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  1. And what really makes me angry is that she knew my dad was in the hospital five days ago and she couldn’t friggin call me ??????? Five friggin days ago you knew this Marilyn and you thought you would tell me Friday right before my holiday . You’re a . Feel like calling her right now because she’s going on holidays today and telling her what her nice fabulous brother did. Do you want to know that your other brother is a rapist and a child molester I hope you have a good holiday .
  2. Well i met this guy through my brother in law, we hung out twice, last night before he left he told me he would see me tomorrow.. I txt'd him earlier today and said if he was still going to come over to come at 8, he txt'd back and put ok see you later. Well it's 9 and he hasn't came over yet nor called. Should I txt him and ask him if he is still coming by or what??
  3. Sorry this is sorta long... My brother is 21 years old. He hasn't graduated... he's been into drugs since he was about 16... and he's basically messed up a good portion of his life. He hasn't lived at home for about the past... year and a half maybe .... because him and my mom dont get along... ever since he's been about 17 he's been in and out of our house. He can't keep a steady job.. and is basically bumming off whatever he can get. But as of the end of next month he wont have a place to live so he wants to move home.. that's fine... both me and my dad have clearly stated to him and my mom that if things are going to go back to the way they were than we can't have him here.... him and my mom faught constantly.. like yelling screaming.. the whole 9 yards. My house wasn't a very happy place. It's been alright with just me and my parents... we get along for the most part... and my brother comes home every sunday to do laundry and have a decent meal. So fine he wants to move home.. not a big deal.... tonight... our phone rings.. it's him... he had 6 warrants out for his arrest .... adn one of his ex-employers was a cop and ran a background check on him.. and when he went to pick up his t-4 slip.. he got arrested. One of them is for assult.. and i don't know what else.... he's 21 (i'm in sask canada) so there's a good chance he could end up with jail time.... He's my brother.. i love him to death.. but i sure don't like him very much.... My parents don't know what to do.. there isn't much tehy can do.... the other day he told me that ... it's a good thing that i've watched him screw up his whole life because then i don't have to make stupid mistakes.. i've learned from him.. which i have.... but like.. what do i say to that? I guess my problem.. if you want to call it that.... is ... i'm scared for him..... i always am..... i worry about him....and there's absolutely nothing i can do.... he's been arrested before... when he was 17..he got off with some community serivce and 2 years probation.... so he was lucky... he was a minor.... that's been wiped from his criminal record.. but now there'sa chance that's all gonna come back to bite him in the ass..... I'm scared for him.. that he's gonna end up with jail time... or something's gonna happen to him..... i've always been scared that he might do something drastic... something.. like...suicide.... i do'nt think he would.. but that's always something that has terrified the hell outta me.. i know he gets depressed.... and i knwo he doesn't handle it very well.... If anyone can offer me... anything.... advice...some comfort.. anything.. it would be appreciated.... if you have any questions.. i'll answer them as well.... Thanks for anything
  4. I have been in a very serious relationship for 10 months. A boy that Iused to have a huge crush on suddenly started asking me out and stuff. One day when we were alone, I kissed him. I told my boyfriend because one of our promises was to always be honest to each other no matter what. He forgave me and told me that we were going to put it behind us. Then one night when I was sleeping over my friends house, she had her boyfriend there and her brother was there. (Her brother is the boy that I was messing with.) We ended up having sex that night. I was so mad and sad b/c no one stopped me and i was just so caught up in the moment. I told my boyfriend and he broke up with me. He says that he still loves me but he cant be with me right now b/c he dosent trust me anymore. I am so torn and I wish this never happened. Please help me get the love of my life's trust back so we can be happy again. I promise I will never cheat on him again.
