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Yeah, I agree. I had just gotten out of a relationship and found a girl I thought I liked, but after a few weeks I realised it was going nowhere.. I thought I was my ex, but I realised I was far from it as well. It was just a rebound girl.

My girlfriend who broke up with me about a month ago after being together for 1.5 years, still keeps contacting me. I still want her back, and everytime she contacts me, it makes me think there is a chance. About a few days ago, she texted me 3 times, saying hello. I ignored all 3, but then she called a left a message crying. I was busy so I texted her I will call her later, and she responded with "are you over me?" I did not answer, but did call her later. We somehow ended up meeting, which brought back all the old feelings, but I tried not to show them. We talked about everything, and she told me how miserable she is and how much she thinks about me. I was getting signs that she wanted to try again, so I asked her and she said she was unsure. She said she kept thinking about all the times we would fight and it would make her crazy, and at that point is was pointless for me to even try to say anything because nothing would affect her. Why does she do this to me? I still want her back, but I am tired of asking for her abck and being rejected. I always go NC and she always calls me or texts me every couple days.. its just so hard. Is there a chance we could still work? Or should I give up? BTW, a friend of mine saw her at another friends house the last weekend, and he told me she was asking about me, about if I miss her or not... and she looked really depressed

So after about a month after my gf of a year and a half broke up with me and after about one week of NC, she breaks it by texting me. She texted me three times, and I ignored, but then she called me and I ignored but she left a voicemail crying. She said she was having a breakdown and was so miserable. I ended up calling her back, which I think was a mistake. She asked me if I ever thought about old times, to which I said yes. She said she is so unhappy now. Of course, this made me think there was hope for us to get back together, because I still love her. When I asked her if this was a possibility, she just shot me down. Why would she call? I texted her later saying "I think its obvious you're not gonna take me back, so why call?" and she responded by saying "Thats not true." Ugh, I feel like Im being strung along.. is there still hope for me?

So my gf of almost 2 years broke NC just now.. and Im kinda confused. She dumped me and at first I was crushed, calling her, begging her to take me back. I am just now starting to feel better, but she just broke NC. She texted me and called me, but I ignored it. I don't know if I really want to talk to her because then it might bring back old feelings.. Should I just ignore it? Part of me wants to show her that I am much better though.. Ughh

Yeah, I agree completely.

Thanks. I appreciate the advice

Yeah, the room mate will give me her number. That seems to be most logical since then I can talk to just the girl and clear up any confusion about the other night.

I always felt weird about asking someone else for a girls number. But I guess it is really my only option right now. I guess I am just confused because I dont want to look like a fool trying to pursue something she isnt interested in, and I just felt kinda rejected last night..

The hard thing is, I dont have her number. And I don't really like hanging out with her room mate, but right now she is my only hook to this girl. And I feel bad just using her room mate to get to her. If I had her number it would be easier.. ha ha.

Ok, so I have been out of the dating game for a while, but am just getting back into it because I was dumped awhile ago. So anyway, I met this girl through a friend. The friend called me over one night and it was her and room-mate. So me and a friend went over to just hang out. ANyways, its getting pretty late and I have been getting signals from the girl all night. We have had a few beers, but nothing to much. Since Im getting signals I go in for the kiss, and we end up making out for awhile, and then later fool around. She wanted to have sex but I declined. Anyways, after its pretty late so I head out. But then yesterday, I went over there again with another friend in hopes I would see this girl cause I didnt pick up her number. The whole time I'm there though, she just stayed in her room. She didnt say anything.. which I thought was odd? I just ended up talking to her room mate, and then left. It was kind of weird. I know that this girl does not get around and is not a , and judging by her friends she seems interested, but could it just have been a hookup? I wouldnt mind trying to pursue a relationship, but I am confused?

So I asked her not to call unless she wanted to discuss us getting back together because I felt like I was being strung along, and she said thats not what she was doing. I asked her what she thought about us and she said she still didnt know, and that things might not even be the same if we got back together. Now I am feeling terrible.. Hope sucks. Back to day one of NC

Ya I know. I really do want her back and I know she is very confused. Its hard to know what she is thinking, but even harder to know how I should act to get her back. I want to give her space, but its been like 2 weeks and its hard. I also dont want to be stuck around waiting

Hm, ok, so she called and i picked up. We talked about life, and I asked why she called and she said "Just to talk." I told her that I would not like to talk for long because I was teaching myself to get over her and was starting to accept that fact that I would not got her back. After I said that, she said "How do you know you wont get me back?" I asked if there was a chance.. and she said "I don't know" then she said she had to go? AM I being strung along? Now Im back to day 1 of NC, and I didnt get any straight answer. What should i do

Hm, ok, so I called her back, and she picked up. We talked about life, and I asked why she called and she said "Just to talk." I told her that I would not like to talk for long because I was teaching myself to get over her and was starting to accept that fact that I would not got her back. After I said that, she said "How do you know you wont get me back?" I asked if there was a chance.. and she said "I don't know" then she said she had to go? AM I being strung along? Now Im back to day 1 of NC, and I didnt get any straight answer. Ughh