time.
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    so fed up, so want to end things but for some reason i don't. we hardly even talk anymore. he doesn't call me or return my phone calls. when he does answer my calls he very short. phone conversation: me: so how was your weekend did you do anything fun? him: the usual me: so how come you didn't answer my calls? him: i answer when i'm near the phone if i'm not i don't me: so maybe i should just stop calling you i seem to piss you off him: i never said that me: why so pissed then him: the usual me: well i will stop calling if that is what you want him: i never said anything like that then a long pause and he says he has to go. he doesn't seem to care one way or the other if i call him or not.so what to i do? should i break up with him? he is being a real * * *.
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    all i did was kiss the new guy. it wasn't even a french kiss or anything. i did enjoy his company and his attention tho. but i guess my point is that i wish i got this kind of attention from my boyfriend but right now i'm not. and i don't understand why he is shutting me out because of what has happened to me.
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    hi dako i had something really bad happen to me about a month ago. i called my bf up sobbing and when i told him what happened he got pissed. he said he wasn't mad at me but was sick of all the drama. he won't even allow me to talk about it. i needed comfort from someone and i got it from another man. i feel bad for going off to another guy but i wish i would have gotten comfort from my boyfriend but he won't give it to me.
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    please tell me what you think. i have been in a relationship with a quite controlling boyfriend. i care for him alot and have put alot of time and effort into the relationship. recently he has shut me off because i had come to him with a serious problem that i have been having. because he is not there to support me i have run to another man for support. i feel quilty and i love him but he is just not there for me. i'm hoping all this will pass but it has been going on for about a month now. i started NC and have not contacted my bf for two weeks but yesterday i caved and ended up calling him. he was very short and rude on the phone and i can't figure out why he is behaving this way. i always listen to him when he is having problems but he just isn't there for me. i found myself liking this other man but only thing that i wish my bf would be as nice as he is. i can't move on with another guy because it just doesn't feel right or comfortable. can i stop his controlling behavior and why do you think my bf is breaking down?
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    hello. i got into a huge fight with my bf. he hasn't been very supportive and isn't really there for me. i went out with a friend and met this really nice guy. i like the guy alot and at the end of the night we ended up kissing. i really wanted to take it further but didn't because i'm hoping for a relationship with this guy. but when we were kissing i got weirded out because i kept thinking about my bf. i don't know why but maybe i was just pissed off at my bf at the time and felt vulnerable to the other guy. now i like the other guy alot and want to break things off with my bf. i don't feel like kissing him was really cheating but i know i want to see him again and if i do things will probaly go alot farther then kissing. is if wrong for me to like both guys?
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    the first time he broke up with me he told me that he needed some space and wanted some alone time. i moved away and he got all uptight and said he wanted me back. he's always been saying how much he misses me. so that"s why i suggested moving back in with him and all he did was laugh.
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    i finally got up enough guts to ask my bf if we would ever be living together again. and all he did was laugh at me. i asked him if i could move into his place and he told me noooooo. then i said i guess we will never ever live together again because this isn't what you want. he laughed at me again and said that he was happy living alone and that he liked be able to do whatever he wants to. i told him that he hurt my feelings and he laughed at me again. why all the laughing? he made me feel like a * * *. plus i don't get it cause he just told me a week ago that he wished he could see me more. so i have tried to talk to him but he won't answer the phone. i really think he cares about me but is too afaid to say so. what could i do?
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    DN, i have been married twice divorced twice, sorta in a third relationship. my parents treat me like i'm a child (another problem) i am close to forty. i'm a little person i don't know if that's why my moms friend does this. mostly i think he know my family won't believe.
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    hello, my mother seems to blame everything that goes wrong in her life on me. she also never believes anything i tell her. her best friend ( a guy) has been molesting me since i was 15. i finally got really afraid of him and told her what her best friend was doing and she didn't believe me. she told me i was crazy. her bestfriend is at her house alot which makes it completely awkward for me. and when my parents leave town they ask him to watch over me which totally freaks me out. (her friend) knows he can pretty much do whatever he wants to me cause i have bi-polar disorder. so my family all think that i'm crazy. i am so sick of this bi-polar BS, and everybody treating me differently because i have it. i know right from wrong and the way my family treats me isn't right. i'm not allowed to say how i feel about anything because their response to everything is that i must not be taking my medication and i'm going loopy again. i take my medicine, i go to see my therapist. the professionals tell me i'm doing fine. i think my family can't accept me the way i am.
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    yes. and so that is another reason they don't like him.
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    they don't like him because he was married not yet divorced but so was i. and they technically did the same thing.
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    DN, yes my son is still living with my parents, he actually likes my bf tho, even tho he hates me for my divorce. i was too still married when i met my bf. i wasn't living with my ex husband at the time. when i met my bf i had been separated for 8 months. it justs takes along time to finalize a divorce and my parents don't understand that. here's the funny thing tho my mom left my dad while still be married to him for a guy that she became preganant with. he is now my step father.
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    oh man this is so hard. because all this lying is so against my morals. they have told me so many times that if they even find out i am talking with him they will never allow me house ever again.
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    i know a few gay guys and i find that they are just so much easier to talk to.
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    hi melrich, long story.... he was married when i met him but had filed for a divorce. my family comes from a very strong religious background. they don't approve even tho he had filed for a divorce they considered him to still be married. they think he is a cheater and that he is going to cheat on me in return.they think i am a home wrecker.
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    hi everyone, i could really use some good advice cause i don't know what to do anymore. i have been seeing my bf behind my families back for quite some time now. all the sneaking around and lying is really stressing me out. i love my family and i love my bf i just can't take all the pressure anymore. i know they will never like him no matter what i say. if they ever find out that i'm still seeing him they will disown me completely. how in the hell do i choose between my family and my bf? i have told my family that i broke up with him along time ago and that i am now seeing someone else. now they want to meet this new guy and it all lies. i know i should tell the truth but i am afaid too. i can never do anything right in my families eyes. what should i do in this situation?
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    I am so obsessed with losing weight, I take diet pills and laxatives, I will take like six to eight laxatives a day. I weigh myself about three or four times a day to keep track of how much weight I have lost. I only eat things that are less than 80 calories. I don't go out with my friends anymore because I think I'm to fat. I hate feeling this way, because i feel ugly and unattractive. I don't know how to stop feeling so bad about myself.
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