  5. i had some questions a few weeks ago about my friends brother. i only got one reply, so i am asking for more help. -------------------------------------------------------------- well, one of my best friends has a twin brother and i really like him. i think i've liked him for a while but i kept fighting it b/c he was my friends brother. i think he used to like me a few years ago and i wish i had taken advantage of it back then. we all have the same friends so we we hang out alot. and i spend a lot of time with his family or at his house in the winter b/c we all go snowboarding. i tried to tell him i liked him one time, but he said that was too weird and then later, figured it was just a joke. i want him to know that i like him, but then i am scared if he does find out its true. i really really like him and i want to flirt with him, but i wouldnt know how to keep it from being to weird. im so confused with myself because i also dont think i would ever want to go out w/ him. i dont think my friend would have a problem with it, but i wouldnt know who to hang out with when i went to thier house for a party or to stay over. please help me, im so confused about what i want!! ------------------------------------------------------- i would also like to add that i recently found out one of my other friends likes him too. she knows i like him. we havent really talked about one of us goin out w/ him or anything and there isnt really a whole lot of competition for him or anything. but i will admit i do get jealous if she starts flirting w/ him. well, any other help would be great!
  6. Last week I broke up our engagement but we continued to live together. I told him since he didn't talk about marriage plans and didn't want to marry me, there was no point in being engaged. He let it happen without a doubt. THis weekend he used my sadness over my first daughter moving away 6 hours to College as an excuse to jump out. Also he is buying a new business which he can make some good money in the near future and I am sure he doesn't want to get married so I will have rights to it. He gave me cheap excuses like I don't pick up his clothes for him (he throws everything on the floor). He brought up things from the past, some unfounded and unfair. He just wants out. I called him 6 times after I saw the letter to talk and he wasn't picking up his cell phone. He wants to sell our joint house and is demanding that I move out. I have a dauhhter who is just starting HIgh School in 5 days; I can't just move out right now, and I have the right to stay in the house until it is sold! I decided, based on reading these posts at Ealone, not to pursue him anymore, just let him go. He knows how I feel. I will not call him again. And if he calls me to talk "business" aka how to split our house and everything inside it, I will tell him I want NC and he has to deal with my brother from now on. I simply refuse to talk to him or be nice and cooperative on the phone. He will discuss everyting with my brother ANyone who's been through a break up recently...how long does the pain last? Do we really get over it? I need help and friends right now, but I don't want to bother my friends (they will not believe me since we had many fights in the past). I know I suffer initially but I after a while I am fine. Last year I left him for good and after a few days I was fine, actually looking forward to life without him and with finding someone more stable and dedicated to me.
  7. I cant stop thinking about my friends older brother..hes shy and cute and just started college..hes a freshman...I Heard recently that he likes me too..the only thing is that he dosnt get along with his sister and shes my best friend... I cant stop crying..he seems like the only guy that would be good for me.. Since my high standards and all..Like theres a few guys who like me..ones a perve , the others a jail bird..spends more time in jail then anywhere else , ones anooying and thinks hes a cowboy...and the other guy i like doesnt really care for my existence... Latley ive been real sad and feeling alone. .Ever since school started ive felt like im the only one..everyone else has a cute guy they are crushin on or a hunk who likes them back..I seem to be getting the most stangest guys latley... And now my bestfriend is trying to hook me up with her brothers friend instead..what a friend that is huh>? i mean wouldnt she want me to go ut with her brother..she even had told me shes happy for us ...but is trying to hook me upwith someone i DIS LIKE.. i like him as nothing more than a friend... I guess i just need some help...I donno why im being such a brat right now..i cant stop Crying and feeling sick inside..not wanting to eat ..resting a lot and in the morning i spend more timegetting ready than preparing myself for school..IM SO SUPERFICIAL..and i just a want my bestfriends brother..He goes to college and than school but i think if i could just get a date with him it woould make me feel happy again! Sorry yall...I just had to vent i guess if yall could be courteous and help me out..that woul dbe great! Ide appriciate it! Thanks bunches and tons
