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    Your mom told you this on the day of your wedding shower? I think you need to let your mom sort out her own affairs and you should concentrate on making YOUR marriage different. Of course your marriage won't be like your mother's. You are not her and your husband is not your father (bio or step). I totally understand the fear - I do. But you are not her. She is not you. The two of you will have VERY different lives, marriages etc. But really, let her and your dad figure this out for themselves. They're grown-ups and you are trying to start your own life. Offer your support, of course, but try to let her come to her own decisions. (that's MY opinion anyway!)
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    I strongly suggest you all get into some kind of family treatment or counseling. Especially this boy. He is very troubled and I think needs help outside the scope of what a whoppin' can do. Not judging - I'm just saying, he needs help. If he was actually told and believed that you killed someone, he was probably TERRIFIED of you. Even if he didn't believe it...what a warped thing to have to hear from your own mother. And now that his mother is passed away,THAT can't be easy to take either. Not to mention all the weird things that must've gone on in his mother's house....he and his sister need some serious help. And now so do YOUR kids becasue of the horrible abuse inflicted on THEM. You all need to seek help! These patterns will repeat themselves if you don't get them corrected and I think you may need some help doing that.
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    Not. Although I don't reccommed it as a solution to anything anyway.
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    zrehman - I think you should propose if that's where you two are heading! Don't stress and worry so much about the ring. Maybe you two can pick on out together when you get back to the states. Surely they'll be a time in your future when you will be able to get her a nice ring - I have a feeling she'll be OK without one for the time being - if it needs explanation - give her the "have no money right now" explanation.... I'd personally be OK with that.....
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    Being that I am an insecure person, I guess I'd be asking her if she's seeing someone or having doubts because of something SHE'S going thru.... But more likely I suppose its like your brother said... She's prolly thinking you're experiencing a whole life and world outside of her now and that it will definitely change you - which means to her it could change how you feel towards her. Assure her it won't - if you feel it won't - but I don't reccommend proposing if you're not ready for that yet. But tell her that as well.
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    mmmah - it happens......its good job you didn't make her feel worse then she undoubtedly did.
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    awwwww........Benjamin!!! My first was exactly a lb heavier but had the same size head!! SUPER CONGRATS BORN - and WELCOME BENJAMIN!!!!
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    uhhhhh.......stop having unprotected sex. If you know its risky and not smart....know you're going to get a lecture.....why are you doing it again? Cos it feels good and you have no self control??? Dude.....seriously, be prepared to become a daddy. There's no, "is it possibles" and "what ifs" it WILL happen if you keep it up - literally....
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    Yep - guess you're right. I don't think its a good answer and here's why.... Is this guy not the FATHER of the child?? If he's not, I would agree he shouldn't influence her decision, but if it IS HIS child, then he has HALF the say....don't ya think? Seeing as he did HALF the making and when its born he'll be HALF responsible? Shouldn't he be HALF of the decision???
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    Right Avman - AND if she's going after child support that could work in his favour. Cos she has to establish paternity and once she does and its proven and child support is being collected - he's in like Flynn - legally anyway.....
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    well - Annie - its actually illegal in the US to give a "bad" or "unfair" reference. He could legally say things like, no comment or YES HE WORKED HERE but he wouldn't be allowed - legally anyway - to say anything negative in any way shape or form.... But you're not in the US, are you? - SuserTod? But anyway SuserTod - sorry to hear it! Sounds like you could move on rather well tho - AND...you may find some time down the line that he did you a big favour! Maybe......
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    (SIC) Parenthesising the word SIC - That's what we in the newspaper biz do when quoting something verbatim to show that the error isn't on the side of the paper, the editor or the reporter, but is an actual quote. Quoted verbatim.... SIC is a Latin word meaning "just as that". That's actually how the above was written. I didn't even cut and paste to make it look like the second sentence oxymoronically followed the first. hmmmmmmmm Anyone else struck by this??
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    Hey So High! First off Welcome to ENA!! Glad you found this site. Just have a question or two for you and of course - my insight.... Why would you NOT want to appear excited about seeing the guy you love?? I don't get that part - I think its ok to show a genuine interest - seeing as you are ..... genuinely interested. I mean, do you not want him to know you still like him and are still excited by him? So...he's stressed out. Was wigged out by your display of a bad temper. Is having a hard time at work...I guess he's reaching out cos he needs someone to lean on. I'd take that as a REALLY good sign that he thought of you. Time for you to step up to the plate. Literally - go out to dinner with him and make the night ALL about him! Don't apologise for things that went awry. Don't talk about where the realtionship went or where its going - just be there for him and enjoy the moment. And don't be afraid to show it - that you're enjoying yourself. He may actually think you're happy around him.......
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    Hey Shoe - I think I can TOTALLY relate to that. You're just a nice person who doesn't like to hurt people. What could possibly be wrong with that??!? Do you have this guy's e-mail address?? I guess I would personally send him a note confessing it all. Just tell him you were really flattered and were contemplating saying yes but because you were still sort of tied up with your now current bf - you didn't think it would be fair to him. Apologise briefly for the delay in response but you felt bad for not coming clean to begin with and it just kind of snowballed..... Oh - and btw - you spelled awkward correctly!!
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    It is very possible you have been friend-zoned. I guess I would certainly suggest coming clean with your true feelings. Tell him you wish it was you going to prom with him instead. If you think you will have a hard time continuing to be his friend whilst he dates other girls - you might want to consider just taking a step or two back.... ??
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    Hey warhuhwow - (great name by the way) {{{HUGS}}} I think you're doing amazing! You sounds like you're being really strong - and I say GOOD FOR YOU!! You're looking to the future, making plans, trying to move on romantically.... Fabulous.... But its OK to have thoughts of her, memories, moments of weakness....That's all OK. You just need to stay strong like you are and hang in there. The more difficult times WILL get less and less...... Where 'bouts in America are you going?? Do you mind saying?
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    maybe she just got nervous..... Its a heckuva lot easier for me to type than talk sometimes....
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    hmmmmm.....must depend on the person then. I seem to have LESS tolerance for my own children. Mostly cos I'm with them ALL fracken day long AND I hate it when they misbehave in front of other people - I insist on manners... But my neices and nephews.....shoot! If my brother is hard on his daughter around me, I'm always like, "dude! She's a baby, she's fine. Leave her alone!" I seem to have sooooo much more tolerance for her "bad" behaviour
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    Hey Brian - Brill - Thanks for posting!! I am personally looking forward to hearing your story. I bet you have loads of insight as well! WELCOME TO ENA!!!
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    boosted ...... {{{{HUGS}}}} Hang in there! We're here for you!
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    I think I would take it cos I'd be curious to know for myself. I dunno if I'd be so willing to SHARE the results......I guess that would depend on what they said..... Would that be considering cheating? On the test??
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    what does this mean "What does men attire to a woman?" I'm not at all trying to be rude. I simply don't understand the question.
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    you could ABSOLUTELY get pregnant - ANY time you have un-protected sex. The "pull-out" method is not at all safe for NOT getting pregnant......
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    WHA??? Well I never....I have a feeling you are very beautiful - inside and out. And I think you will make someone a lovely bride some day -
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