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  1. shyanne
    i don't think your stupid, not at all. i'm just saying......that even if we feel strong about someone they may not feel the same. thereforeeee, you have to move on and get on with your life. try doing things, join a gym or maybe a dance class. do things to help you feel good about yourself instead of thinking so much about what you can't have. i know it hurts, most of us have been there at one time or another. think of it this way and remember....."pain is your great teacher"
  2. shyanne
    why let that get you down....if he's not interested, he's not. you need to get over it and move on. one day you will meet someone you like just as much, maybe more. you need to focus on your self. being happy and living life to the fullest not on a man thats attached and doesn't want you. wasted time that just makes you feel bad, why allow yourself to feel like that, don't. be strong and know you deserve better. one day the right man will come along for you.
  3. shyanne
    are you having fun? doesn't sound like it. don't ever allow a man to use you like that. all he wants is sex and you know that . thats fine if thats what you want but at your young age i can't see why you would want just that. you should be dating different guys until you find one that you really like and know he truly likes you. dating doesn't mean sleeping with them. no man will respect you if your sleeping with lots of others nor will you be able to respect yourself. so forget the old man, don't call him and don't answer his calls. one day when your not really looking, you will meet someone who really likes you and wants to be with you for you, not just for sex. mr right will come along... there is someone for everyone. so wait for someone who really cares even if that means alone.... at least that way you can feel good about youself and like who you are cause of it. much better then becoming some old mans toy until that day comes.
  4. shyanne
    you don't see her in person so ask now, online before its too late. you will get the same answer
  5. shyanne
    that young and slept with that many guys........... get out now!!! she has a problem. you like her, help her as a friend only...
  6. shyanne
    when you love someone set them free. if it was meant to be they will return.
  7. shyanne
    how do you know she wants nothing to do with you. i'm sorry i haven't read any of your other stuff but i'm a girl who had just done the same thing she did. it's not because i wanted to and it hurt to do so but i felt like he didn't want me. maybe it's not only her needs not being met, maybe she is no longer in love and hasn't been for some time. you should try and talk to her again because real love can be hard to find.
  8. shyanne
    why would you worry about only one day of not talking? how long have you been talking to him and why did you send a card saying you missed him? anwsering this may help others understand your problem more and may be able to give you better advise.
  9. shyanne
    yes you do need to forget him and i'm sure it will be hard but you can do it. listen i don't know much about online relationships and i don't meet men online however, from talking with friends and stuff i have found out that alot of men just want online sex. for what ever reason they led a woman on thinking that they will meet her one day and that day never comes. he's a player and just wants to get off online and i'm so glad that you refused to show yourself to him. now you can see thats all he wanted was online play cause if he ever wanted more from you he would have been understanding and he's not. if that's not what you want then you need to keep looking for that one nice guy who can make you happy in person. try not to get so into a guy online , wait until you meet and then you will know or have a better idea on what he wants. remember that online some men are big liar's taking advantage of women all the time. maybe next time you should try and meet sooner and less online love stuff, save that for the real world. be strong and play it safe.
  10. shyanne
    yes sweety, he is using you for sex. i think he is a nasty man knowing how you feel about him. you need to stop seeing him unless you can handle casual sex with no feelings, which i don't think you can. time heals everything and you need to stop seeing him now. don't talk to him, don't call him and don't anwser his calls. give it time and you'll be fine. this is when you need to do some soul searching and get yourself stronger cause some men are like that and you need to be strong. don't ever let a man get you that down cause your worth more, alot more.
  11. shyanne
    really, mike this is your second time chewing me out. whats with that? maybe i speak the truth and that bugs you. anyway, being a hooker and cheating on your husband is two different things. so if women who cheat are hookers then what are men? seems when men cheat its not that big of a deal well whats good for men is good for women. i never said lets sleep with every men out there but women need and like sex too. keep your women happy and maybe she wouldn't think about cheating. all depends of the women but most women don't cheat if thier happy in their whole relationship. whole meaning everything not just sex. no big deal mike, i just felt like replying back to you so you know that i did read what you said. oh and mike, you don't want to get me started so enough said.
  12. shyanne
    so i was here bored one day and thought that i would check out a sight my friend was telling me about. i did and it was fun for a bit but i never thought i would meet someone i liked, i did. anyway, he said he liked me too and was interested in meeting me and chatting on msn. problem is, he never seems to be online when i'm online and once when i emailed him, asking him to tell me when he's online so we can chat and he never replys. then i forget about him because i don't really care that much and boom i get an email saying "where you been" it all starts all over again by him saying i really like you etc. i hear from him about once a week and i'm so confussed. i think he can't be that interested, what do you guys think.
  13. shyanne
    one more thing, you sound like such a sweet man. hard to find these days. any women would be lucky to have you in love with them. her loss!
  14. shyanne
    maybe she is scared that if she lets you into her life fully you will start to feel the pressure of having 3 kids and such a busy life style. she may even worry that if she allows herself to fall madly in love that you will leave her. maybe she doesn't want to be hurt again. she's not with her husband so she may have got really hurt before. even by you telling her that you want to be with her forever may not help because i'm sure she heard that before. words are so easy to say
  15. shyanne
    i'm a 35 year old married women for 17years now. i have never, ever cheated on my husband but have been considering it for some time now. why, because my husband never pays any attention to me and we rarely have sex. at my age sex is needed. he spends most of his time at work or when he is home he is online or doing something with the computer. sex for me has been almost nil for some years now and if you don't keep your wife happy she may just look else where.
  16. shyanne
    darling, there is always a place if there is a will. maybe that person gets out alot now so it wouldn't be a problem hiding it. why not ask the one your interested in....no one elses opinion really matters.
  17. shyanne
    listen, your very young. women cheat for a reason, treat her well and make her feel loved but don't crowd her. MOST of all, make love to her often more so as she gets older. a women won't cheat on you if she's getting all she needs at home.
  18. shyanne
    hi there, i'm new today too. i was just reading your story and thought you sound alot like me. i too am married and have been with the same man for 17years now. i have been considering cheating for about a year now and haven't yet done it but i really think i will. i've tryed to talk it out with my husband and i'm tired of talking and getting no where. like your husband, my husband never tells me i look good and doesn't seem to care where i go and what i do. sex for me is maybe once a month and thats if i come on to him. what is a women to do? i say, lets get it elsewhere however, you must first be careful and remember its just sex unless you want to leave. i wouldn't leave, although he doesn't pay any attention to me or have lots of sex with me, i know he truly loves me. us ladys need sex too so you have to do what you have to do. just don't put your self down by sleeping with lots of men, find that one guy you really think is hot and remember , don't get attached to him be strong. i hope things get better for you
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