  8. Ok i will try to cut to the chase... Have girlfriend, she from poland i from england, everything going ok except for a few things on my side (my insecurities?) She has dropped hints about when she was involved in some kind of strip card game and ended up naked, but never told me the whole story, i have a great imagination and it has filled in the gaps for me, but is this a common thing... i never did it... but i havent been a saint either... so why am i thinking about it so much? And the big thing... well for me... she has two brothers... so there are three of them and they are all around the same age..., my gf is 23 and her and her 2 brotheres were all born within 3 yesrs of each other. So she has told me they are very close... mmm but now i have thoughts they are too close... know what i mean? When she was with me she had a SMS from one of them tellling her they wish she had left her hand behind... and that his hand was hurting from too much masturbation on that day!!! Mmmm so ok, and then tonight i call her to talk... she tells me first she is in bed and then it emerges she is in her brothers bedroom watching a film... in bed with her 2 brothers watching a film...mmmm ok. So i carefully get to asking what she is wearing, she tells me she is wearing her robe... i know she wears nothing else when she is wearing a robe... mmm and in bed with her 2 brothers watching a film... Am i paranoid or what.. i dont know!!! Can brothers and sisters be this close without anything "weird" Any advice greatly appreciated!!! Thanks
  9. alright, me and my g/f have only been going out for 8 months, but we live together and we are around each other all the time. She is from Rhode Island and i am from north carolina. She is down here for college, and she has alot of friends back home, which i dont mind, she talks to them all the time, but there is one person i have a problem with. its a guy she talks to everyday multiple times a day she says that its just a guy that her family took care of when he was going through a hard time, but at frist she told me it was her brother, which i later found out was a lie, it is not her brother. and she will answer the phone everytime he calls no matter what time it is, and she talks to him around me and i listen and she talks to him like there is a realtionship there. and she even tells him seh loves him. i have brought up my suspicion that i think she is cheating on me but it never gets anything sttled, she wont even alk to me about it, and when she does she gets mad and then i end up feeling bad for bringing it up. now she went back home for the weekend to see her friends(or so she says) and she was supposed to go to a concert with this guy, i asked her if she would have aproblem with me going to a concert with someone, and she said no, which is a lie. oh and we used to have sex almost everyday in the start of our realtionship, and now i cant even touch her sexually with out her saying No Stop That!, we havent had sex in almost 2 months, i ask her why she wont have sex and she says she dosent know why. i think that is just BS, i think i should be able to have sex with my g/f. but i dont knwo what is going on, ive been so damn confused latley. ive tried gettting advice from people but it wont help b/c i can never explain my whole story, i hope that i can on here. i hope that someone can read this and give me some advice.
  10. hey it's CC, Remember that boy who sexually assulted me? Well he hit my little brother. He's 18 this guy and my little brother is 12. We were going to phone the police on him, me and my family I mean, if he does it again we are going to phone the poilce. I want to hit him over and over again but I don't want to stoop ton his level. what should in the the mean time? This guy still followes me whenever I go out the house. So I feel like a prisoner out of my own home because of him. I don't know what to do. Please write back cc
  11. Hey, well i'm knew sorta to the forum. I usually browse to find some of the answers to my problems, often can't find all of them. I already posted once, and typed about 3 paragraphs and it ended up not posting, so this one if going to be a little shorter. To make a long story short, i have been bestfriends with this girl for over a year now. It started with me having an attraction for her bestfriend. About 3 months ago, i have started seeing her in a different perspective. I have always been attracted to her, and we flirt, but recently she has become something more meaningful than just a bestfriend. About three days ago she called me crying saying she broke up with her b/f who had been treating her bad. I felt terrible, because she let him walk all over her but was glad that she had broken up with him. They had only been dating a month or two now. She was crying and i did my best comfort her. She said she appreciated me being there for her, and i assured her i would always be there for her. Even though me and her are bestfriends, we are always telling eachother we love eachother, walking together in the hall, we sit together at lunch, and ect. We flirt alot and she always tell's me she is