My husband and i have been married for seven years now. And living together for eight.He had two children from pervious marriage and i have tried my best to get them to like me. For instance i have three children and for christmas,birthdays,easter i have always treated them equal.At first their mom would not let the come because she told them i killed someone and got by with it. Then when they started coming everytime they got mad at us they would not speak to their dad for a month or two. Then one day they got mad and went home told a bunch of lies on us and their mom called dhr on us trying to have my children toke away and so his kids would not have to come back and for two years they did not speak to their dad.Then his mother died and they started coming back like nothing had happened.Everything was going ok until my husband called and found out the 13 year old boy had missed 63 days od school. Then all of a sudden he wanted to come live with us when he got on probation.My husband and I talked and decided to let him come live with us we thought it was because his mom wouldn't get up out of bed and make sure he was going to school. Well anyway he had been living with us and making life hard on me and his dad. He would kick my 8 yr old in the tail bone and one morning he tried strangling him.I called my husband back home from work and he gave him a really good talking too and whippped him with a belt.Now 10 months later we find out that he has been molesting my eight year old before he ever moved in with us.I dont know if i can take anymore of this. He is in juvenile for now and is 14. But i think it is going to come down to my husband having to pick me or his son. and i am really scared because i really do love him with all my heart and we are very happy and get along good as long as his children are not invovled.But all the son can do it write his dad and tell him he wants it to be just the two of them all the time. His fiveteen year old daughter told her brother he did not derserve to be in juvenile and their dad was picking me and my kids over them.should i just divorce him and move on or keep fighting with the kids?HELP
