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  1. shyanne
    your response to an ad is stronger if you accompany your resume with a cover letter tailored to fit the position. to write a good cover letter, study the ad for the employer's needs. the letter should then cover your strengths, idenitify your skills, accomplishments and experience that match the employers needs.. don't spend a lot of time thinking up the perfect closing to your letter. "my resume is enclosed" is fine.
  2. shyanne
    why are you talking to her friend a lot on msn.. i guess it's ok if you three are close. i would normally tell you not to listen to her friend but she told you herself that she's no longer in love with you. let it go or just be her friend for now like her mom suggested. mom's know best. what does your status on msn say? does it say something to cause others to worry about you? her friend could be telling her stuff just like she's telling you things about her friend. if your like that, you talk about everyone. i don't think that's right and a lot of times things aren't told as they should be. sometimes the truth is exaggerated by others and at times, not told correctly for lots of reason. one thing i don't understand, she called you.. so didn't you talk to her about what is bothering you and what her friend told you. maybe you should.
  3. shyanne
    wow.. two years and he never took you out. you do deserve better. glad you realized that.
  4. shyanne
    i know how you feel. when i first started dating my husband, his ex called him a lot. more so when she got drunk. always crying, wanting to get back together. it bothered me a lot and my husband understood plus i told him...it was me or her. meaning you stop talking to her or lose me. guess who he picked. she finally stopped calling and trying but he also didn't want her. talk to your boyfriend about how you feel and take it from there.
  5. shyanne
    as a woman.... there is no way i would be having sex that close..period.
  6. shyanne
    why do i have faces for when i type 8 and 0
  7. shyanne
    female age 37 1) one 2) one 3) 19 years and i don't know 4) n/a 5) yes, not great 6) once and married him 7) yes, yes and once. don't know and n/a 8) yes 2 9) n/a 10) n/a 11) a problem with my lower right leg, knee down....... 12) sincerity 13) abuse their partner in any way 14) personality 15) i don't know 16) that's a hard one 17) no and i was 17 18) never did and never will 19) love is a battlefield (still) lol that's a song from the 80's 20) working and owning a bigger and better house with my beautiful girls..own one now but i never liked it. settled because of one income. plan to sell this summer or next even though i won't be working at the time. within 2 years or so i should be back at work and within 10years have an even bigger one...plus a cottage. also taking them on vacations to different parts of the world
  8. shyanne
    thanks. death is never easy, more so when it's a child/baby or even parents. my condolences to you and your friends too
  9. shyanne
    she's 14 and shouldn't even know what a relationship is all about... never mind anything about living together with a liar.
  10. shyanne
    cheating at the age of 14.. you should be doing other things at this age not dating. when you say cheating... i really hope you mean hanging out with another girl, like going to movies. 14, you have no idea what love is. your still a child and it's a crush.
  11. shyanne
    you were in a relationship a long time ago and your only 14 now? i say your too young to be dating now never mind before. your 14 it is not okay to do that at your age.
  12. shyanne
    i'm sorry. there is not much you can do to ease their pain. maybe in time they could read some books on the after life. they helped me when i lost my mom. didn't take away my pain but helped comfort me in some ways. it tooks a month or more of mourning before i started reading stuff like that. most books like that talk about losing babies too.
  13. shyanne
    i totally agree with annie and i can also relate to you. i once met someone i thought really liked me a lot because that's what he always told me and i believed him. i personally have no experience in this kind of stuff so i was really naive. i hardly dated before my husband so i had no idea how men could be. not only that but i truly, with all my heart believed he really liked me at the beginning. i also really liked this guy more then any other person i've met....not love or anything but really liked him. it hurt a bit when he changed before we met. once we met it just confirmed that i was a fool to have trusted and believed in him. confusing in a way. he wasn't the most honest person... long story like your guy, his words were so sincere that i still find it hard to believe that i could have been so wrong about someone. i'm very happy alone now. i'm used to the way things are so it's no big deal to me. i do get sad at times when i think about how stupid i was because i've always been a smart person and made good judgments. well never tried online before so maybe that's why. i also didn't give up because of that guy... i tried again a few more times just to find out other men online are the same or worse..(met 2) although, i never let myself get attached again after him. that's why i always tell people not to get attached online and to be careful.. i had really bad luck... maybe because it was wrong for doing what i tried to do.. you shouldn't give up on romance like me. however, you should try to find someone else. let him go play with another. you want passion, lust and pleasurable moments........little things he's not doing or willing to do. you shouldn't have to ask to be treated a certain way. if we do and they do, it's like he's just doing you a favor. after a few years of dating, he won't even want to be doing favors and you'll be even more unhappy.. or so i think. basically there is no point in trying any more if he's not attracted to you or if that's how you feel.. don't keep it going because that will just cause you more misery. find someone that wants the same type of relationship that you do. i wish you lots of luck...
