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  1. I've been in my relationship for 7 years and help raised a child,(now at age 9),my girlfriends ex just recently got out of prison after 9 years,my gf is now in touch with him by means of visiting, texting and hiding this from me,I found out about it and confronted her with proof and she denied all,I'm 56 of age,to old to deal with b/s and lies, any helpful advice would be appreciated
  2. I've known him 10 years (knew him before prison). We recently reconnected. He's in prison for a non violent crime (no lectures about him being a 'bad' person pls) and has five more years. For the past year we've been talking he doesn't act sexual or romantic. When he tries it sounds awkward and fake. Whenever I confront him (wudnt a prisoner be horny as h*ll?) he says hes 'scared' to seem like hes just after me for my body. It just doesn't seem normal to me. He's hinted that he got 'VERY' close with his cellmate, and is depressed this guy left, but won't elaborate. He seemed straight when
  3. No matter how many girls you have sex with you are afflicted. A cursed soul of someone who really loved and lost. And that hurt was so bad, so tremendous that you can never love again. You may not even survive it. You just want things to go the way you picture them in your head, but that’s not reality. You want it so bad you long for it; you want her to be this person in your head so badly but she just isn’t. Yet why does this feel so wrong. Why do I feel so lost , and as if I have this gaping hole in my chest where my heart used to be? It’s been years and I’m still not over this. It’s been a
  4. Hello everyone, I have started a job at Starbucks 6 weeks ago and I just hate it. I don’t get along with any of my colleagues- not so much that I just feel it’s forced , very very forced. The job itself is just dull and repetitive and I just hate being there. I feel like it is a prison. I feel my energy is being sucked out of me! I have just finished university in a degree in medical sciences and been volunteering prior to getting the Starbucks. What should I do??
  5. The mother of my 5 children and I had been together for 8 years before I was sentenced to 7 years in prison for things I did when I was younger(before I met her). She remained strong for the first 3 years, coming to see me every weekend and talking on the phone as much as possible. Then I was moved to a prison far from home and I eventually stopped recieving visits. After 2 years of only phone calls and letters she left me. But I remained in contact with my children by calling once a week.We had been broke up for 7 months when I was finally put in a workrelease program/ halfway house a month a
  6. Well not really a change in career per se I would still work in legal, but change from civil defense to criminal defense full time. For the past few months, I have been helping a solo criminal attorney set up his practice on a part time basis after work and on some Saturday's. I have been helping him market his business (advertiseing), set up his office and interviewing potential clients. He won't represent clients he knows are guilty, only the ones he senses are innocent. Although realizes some could still be guilty. This includes those charged with drug dealing, robberies, assa
  7. I'm worried. I just want our first time back to be great
  8. Me and D was together for a year when our little girl was born. Things were great, until DV started. D got arrested in Oct 16 and found guilty so we broke up for a while at that period. Then started seeing each other for a while a few months later, then found out I was pregnant. He wanted to keep it but I didn't because we had a newly 1 year old and our lives weren't stable to bring another child into it. So I chose to abort, and then we broke up from then. We got back together around Christmas 17 and then DV started again, really bad. He got arrested Jan 18 and found not guilty so he was rele
  9. I really need some true honest advice i had been dating a guy 20 yrs from1994 off and on at one point we split for about 10 yrs i got engaged to someone else in 2010 but i left the guy to get back with the long term bf we got back together in 2013 after he got out of jail it was good at first he worked and was a very good man he lost his job and i noticed he went into deep depression he changed dramactically he begin to distance himself from me and treating me bad he say the uglyiest things to me stay out all night and blame me for his hardtimes i stood by him supported him while in jail whn n
  10. Hi I'm new to this and never posted anything like this before but I am in need of help please just dont know what to do. it's all so raw. I will give a very brief resume of our relationship. We have been together 4 years, I met him after being on my own for a long time and we both knew the day we met we had met "the one" and my life was complete he was everything I had ever wanted. Very shortly after my life was turned upside down literally as only being with him for three month he was taken away from me and went to prison for fraud. He got six years and served 3 and came out in October
  11. Mine called this morning. The call woke me up (I work overnight so I sleep late). I looked at my phone, saw it was the ex, thought "that's random" and went back to sleep. He left a message saying he was going to be in my town (in a different state than his, about 5 hours away) tomorrow, and asked me to call him back. I just went on with my usual day, then about 7 hours after he'd called I called him back. I let him know that my work schedule would not permit me to spend any time with him tomorrow, and that I didn't have a day off until the end of the weekend. He kind of laughed and s
  12. My boyfriend has some time to do. I love him and would never abandon him. We just had a baby girl she is 2 months old. He has already been in jail for 30 days now. I go visit him every week and talk to him on the phone everyday. Im afraid he's pushing me away. He hasnt called me in about 4 days. I called the jail and they told me he is fine nothing wrong with the phones and inmates can make calls. I feel so heartbroken. I dont understand why he is doing this to me. Last week sunday i went to visit him and everything was fine. We had a good visit and he called me when i got home from the visit
  13. I saw a similar post but my situation's got an interesting spin on it...I'll try to be brief! Last December, my boyfriend got arrested (nothing violent or drug-related, blah blah) and upon calling me from jail, he discovered just how upset I was. We had only been dating close to a couple of months at that point. Before we got off the phone, he said this: "I probably shouldn't say this, but I love you." This was the first time he said I love you to me, and yes, I said it back. Now, it's almost April and he hasn't said "I love you" at all. I haven't said it to him since then because t
