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    for sure pass it on with a note that you're doing well but are trying to heal. If trying to get clean was his real motivation, whilst it may be hard for you to deal with, he may have done the right thing. I'm not saying you should forgive him or get back in touch but at least support him as far as letting him know you're ok - don't ya think??
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    well...... I think....I agree with them both. I think maybe you SHOULD back off a bit. Just in case it IS as Frisco says it is and you're perceiving more than what's going on. OR in case your intensity has put her off and she is trying to distance herself. Either way, it can't be a bad thing to back off a bit. BUT - I also think asking her or talking to her about it can't be all that bad an idea either.
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    I don't see anything wrong with at all. I can't find one single reason in my puny mind where that would be a bad idea.
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    read drive go out with other friends post here.....
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    I dunno. I guess if he's offering to let you stay, you can afford it or can easily get a flatmate - KEEP IT!! That's what I'D do anyway...
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    Hey Kate!! So sorry to hear the bad news. I guess just take it one day at a time, yeh? I mean, what CAN you do? Give him his space and give it some time. I guess if he gets what he needs, he'll either be back or move on. I think you try to as well. Just hang in there. Keep posting.....some one is BOUND to have better advice than this...
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    Little by Little - Of course there's instances where its happened. ANYTHING is possible but as you said, its prolly not whats for the best. I don't think you should give up on hope entirely... I mean, I'm glad you're being realsitic about this particular situation, but have hope that you will heal. Have hope that things will get better. That not only will you move on, but that you will move on with strength and be a better and stronger person. Baby steps dude. Baby steps. One minute at a time until minutres are passing into hours - then hours at a time until hours are becoming days....then, take it one day at a time.... You'll make it. Hang in there!!!
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    well - as one who hires - I gotta agree with Avman here. If you come in with attitude, you won't go very far. And if you HAVE or GET the job and don't take pride in what you do, you won't last. If its just a matter of GETTING that first job - hang in there. There's BOUND to be something. Do you drive? Could you deliver pizzas? What about stocking shelves? Anything to get you some experience and get yourself a good reference right??
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    I guess I recommend starting with the smile. If someone ACTUALLY said, "hello beautiful" to me.....I probably wouldn't take him seriously... Just smile and when you get the chance to say Hi - then do it. Say Hi and introduce yourself. If she's looking away its prolly cos she's really shy too, so you could be the initiator - free and clear. She MAY even be expecting it and your lack of response could have her thinkig you're not interested.
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    Yeh NewOrelans - I'm gonna agree here. I think some level of irritation with ANYONE you spend a lot of time with is gonna be normal. But to be constantly so.....not a good sign girl...
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    Great advice Be Strong!! And great topic GFein!! Serioiusly. I tihnk - as Be Strong said - this is ALL too common. *Take breaks - absense makes the heart grow fonder. My husband us to take business trips all the time but hasn't for a while. I gotta say....I notice the difference. *Be spontaneous. Getting into routines is way too easy - we are after all creatures of habit. So you NEED to break up the routine and shake things up sometimes. *Never stop saying the things you did at first - like how beautiful she is. (for girls how handosme he is etc.) But if you fall out of the habit of saying the nice-etys, it could feel to your SO that you don't think those things anymore. Even if you just say it cos you know it needs to be said. It's one thing to type it, its another to do it yeh?....I KNOW!!
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    LW - In my personal opinion - every time you have caught this girl in something and have confronted her, she had some excuse. The last one you bit too hard on. She knows full well no one could have promised her mom was going to be OK. She knew she wasn't. Saying that to you was just another excuse. To what end, I can't be sure but one thing I am sure of....she is not in a good place to be in a relationship. I'm not saying she's a bad person or that you haven't been great - but if you were my brother or a close friend, I would do what I could to convince you to get over her.....
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    Hey karvala - I don't know why you're not one to ask questions here. You sound like a very bright guy! You ask some very good questions.... I guess my personal opinion is that you can and should be able to get your needs met. If that means demanding it, asking for it, begging, whatever - i guess that's what it is. Is there such a thing as being too demanding? Sure, but there is absolutley no way that you asking for attention from your gf is begging or being too demanding. I do have just a couple questions for you tho - How long have you been seeing this particular girl. You said you find yourself in a more serious realtionship now - but how long have you been seeing her and for how long have things been this way??
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    {{{{{HUGS}}}}}}} I'm sorry!! I'm glad you're typing here rather than calling her tho - you need to keep strong!!!
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    Goodnight Clem Talk to you tomorrow!! Have a good night Good luck with your essay!! NO ONE ELSE TALK TO CLEMENTINE ANYMORE! SO THAT HE CAN LOG OF AND GET TO WORK!!!
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    I dunno............
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    I can't tell how much of that post is sincere - but you're a cute guy and you're bloody hilarious - it won't be long.......
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    looking back at the types of guys I've dated - most all of them have very similar faces....they're all pretty varied personailty wise but pretty similar physically. Guess I do have a physical type. The two longest relationhsips I've had - including my husband - the guys are really, really, eerily similar..... ...weird.
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    Hello lovelypetal = welcome to ENA!! I gotta say, good move calling the police. Make sure you do it again at the very next sign of his unwanted attention.He WILL try again and you MUST have it noted. I don't mean to make you afraid as I think you should stick to your life but stalker-ish behaviour such as that, can be very dangerous. Please keep posting.
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    How can we say that having a myspace means he's dating? How long have you been split up?
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    Are you saying that you have two guy friends who are gay and sometimes you stay at their place and your bf gets suspicious and jealous?? Is that right?? SO...you've told him you will stop doing that and he's fine until you jokingly mention taking another lover - then he gets upset and jealous again?? Am I understanding this right??
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    Find something that IS worth living for Yeh - being bored totally sucks. Find something that DOES have meaning to you. There's GOTTA be something!! Tomorrow might not be as bad and tomorrow - you could change the world.... Cheesy?? OK. But so is the permanent solution your offering to all of the above stated temporary problems...
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    Before we play or suggest playing the "I'll get her back" game - have you told her it bothers you? I mean, that it actually really just gets to you and you wish she wouldn't? Cos - after that I mean, if she still does that, there's more going on.....respect wise. Know what I mean?
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    Well - regardless if it's a personal experience or not - the advice or the opinon is the same. Be respected whilst being realistic
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    I find it easiest to just not.... ...deal with Christians that is.
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