Hi..I just signed up today. I got desperate and need some input. This could be long, but, I will try to shorten it. I'm married to my husband for 3 years. He's 8 years older than me. He is a very nice guy and all. However, somehow during 3 years of our marriage, i just kind of fell out of love. It' s not that I don't love him or anything, but I'm not in love w/ him anymore. If you know what I mean.
Our marriage lacked romance. Everything is kind of boring. No surprises, sweet note, or things like that. I've been communicating this w/ him several times, but things doesn't seem to change. The problem is I'm only 27 years old and too be honest w/ you, I look pretty. I get no compliments when I look nice or anything from my husband, but, I do get compliments and attention from other guys. So, lately this had lead to problems.
I've started chatting online and met new friends. I also have to tell you that our job doesn't allow me to have friends. so, I'm very lonely. Sounds pathetic, I know. Anyway, I've started to develop relationships w/ my new friends. And I'm afraid that I could fall in love or getting myself possibly broken hearted as well. But, on the other side, I really need a friend and someone I can talk to. I need someone to give me some attention and just help me going through this.
I have never thought about divorce as it doesn't go along w/ my moral beliefs. But, I'm desperate right now in my situation. I have no more connection to my husband. Please give me some advice as to what I should do. Thank's