  14. well i split with her just before crimbo,i got abit sick of how she wud handle life,she wud go work and come home then watch tv till bed time.i am 20 years old and she is 19,we sud be out having fun doing things.well anyways i had put up with this for nearly 2 years i had been saying to her she needs to get a hobby and start doing stuff but she never listen and it made me so unhappy cos all i seen was her doing nothing with her life.anyways i asked her to come into the ketchen and i said claire will you please change the way you are please please get a hobby or something i hate seeing you watc
  15. So My girlfriend ex just got out of prison and call her a few minutes ago asking about her and the baby, and the due date, he she tells him and she says she about to get into the shower then to bed for work, he goes okay I’ll call you back tomorrow and she goes sure. So we had a discussion about it and I ask her why didn’t she just tell him no not to call her anymore and that she move on and you should too, she didn’t say anything and jump into the shower
  16. My story : Me and my husband we know each other for about 8 years now , but we are married for only an year now ...4 years ago he was involved in a drug crime and he was sentence to jail but he decided to run away from it and I followed him where he was and decided to make an new life there , things didn't really worked out , he got caught and deported back and now of course is in jail...The problems is that he is very possessive and jealous , he was always like that , but now he is just like crazy , after we left the country and he was on the run I stopped talking with all my friends even wi
  17. I need everyone's opinion right now Here's the Dilemma. Well I've had two sacks that's kept in touch with me since 2005 he's the one that called it a break and in this past 12 years he finally came up front to me and said how he felt and why he chose to break up the thing is I don't understand if he had nothing no feelings for me at all why would he stay in contact with me recently when he was in jail in South Carolina I saw he was in jail so I wrote him a letter and he called me and we had a good conversation and that was back in March and then in August around the 17th to the 22nd he starte
  18. So here is the deal... I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. We were childhood sweethearts.. he was my “middle school boyfriend” back in the 7th grade. High school comes and he transfers schools. Fast forward.. we both graduate high school, he goes off to the army, I go to college. We both get married. Both have a son and now both divorced. Jumping to current time, he is the love of my life. We legitimately fit so perfectly together. Like fingers in a glove. We complete each other. So when We found each other again back in August 2017. And When we found each other again, he was current
  19. I really need some advice, especially from strangers as they are more impartial. I have been with my partner for three years and we have four children between us (none together) living with us and I have an adult daughter. We bought a house together last September and things have been a bit strained since. Just before we moved in my partner's father died very suddenly and even though he says he's ok as they weren't that close I know it has affected him more than I think he knows himself. Until last August I ran a successful business and before that I was a teacher. I am now a student again
  20. I think I have to get this out of me. I’m struggling. I’ve met a wonderful woman, she is kind, generous, caring and sweet. She ticks so many of the boxes it’s unreal. Plus she likes me (!), and not only is she willing to accept me for who and what I am but also accepts that my past is less than savoury. She is a wonderful woman, and far more than I deserve. Trouble is, I can’t stop thinking of my ex. I was with a troubled girl, named T. She had issues, she was suffering from PTSD, taking anti-psychotics and other drugs. She was also self-medicating with alcohol, weed and the occasi
  21. Due to circumstances I was lucky enough to be able to work from home 4 days out of 5 for about a year and a half. On top of that, although it was a full time job, I had a very light workload. A lot of the time I was able to just idly browse the web or walk around the house doing random stuff. I eventually lost that job due to downsizing, and have been at a new workplace for nearly 2 months. I've really been struggling with getting into that routine again. Getting up early, driving to work, staying for 9 hours and driving back, with only a few hours left for free time. I don't dislike the jo
  22. Hi. Never done this before but feel like I'm cracking up and need to share. I was with an older woman , 7 years difference, casual relationship for 5 years. Long story, few months back we were having sex and a few weeks later I'm in court and getting 6 months restraining order not to contact her. We live a few hundred yards apart. One min we are sleeping together and then i need to keep away or face jail. What on earth happened?? I love her, i made mistake but how?? I can explain more in detail but just wanted to see if anyone was bored enough to listen. I know everyone said to forget and move
  23. They say when you meet your soulmate you know. Thats how I felt when I met this man four years ago but I was in a relationship and he was on and off with his girlfriend who he has a young child with. The chemistry was so intense but I am loyal so I did not give in which he says made him want me even more because he knew I was trustworthy. We had no contact for a year or so and I heard he was in a car crash and was critical. He had been driving the car and was under the influence and was sent to prison to serve his time. He has 27 months done and will be out over the next couple of days. Since
  24. So I met this chick and started dating her, a month later I got in trouble and caught a drug charge that had me facing some time. I told her about it and told her then you can stick with me through it all or we can just call it quits. She decided to stick by with me as long as I didn’t have to go for more than a year. Even moved in with me, let her drive my car as hers was a POS. Took her places like Chicago and Hawaii. Fast forward to a year later, I was notified by my lawyer that I was going to be incarcerated for 5-6 months. She said she was going to be by my side and be here for me. Fi
  25. So I met this guy on an app he's from the middle east.he showed me his picture but I want to make sure he's who he says he is so I might ask for another.anyway he's very sweet even though I'm in the United States and there's a lot of problems between are two countries.the problem is he's to positive to the point it's like he's trying to control how depressed I am.often times when he gets like that I switch to another app but it's a little annoying at times cause he believes he can fix me.and I'm like shouldn't I have some leeway into how I'm supposed to get fixed.im terrible at making relatio
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