my "french maid"..lol. Well the next day after we got off the phone, i really wanted to tell her i love her but i know better then to do that. Not wanting to take things to quick, and now if ever she needed a friend, so i decided to write her a note. In the note i wrote and told her how much i cared for her, and that i felt bad when she worried, and that i would always be there for her. Well, as soon as i got home she called and told me the note was the sweetest thing she ever heard and that she was glad that she had me, and i told her i was glad that i had her. So her's the thing...I really like her, i think she is showing signs of liking me. I dont wanna take things to fast and i think i'm doing everything right so far. We're supposed to go to the movies next week so anyone know anything i can say or do to tell if she might like me as much as i like her?? Here's some other detail's- * She had other bestfriends that are guys that call her sis. She told me that she could never date a bestfriend because it would be like dating her brother or something. That kinda let me down, but when i asked her if she was my sis, her reaction was "NO,No,No.." and she tells me she's my french maid..(long story).. * I told her i was going to a party one weekend and might ak out this girl i told her about. She was completley objective. She didn't like the ideal of me dating this girl, and she didn't even know her and she still didn't like the idea. Then i told her i'd jsut stay home or go to the movies, and sure enough me nd her went to the movies.. * We go everywhere together more/less at school. We walk together in the halls, sit by eachother at lunch, i have 3 or my 4 classes with her..ect.. * Her family likes me, mom, dad, and brother..i've never really met them except her lil brother, and he's a cool lil kid. * Not to brag, but i'm a decent looking guy..i think..I guess i could say i'm more well known at school, i guess because i play sports, guitar, ect..She is kinda shy, but my friends like her, though they dont really know her. I'm a hopeless romantic..the sweet guy..and thats the kinda guy she says is perfect or, and i think i know how to treat her right.. Any advice, idea's, feedback, or questions is appreciated. I hope to become a regular here on the forums..thanks again, and it's appreciated..also, any test i could do to see if she likes me is appreciated..cya..
  12. Hey enotalone, today when I was at my buddies house, hand his brother fired off two rounds of his Dad's beretta and it was quite loud. It wasn't stock in that respect and it was louder than should be. But anyways ever since they were fired, I have a very loud ringing in my left ear that doesnt seem to go away since it started at around 4 this afternoon. Im thinking I'll sleep it off and see what happens and if stays bad I will see about seeing a doctor, but has this ever happened to anyone and if so was there anyway to help it other than louder sounds? Thanks
  13. For the past 3 months, my brother and I had to move out of our house for a bit becuase of some family problems. My brother and I went to live with our grandparents for the time. Well anyway, since I don't get to see my granmother often, she lives on the other side of the country, she spoiled me and my brother with lots of fattening and deliscious food. Now I'm back at my house one month later, but the only problem is that we have changed, A LOT! When at my grandmother's house she would feed us a lot of junk food. She would buy a lot of the junk foods becuase she likes to spoil us. So over the duration of the 2 months, I ended up eating a lot of junk food. A very high metabolism runs in our family so, I wasn't worried aboutweight or anything, and becuase I wasn't worried I didn't realize what had happened. Both my brother and I were gaining weight like crazy, and not muscle, 100% fat from all the crap we had been eating. When I came to my grandparents house I was 6 feet 6 inches tall, and weighed 165 lbs, and my brother was 6 feet 2 inches, and weighed 157 lbs. Now I weigh 251 lbs and my brother weighs 238 lbs. During the trip, I did notice I was packing on a few pounds, but I don't really pay much attention to how my body looks. But soon all of my clothes became too small for me, and I realized that I had gotten fat. Not only had I gained that much weight, but after trying on my jeans, I realized that I had also grew 4 inches! I'm 16 right now, and I know this is the age where I get growth spurts, but I was already pretty tall. When I had realized I was gaining all that weight I decided to cut back on the food, and excercise some, but I still kept gaining weight! I felt so awkard, I was suddenly overweiht, and 7 feet tall. Now that I am back at home I have been dieting and excersicing, but it isnt helping! I am still madly gaining weight. Now I weigh 297 lbs, and I am stilling gaining that weight! I have tried all kinds of diets and seen specialsts, but nothing is working. Is there anything that you people could come up with to help me out? I'll do anyhting to stop this weight gain problem! If this keeps up, I'll be over 400 lbs soon! Please help!!
