AwdreeHpburn
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Maybe you need to tell him how you feel. That you're hurt, a little jealous and a lot concerned. Just tell him this is how you feel and you would appreciate his attention to your feelings. If you do not care for or respect what he does for a living, I can see that being a H U G E issue in your marriage.
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why do you say he doesn't see you as a woman?
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hmmmmmm.....is that a big part of it?? nice...
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Lately (again) I have been staying up long past my husband and falling asleep on the sofa. When I heard this, I was really alarmed. I know there's things going on in our relationship...now I think I'll start paying closer attention.
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Did you know that today, the 2nd Monday of January (in the US), is the usually the most common day for filing for the big D - Divorce? Meaning, this day sees the most filings of any other day through-out the year. WOW! AND - did you know that the number one most common trait among divorced couples was a separate bed time? #2 was separate checking accounts... [-X Just thought I'd share this here so everyone can be the wiser, know the signs, and take time to work on any issues. See ya round
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Hey MG - This may go against the grain here, but I say go for it! I think you should move in with your bf if his mum allows it. Move over there, get a job, continue your education and start your life. Learn to depend on yourself and make things happen for yourself. I don't think moving in with him means you're dependent on him, we all need help occasionally, but as long as you don't treat moving in with him at his mum's place as the end all, I think it'll be good for you. You can go there, get a job straight away, start looking for ways to stay in school and the two of you can start looking for a place of your own. What's wrong with that at 18?
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lol - awesome Spugly....
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YOO - You should totally ask him out!! What are you waiting for?? I have a feeling the reason past things haven't turned out for you is because maybe you get too passive?? Take some initiative here girl!! Go for it. Risk it. Just ask if he wants to hang out. Do something with you. You don't have to ask him to put on a tux and take you on a formal date. Just ask if he wants to do something. If he says no - play it off like its not a big deal. Ain't no thang. You just had a day open ...that's all....
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Yes. Yes, I think your mum is being absurd.....
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I too hate sexism cpc....and that's what that is. Any time something is exclusively one way for a long time, the pendulum swings the other way. It's only a matter of time....
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where are you taking these "intelligence" tests?? Cos - never EVER go by the ones on-line. There's rarely an accurate one to be found out here. And there is much in debate about the actual IQ tests as well. These tests are not usually accurate measures of intelligence....
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aguail - I wouldn't. I mean me personally. I don't think it would be a BAD Idea to but I personally wouldn't want to appear too needy. I WOULD however, after call him after the weekend and just say something about what he missed at the art fair or something along those lines. It's too hard to feign friendliness when you want more. After the fact, when it's less important, it's not as hard to pull of.
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I do think it's a good idea to move on until she's single again. If she DOES hear through the grape-vine that you like her and doesn't act on it, it's prolly not a good time for her. So, if I were you, I'd wait....
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16 yr old girls sleeping together
AwdreeHpburn replied to hardcharger's topic in Parenting and Families
Hey Hardchanger - I personally think your over re-acting but I'd sort of like to know why? Why do you care? Why would it be wrong? What does having a sleep over or not have to do with being a grown up? -
Need help. Posted this in another thread, but...
AwdreeHpburn replied to need2bme's topic in Breaking Up Advice
dude...need2bme - this sounds totally screwed up but easy 'nuff to rememdy. Bow out. Back off. Stay away. Give her the space and time to make up her mind. Leave that wonderful time where it was so that it will always be what it was, "wonderful"........ and run. If she chases, so be it., but if not, there's your answer. Leave it be is my advice..... -
Hey 4thelast1 Have you had a serious chat to him about this? I mean a real heart to heart about the fact that you've considered leaving? Does he know how upset you are or does he blow it off? If there is some way to make him understand and believe how serious you are.....that may make him sit up and take notice, you should try it.
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cos I'm a nutter! A loose cannon. Mental. really, I have issues I would find too dfficult to put up with on any kind of long term, consistent basis.
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awwww....... dude!!!!! you just totally made me tear up.....
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wow - good question Lily. I think I would date myself based on the superficial things. But once I got to know myself better......naw....I'd have to let me down easy and quickly exit stage left...
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TOTALLY DUDE!! I too am a (mostly) bored housewife. I have 3 kids, only one of which is in school full time. I say.....indulge the fantasy - keeping it in the fantasy realm of course. Also, get a lot of breaks to go out with friends. Take time out for you occasionally, believe me, you will go mental if you don't!
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LOL - Oh for an editorial position, yeh? hmmm...... it's not an attention to detail thing, it's a mis-communication that you cleared up straight away so...... No worries, I say.
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Hey finewhine - why would a minor error that like ruin your chances for getting hired? What is the position you're applying for? I tihnk it would be more weird that you sent over a correction instead of just waiting to clarify in person, casually. It was an honest over sight.....
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Who cares? What not ask him? And if he is, it's the best kind of abuse of the words, yeh? Saying it too much....
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I personally don't know for sure, but it sounds like a very good idea.
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saodnirvana - welcome to ENA. You will find much comfort here as well as people who can relate to your situation AND those who can help you. I think you should relax a little. Don't get too stressed out. I don't know where you are in the world, but most places you can get a paternity test. Don't worry about proving his fatherhood. As for getting him back, take a deep breath. One step at a time.... Let's see if we can get more info first... I know you said his family called the cops on your for no reason, but when the cops showed up, they must have had something to say, besides just, "hmmmm well, we don't know why we're here, we were just told to come here by your bf's family so we did." It doesn't really work that way. So....what really happened?