  14. shyanne
    that would mean he is a jerk....don't put up with that. everyone deserves to be treated with respect.
  15. shyanne
    he likes it and it makes him feel good about himself. you could tell him the truth, that you just don't like that hairdo but really, we should do what makes us feel good.
  16. shyanne
    people that don't respect their elders or anyone else....including themselves people that are really drunk people that are really slow adults that mistreat kids
  17. shyanne
    i would move on.. if she's interested, she will contact you.. i'm sure she knows you like her.
  18. shyanne
    yes, she obviously has a good reason.
  19. shyanne
    personally i wouldn't date someone shorter. i like tall guys or at least a few inches taller.. i think if you really like someone and get along it shouldn't matter. he may get taller or he may not. my sister married someone just a bit shorter and they're very happy... around 16 years together or so. she doesn't care and will still wear heels cause it's true love
  20. shyanne
    i don't understand... your shy and you worry about her being uncomfortable. are you not the person who is uncomfortable talking to others, more so someone your attracted too? you said she hasn't been online for like a month.. so you could be waiting forever and lose your chance. by the time you talk to her, she could be dating or in love with another even if she likes you.. if that happens, you may as well forget it. your in the real world now. i guess you could send her an email but i really don't think that's the best way to go. have you asked your therapist about this? perhaps you should start there. talk to them about how you feel and see how they think you should handle this.
  21. shyanne
    i was shy/quiet growing up and my oldest daughter is shy. not to the point where she would need therapy nor did i ever go to therapy.. i out grew it in my early adult years and i hope she will too. some people are just quiet, nothing mentally wrong with them. however, a few of those shy people do have this social anixety disorder. there is a difference between the two. the social anxiety is something you don't out grow... lots of kids are shy but only a few will remain that way as they get older.. i think it would be helpful to other very shy people if you could write a bit about what type of medicine you get and how it's working.. also how the doctors decided you have this disorder, what is the difference between the disorder and just being a shy child. i personally don't know what kind of medicine they give to help shy people.. i've read about clinics to help people with this disorder but had no idea that they medicate them.. through your experience, you may be able to help others know if they should be seeking help now. i wouldn't get my daughter help because i know she's just quiet and with experience will grow to have more confidence. just through making her deal with people face to face.. making her thank someone or ask something with out my help.. also by putting her in activities even when she doesn't want too.. same with you.... you want to talk to this girl online because of your shyness yet you will still have to face her in school.. so if it doesn't work out the way you want online, how will you feel about going back to school to face her.. part of your therapy should be talking to people face to face not behind some computer.. i think you should force yourself to talk to this girl in person, alone of course.. that will help you overcome this disorder, not talking online. it went well online so do the rest in person. she sounds like a nice girl that does like you so don't worry about it.... just do it. good luck
  22. shyanne
    i don't think men should shave anything below their shoulders. that's what makes them men.
  23. shyanne
    i've corrected mistakes before and didn't say anthing. i did and would if the same person kept making the same mistake. i think you should point it out because if they continue making the same error, perhaps they don't know its wrong. with group emails, you should always tell the person who sends it because it could mean that they don't have that person on their distribution list.
  24. shyanne
    another thing, telling lies is not good. we should never lie. you will never find a true good friend if you tell lies, small or big. what does that matter. be a honest person and people will respect you more.
  25. shyanne
    if anyone ever puts a hand on you, they are no friend. they are crazy. stay away, it's abuse.. never stay in any type of relationship with anyone that is capable of harming you or threatens you in any way
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