  14. Well, I guess first I should link my old thread: link removed In there I went against everyone's advice which I guess I should have taken in the first place. Since then, we were together again and things were a little rough in the beginning, with trust issues and such. She would be there for me every night when I cried on the phone; she was there for me, she was caring for me. Ever since, she has not contacted her ex at all for me, she even cancelled her trip to India for me. We were active, going out a few nights a week, having a lot of fun.. and every now and then we would get into a stupid argument. I am at fault in a lot of places also, I would get mad at her when she didn't call me because I would think she was calling someone else or something along those lines. I never actually said why I would get mad, but I would just be upse with her on the phone. I know that I probably shouldn't have been this way but my emotions take over me so easily. The other night she had to go to her fathers house (her parents are separated) and she had to spend the night there and her father doesn't know about me, only her mother does. So she sent me a text message at 9:00 or so saying she couldn't call but would try to call later. Hours go by and I wait.. we exchanged a few more text messages, I was upset I just wanted to talk to her for 1 minute (she goes to a different room usually to call me for a minute) but she kept sending the same message over and wouldn't call "I'm going to bed, goodnight babe" So I was upset again. Man I am really starting to realize my faults as I write this. I shouldn't have been mad at her I should have understood. Well the next day she calls me from work during her lunch and I was upset with her on the phone and I got a vibe from her that she wasn't thrilled about it either. After this I realized that I wasn't being fair and I sent her 2 emails the first telling her that I was sorry for everything and not just today but including past incidences like this. She was happy, or seemed it anyway after the emails and a phone call. I figure cool, everything is ok again. So I call her when she gets home from work and she only had a few minutes since she had to pick her brother up at the airport and it takes her 2 hours to drive there. So I call her while she is driving and she doesn't pick up I tried 4 times probably. She calls me at 10:30 telling me his flight is delayed until 12:30 and that her and her mom are going to get some food in the city. I try to call her numerous times between these times and she doesn't pick up. Finally she calls me back at 1:10am telling me she is waiting for her brother at the terminal. Well she sends me a text message or two after that saying that she will be home very late and will call me tomorrow. Now I am always up til 4am (night shift) so I send her more messages asking her to call when she gets home because I will still be awake, even if its just for a minute. She doesn't call me back until 10:30 this morning. She was upset because she said she feels she always has to answer to me about everything (which is related to the trust issue in the other post). Then she goes on saying that she can't be in a relationship right now and that she needs to be single and have some time and freedom to herself. So she dumped me on the phone, then she called me maybe 5 hours later to see if I was ok. I told her that I would not make her answer to me, she didn't have to call me all the time, etc etc, and that I just wanted to be with her. She told me not to make this any harder than it was already. I was upset, scared, didn't know what to do so I called her mom who wasn't aware of the breakup, she told me to tell everything that I had already told her (that i wouldn't be so posessive of her, that i would give her space, and things like this) So i call her and I tell her again, and ask her to meet me today just to say goodbye, she said she couldn't because she was afraid that we would end up back together again and she wanted to take a break now. So I asked her how long this break would be and she didn't have a definate answer just said I don't know, maybe a month, maybe less, maybe more. I should also mention that we were going to move in together starting September 1st. So I say ok I want you to be happy, and whatever it takes is what you have to do. We agree to call eachother when we are feeling really low and maybe meet up every now and then until things are better. She said she needs to find herself and she doesn't know who she is anymore and she can't commit to anything. So we are on a break now, I feel horrible I don't think she will come back, I don't know what to do. I just feel scared, helpless, inside. I haven't eaten anything all day, lost all of my appetite. Smoked a lot of cigarettes. I guess I am wondering what everyone thinks, and if there is a possibility or not.. or just try to move on now? Thanks everyone.
