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  1. AwdreeHpburn
    yer weird - if you don't think those who know you could recognise you...think again. BUT - I agree, the longer hair is better.
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    SUBMIT IT dude!! What are you waiting for? There's no magical WAY to pitch it. You have to research and find out which companies take such stories and submit it. Then, when you get that rejection letter - send another copy to another place that takes those kinds of submissions. And when you get THAT rejection letter, send it somewhere else. You just have to keep at it. But dude, if you've got that much done and copy rights and all of that - get going!! Start submitting. link removed link removed link removed SUPER good luck Kyoshiro!!
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    hey rucnateb - I totally feel you and it is he that has the somewhat immature attitude in my opinion....Just mean that it's obvious to a great many humans who have feelings that its uncomfortable for people to be around someone they know their bf had a relationship with. I mean, we can talk all day long about "mature" responses and stifling our true feelings for the sake of posterity, but come on! It's there for all of us. I would feel weird being around an ex of my husband's and we've been married for 8 years and have 3 kids! I think you can still go, be the bigger person about the whole thing, be plesant and show your "maturity" but you're not a freak, you're not immature and you're not weird for having normal feelings...
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    What does that even mean anyway? I mean, if you two were NOT doing the space thing and she had a facebook and spent time on it....what would that mean??
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    STOP LOOKING AT HER ACTIVITY ON FACEBOOK!!! Like Ellie said, just stop looking at it.
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    Yes!!!! It Will
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    What about you? Can YOU think of a good reason to NOT contact her??
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    3. If she was hurt and doesn't get the time to heal - it won't be a good conversation which will lead to resentment which will lead to a REALLY hard time ever getting back together again. Wounds need time to heal. Time, medicine and air....
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    2. You could appear too desparate and controlling - opposite of what she wants and part of what she wants you to change, yeh?
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    1. She asked for space - showing her that you can respect that - means you respect HER
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    I don't have MSN - but hang on - list coming
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    Goingfor it!!!! Don't do it dude!! I totally understand that you want to and why - but give it a little more time. Should we find a topic to discuss? Feel like playing a game in the OT forum for a bit?
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    Puff Daddy - You're funny. I like you. My life sucks cos I'm comfortable there
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    well said Penny - I like it. I am Atheist. - a person who denies or disbelieves the existence of a supreme being or beings. I don't know where the word comes from or how it got its meaning - but dictionary . com lumps it in the same category as agnostic. I'll admit I can't be sure, but I think the evidence we DO have - as a species - suggests that the scale is tipped in favour or no gods or spiritual creator, than the other way around. I don't think anyone can ever be *SURE* either way, unless they want to cos it makes them feel better - which is totally fine but by just saying "I know it to be true" doesn't make it so.
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    Yes. And Belladonna is spot on with the re-direction route. Give him appropriate tools to do his creative work so he learns the difference.
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    Hey Welcome to ENA!! My advice - slow down on the potty training - he may be a bit young and not ready. Maybe go back to diapers. (respectfully) don't let him go potty alone yet. He's clearly not ready. Again - with respect - be more diligent about checking his pull-ups or diapers frequently. Pre-emptive is key.....get him before he gets to it...
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    why DID you block out your eyes? Just curious. A bit like asking you if I look fat and showing you a picture of my hair, isn't it?
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    Hey MorningStar.... As much as I love the crap out of Gfein - I am going to have to *respectfully* disagree with him.... (sorry G-) Whilst I'm sure its obvious she cares about you to some extent - we can tell from the tears - she either has REALLY bad timing or really GOOD timing. Knowing that you will be gone for 2 weeks was a good strategy - whilst unfair to you to leave you with that to think about on your travels, she was trying to ensure herself some space and time. I'm sorry for your pain Morning Star - I think if you can, you should completely put it out of your mind as something to deal with when you get back. At least TRY to do that. That way you can some what enjoy your trip.
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    That's my understanding too.....
  20. AwdreeHpburn
    SWEET!!! Congrats!! Keep up your healthy regime!!
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    dude..... you crack me up
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    Hey Ren - I've known you for quite some time now and I gotta say.... What you should do is PRINT out these responses and post them on your refridgerator. Look at them everyday. These are things people think of you. If you feel unsure - look again. But I have a feeling people saying it isn't enough because you don't believe it. EVERYONE feels insecure at some point or about something. It's natural and very normal. But...if I'm being honest here, I think your obsessed with how people view you - to your own detriment. It's not a bad thing at all to be interested in knowing, we're all curious. Actually...... I don't wanna know...but you can't be soooo consumed by what others think that you don't ever actually take into consideration what they say. Stop asking - start paying attention to how they react to you, look at you, interact with you, what things they say to you. And pay attention to your own behaviours. Do YOU think you're clingy?? I think you think you are. Pay attention. Start catalouging. Stop analysing until you have some data TO look at. Do you know what I mean?? I hope I don't come accross to harshly, but I know this is an issue for you because you've discussed it several times now. And I don't want you to get discouraged and shy away from it because someone says stop asking. I don't mean it that way. I mean it in a take action sort of way. Stop asking and start paying attention to the reason you STILL have this question. There are soooooo many out here who like you, think you're funny, fun to hang out with and spend their ENA time with. Don't forget it - print it and post it up and look at it daily!!!
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    Hey Malarivi - Welcome!!! I don't think you did anything WRONG at all!! It's tough. It feels good to be chosen over someone else. But I worry....don't let yourself get fooled. He DID end up with her at the end of the night after all. He may be confused as well - you ARE familiar to him as he is to you. I do think tho - that if you ARE going to get past/get over the relationship, you shouldn't do that again. You could end up falling into a really bad pattern.
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    you sure know how to title a post dude....
  25. AwdreeHpburn
    Yep - I too am of the opinion that you should apologise. As soon as you can. Just like you did here. You were having a bad day and were a bit touchy. Even if notihing comes of it from her end, you will at least have made the effort.
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