So, this is keeping me up at nights. My girlfriend recently got in touch with an ex. He's a good friend she hooked up with a few times. Nevertheless, she recently found his myspace page online and they got back in touch. She was commenting on how attractive he is out loud to me (he should model, that sort of thing). They talked again the following week and she told him - on the phone - how good looking she thinks he looks these days. I overheard this conversation and mentioned it to her. This started an argument about how silly it was for me to be worried about someone who is a friend and who she didn't have any "chemistry" with. So, I went to the ex's myspace page and discovered she left a post talking about how "fabulous" he looked. Again, with how good looking he is! Elsewhere, she posted a comment under a smiling picture of him that said: "I know what this means, come here and I'll work my mischief on you." I confronted her about this and she stated that he was a mischivous guy and she was teasing him. But she couldn't tell me why he was mischivous. Then I asked her why she tells him on the phone that he's good looking and she said it was because he said: "looking good." But, it wasn't this dramatic: "you look fabulous." So, I'm splitting hairs here but I feel like she is being kind of flirty with her "ex-boyfriend." I worry that it sends him the wrong message and/or that she is frustrated with me and just toying with flirting. He's a very attractive guy that she broke a vow of chasticy for because she wanted to "experiment sexually." She had very little sexual experience at the time. I want to know if I'm just being paranoid and jealous or she's really doing something that is inappropriate. I feel disrespected.