  15. ok, well, I just need some feedback, or advice, I have a problem, Im 16 and I feel really depressed alot of times, I dont think I would ever commit suacide (because of the whole heaven and hell issue) but I wish i would die all the time, like will get hit by a car or just be shot for no reason and i do sometimes think about suacide alot, but that is not why I am posting, but, I realized that I am an alcoholic at age 16, when i get drunk, it is always alone, in my room or in the bathroom at school in the morning, I do not drink sociably, I dont try and have fun when i drink, nobody knows im drunk, because im quiet and keep to myself, i just get really deep into thought. I started drinking when I was really young because it was always easy to get it, but for the last while i have been drinkin everyday, i didnt really see it as a problem, but i guess it is when im doing it everyday, for no reason, alone, just because it makes me feel better abotu things. I dont have a bad life, i guess i am pretty lucky, because i am not poor, (im not rich either) but i do have problems with my family, me and my oldest brother do not get along, my dad is always yelling at something and it gets to everyone, my mother simply annoys me and i only get along with my other brother, at school, i guess i have lots of friends, but im kinda shy, so i really dont talk much, people usually say hi to me before i say anything to them unless thye are a close friend. ONe problem I had lately is i just ended the first relationship ive ever been in, it was hard for me, and now i hate my ex, even though i am friendly to her. I cry thinking about her, There is a girl I really liek and have always liked, but never got a chance to talk to her, shes very beautiful, ans smart and everything abotu her seems perfect for me, but she is way out of my leauge and I try to stop thinking abotu her because it is just a dream ( shes not one of those extremely popular girls that everyone has a crush on, its different than that) , and lately ive been cutting away from people, i liek being by myself. for the last couple months ive been coming home and staying in my room in the basement in the dark listening to music and drinking. Nobody knows about how I really am, what I am doing, my parents are jsut annoyed i stay in the basement all the time. I never used to ever like to say i was stressed out or depressed, i never thoguht i had a good reason too, i still dont think i have a really good reason to, but i think i am really depressed, i am confused why thoguh, its seems like i just am, has anybody gone through anything simular, or have advice, help or something to comment about? thanks.
  16. I am 25 years old and living in Tennessee. All of my life i have been really spoiled (more a less), I havnt had all that great of a childhood. If a childhood at ALL... Going through sexual abuse, physcial abuse and verbal abuse... Like you aint worth crap! But now it is absolutely falling down on me like bricks. I have been hooked on Drugs and Alcohol for about 5 years. I have been clean 6 months now. I go to counseling, pyschiatrist, shrinks, case managers. A/A! Nothing seems to lighten me up and make me feel better. The depression is horrible. I have a g/f that I have been with for 2 yeares. She is 6 months clean also. She lives with her dead husbands parents and her depression is really crazy! The deal is I still live with my parents and the tense surroundings are about to drive me to the edge. There is no couragement. I have no job and when I do have a job they usually make me late just about everyday. My g/f is good at taking me and picking me up but she is not allowed anywhere near my house because of parents and brothers that live 40 miles away say if they catch her around me they will hurt her. So i havnt seen none of my brothers in over a year. They are very selfish and dont care about nothing but themselves. It hurts me BAD!! I have told DR after DR I suffer from extreme anxiety. Sitting here right now thinking of who is going to read this makes me extremely sick to my stomach. I cant go on no more like this. I have spoken to my g/f cause we are having problems. I am not capable of taking care of her at the moment. I have no motivation what so ever. I have had over 200 jobs in 7 years. Never once held one more than a week. Most people would say go ahead and kill yourself you aint worth crap!!! I have showed a little interest in college for Law Enforcement. My family tells me I cant do it because I cant get out of bed long enough. DUHHH????? WONDER WHY? I have $500 coming to me in about 2 weeks. I have no car nor no where to go. I want me and my g/f to just go! Get out of here and start our own lives where we can be comfortable and together. Cause I HATE being alone and nothing to do. Does anyone have any ideas or opinions of what I could do? I am up to my neck in this stuff and today for some reason I am almost to the breaking point. I am hurting I dont want to feel like this no more. Medication dont help because I usually abuse it or I dont take it because im scared it will make me relapse. Drugs and Alcohol are far from my mind and I want to stay that way. HELP!!
  17. Hey everyone, Ok im having a friend problem. I'm sort of selfish over this friend that i have, but we are like brothers. He lies to everyone a lot,and he tries to suck up to everyone. All he wants to do is be popular. Sooooo in public if its me and him and someone else he will always try and suck up to them and THEN IF HE HAS TIME talk to me. But in private we talk and its all good. This is WRONG, and he says he will stop. He acts like a manho, he goes around flirting with every girl he can, its terrible. Everyone's parents cant stand him but still hes my best friend. I need some advice.... this is killing me
  18. There's this guy at work who I want to ask out maybe for a date to get to know him better. We're both really shy. However, my brother told me it's a turnoff to guys if a girl asks them out. Is my brother speaking the truth or is he just messin w/ me?
  19. ok yesterday i was just standing with alot of ppl outside at lunch and next to me was my boyfriend and onthe other side was my friend and i was just started thinking and i was like thinking how alot people were gettin dumped and how i would b next.and how no one could ever really love me.i get like this sumtimes and most of the time i think like that its ture i get dumped.any way so last night i was talkin to my brother and he said sumthing to me and i said that i thought ______ is goin to dump me.and then the phone rang.and my brother answered it and it was my boyfriend.my brother told him i wasn't home like he always does and i was like who is it so he could hear me in the background and then my brother told him that i thought that he was gonna dump me.so then i got on the phone and he asked me why i would think that and i said i duno i just think like that then i asked him why wouldn't he and he said cuz he loves me any way why do i get like that.like i get in these moods where i m almost crying and don't no why or think that i m goin to get dumped or never have a good relationship.so can anyone relate or help or am i just weird and odd??
  20. hi everyone, well ive liked this guy "bob" for about a year now and he has a brother, Theyre both very handsome men!, and the other day i found out the brother likes me! but bob is in germany, so i cant be with him or anything, but we both sorta like each other, weve been talking through the internet, n hes supposedly coming baq in december, and now that his brother likes me, and i see his brother every day, i kinda started to like the brother as well, so i dont know wat to do! please help!! but if i had to choose between the brothe rn bob, id choose bob, but its hard cuz hes not here, n i dont wanna hurt the brothers feelings n ive already hurt bob once, i dont want to do it again...what do i do!?!?!?!
  21. Wow. it has been probably forever since i have been on this site. no one on here probably remembers me. My name is michelle, and i used to come here daily. but one day i just stopped. i guess i didn't have as much to write about and maybe just not as much going on. My sn before this one was called: emotionally_twisted. but guess what. that sounds a little much doesnt it? i have grown so much and am still growing so i decided to do a new name. I need some advice. Very badly. See. My situation is a little different than most others. i was adopted. nothing odd there. lol. but see, my mother was adopted. and i was adopted by her adoptive mother. so that would make my parents my adopted grand-parents. but see my bio-mother left and i haven't heard or seen from here in 11 years. i have 3 brothers and all are in contact with her. but my parents aren't in contact with her. but see my sister-in-law asked me if it was ok that she brings christine (bio-mother) up from virginia for my parents anniversary. now mind you, i don't know her. she really mest up my life, like i hated her, myself and everyone else around me for the longest time. there was a time where i didn't want to live. i have gotten past that stage of my life and i like to think that i am on the right road now. but now all of a sudden she's coming. i don't know if my parents are ok with this because its supposed to be a surprise. i already told my sister-in-law it was ok, just because no one has seen her in 11 years and i dont' want to be in the way of everyone seeing her. but my opinion is that she abandoned me and everyone else. she was very selfish. i don't know what to do, and worst part of it is i can't even talk to my parnets or other brothers about it cuz they don't know. i talked to 2 of my good friends and they were supportive but what now? what do i say? what do i do? do i ignore her? pretend she isn't there? thanks for listening and anyadvice is wanted. i don't care if you have never been in this type of situation or not. but i just don't know how to act. and its tearing me up. she isn't coming till july 2nd and my other brother is coming down from minnesota who i haven't seen in like 3 years. so im excited for him but i just dont know what to do. please and thank you. by the way. Hi andy. i was goign to email you about this but i just didn't know if that would be ok with you....
  22. I'm so confused, I don't even know where to begin. About a year or so ago, I met this lad while on a night out. We got together. However, we were only together for 2 weeks. Our break up wasn't on bad terms and there was no hatred towards each other. 1 year on to this day, I still think of him. I'm still in love with him. Thing is, I can't remember much about him. Well, I'm lying when I say that because I remember everything, but I can't remember what he really looks like as it's been so long. Anyway, I want to get in contact with him. My brothers girlfriend is arranging to get his mobile number for me, but I don't have a clue what to say. I'm so confused. One part of me wants to get in contact while the other part doesn't. I've been hurt a lot in the past, and I don't want to be hurt again. Anyone have any ideas? I know I shouldn't get my hopes up, so please don't tell me that as I already know.
  23. I made friends with this popular girl and she introduced me to these cute jock boys she knows...I ended up gettin with one of them but we NEEVER had sex or nething really i DID give him oral for my first time...During all this i THOUGhT we were going to be together for a while and that he was going to treat me good...It turned out being an ONLY time kinda think and we never really talked since..A few days after that happened A few guys asked me if i gave him oral and all this...I told One yes but thats all and it was a one time thing..I SHOULDNT of told him yes..I thought i could trust him..he told someone else and someone else told someone else..the cycle turned to rumors and GOSSIP.. Behind my back for 2 years now there has been nasty rumors going around that i have crabs and that im a BeeP... who will go out and do it with any guuy...Which is so not true since a matter of fact im still A VIRGIN... I was friendw ith this one jock dude still and we talked alot...Later on he started being really mean and rude towards me on AiM instant messenger...It hurt me so i told him he will get Beat up by one of my friends..Who I didnt know who really...i just was mad i made someone up so he woul dbe scared and apologize but it just got worse where he wanted to meet "him" and all this crap... I just signed off and talked to him later and he said Hey Hoe and all this mean stuff...I HATE HIM NOW...But now i just found out about all these rumors... Another jock dude i know that i talk to Was talkin crap to me...Im just sick of it and it hurts a lot..he told me Im the laughing stock of the school and all of this crap i wasnt even Alert about at the time... NOW i get why ppl look at me funny and stuff... My brother told me That he will Beat up the head poncho of the Jocks NOt "Clark" but Clarks friend who wanted to fight my made up dude .....So what shoul di do???i already told him its not true but NOBODY seems to take me serious and believe me about all of this..It just hurts and i want to cry but im just ANGRRy ...
  24. this has been happening recently. People that i know and i have known for a while now have been making fun of me, saying that im ugly. Its happened on two different occasions. One from a guy i know who had been putting me down for not having a girlfriend (not that ive been trying) and said thats happening because im too ugly. the second happened when i was in my psychology class and my teacher mentioned that i was a twin to the class and asked how do people tell between you and your brother and a friend of mine said well this guys uglier than his brother and the whole class laughed. I didnt say anything at the time because part of my mind think its true since its been repetitive through my life. And lately ive been very depressed about it, i just keep thinking about it and it makes me more and more depressed. Does or has anyone had this problem. Thanks for reading.
  25. Okay this is kinda weird but bare with me. Me and my friend were having an intimate convo about family. And then she said she had to tell a rumor that she heard a yr ago about my family but didnt know how to ask me. So i convince her to tell me and she said that the ppl from my country mothers and daughters are gossiping and saying that my 2 older sisters are actually my half sisters (I have 2 older sisters and 1 older brother)..so obviously when i heard this i didnt believe it but u never know. My friend said that if i told my family then i had to lie about where i heard it from..so then 30 minutes later i call my brother and ask if it was true and he said no. Without me knowing he calls the rest of my fam to tell them what i had asked him. I went home later that night and asked my mom sneakily if it was true and she said no too. The next day, my brother called me and told me it was true. And told me that 2 years ago my father and sat him down and told him the truth....Which was that when my mom was 14 yrs old she had married a drunk and he abused her and she had my 2 older sisters with him...then they escaped and moved to italy where she met my dad. The whole reason that im truly upset is that i feel betrayed by my fam...like im 20 yrs old and no one told me this and i had to hear about my families history through gossip and rumors.. This all happened like 2 days ago and even tho i know nothing has changed i sort of feel depressed about it. This family has been so cookie cutter to me and hearing this just confuses me...and i dont feel like i can trust anyone!!!! I just want to know what you guys think and if you think im over reacting with this...THANKS SO MUCH FOR UR SUPPORT!
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