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    Wow, I love it...
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    Very good!!! I love it!
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    Such a sad, but touching poem. I love it!
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    I think it's good to keep your sense of humour the way it is - I personally like it when people aren't worried about being themselves!! Humour is such a wonderful thing!
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    Sounds like she has a great sense of humour! Sucks that she is married though.... seems like all the good ones are already taken sometimes doesn't it... Ah well, what can you do? Keep us posted on how things progress though!
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    I think that you shouldn't worry yourself on it too much, she has mentioned to you she has a boyfriend, so it is probably unlikely that she will be searching for a relationship.... I think that she just means that in a friendly way. If she does make advances or drops hints to you... well that's another story..
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    That's so sad.... I'm very sorry to hear that she did this to you... I'm not really sure what I can say to make you feel better, but please accept a big virtual hug from me... *HUGGGGGSSSS*
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    I'm going to try that...
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    Yep - we have an exercise bike that I try and use in front of the telly as well.. that way I can't make an excuse that it's too hot to go biking outside... I'm still doing what I enjoy (watching tv!) but I have added the exercise element.
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    I think this is something that your mother should be addressing with him. Perhaps your father isn't getting the emotional support that he needs from your mother and so has looked elsewhere for it. I know that it is your dad and you feel like you should get involved, but it's something that has to be addressed by your parents alone...
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    I'm lazy when it comes to exercise.. I try and do it while I'm watching tv so that there isn't really any excuse... pilates type stuff... so lifting my legs up, pushups, weights, stuff like that.
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    Definitely! Just make sure you use old sheets because rose petals can stain if you use fresh ones.. Lotsa candles!! Chocolate, strawberries, stuff like that!
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    I don't think that you guys should be personally attacking teacup, sorry... She asked a question, she didn't ask to be judged by you. Teacup, I think that it's probably just a phase that she is going through... either that or she has been watching Jamie Oliver and getting some crazy recipes!!! It may also be that she has been at home for so long that her routine is starting to bore her....
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    I would try reciprocating by touching her and see what her reaction is.....
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    It's great that you are remembering the fun you have had, but it almost sounds like you are worried that the good times won't happen again! You should reflect on those times saying "Yes, I had a lot of fun, and I hope those times happen again soon!". It is quite normal to feel a bit sad once a holiday is over... but it sounds like you are feeling really down about it and it occupies your thoughts a lot... I can't really see a solution... unless you try and pinpoint what it is about the experiences you have that makes you feel so sad when you return from your vacation...
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    I think it's best to leave the ball in her court.... the time it takes to sort out one's thoughts does indeed differ between people and I don't think that she should want to feel pressured and rushed, if you know what I mean. Just say to her "well, when you are ready to talk, then please do... I have a few questions that need answering before I can move on myself." Hope that makes sense..
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    Heya, Sounds like you are having a rough time at the moment. Maybe she does want to have a relationship, but with the pressure of study and work, she feels that her life is too stressful already without having to worry about a committed relationship. The only thing you can do at this stage is just do what you said in your email, and just be there for her. She may cut all ties with you if she feels like you are pressuring her for a relationship... Good luck, stay strong, and let us know how things turn out...
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    I agree... It seems like she is happy to be friends with you and isn't really looking for anything over and above that. Perhaps she may have felt a bit pressured by your advances? Maybe just go bowling or take her to the movies, do something that you would do with your other friends... Let us know how you go!
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    Poor possum... It's a long and complicated process.... you are going to have mixed feelings and thoughts for a while.. then one day - you'll realise that you don't need her to be happy... Stay strong! I'm here if you want to talk.
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    Wow, sounds very complicated! I'm glad that you were able to see that it is indeed not your problem... you have offered your help to her and she refused to take it... Try not to feel guilty about it though - you offered help, she didn't take it.. you did what you could! Stay strong, and PM me if you ever need to talk..
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    You are doing so well, and I imagine it has just been immensely difficult for you. I understand why you would be feeling deflated and depressed about it... but you have to think of it as being the best thing for both of you (even if it doesn't feel like it)... it's no good being in a relationship where both parties aren't entirely happy... But you already know that!! It's wonderful to hear that you are finally starting to repair your wound... it will take a while and I imagine on "key" dates, you will think about her a lot.... but you are making such great progress already! Feel free to PM or email me anytime if you want to talk!
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    A picnic sounds like a lovely idea!! Perhaps coupled with some flowers?? When you say there was something that didn't sound right when she said that she wanted a relationship with you... can you elaborate? Did it kinda sound insincere? Was the way she said it a bit strained?
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    You are doing REALLY really well... it's so difficult because you get used to being with someone, then you have to deal with them not being there at all... and it will take you a while! But you are doing so well already.
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    Crushes are indeed peculiar.. My first crush was when I was in Primary School... his name was Aaron Robertson, he had dark wavy hair and intense dark brown eyes... perfect white teeth and freckles!! Now that I look back on it, he wasn't that great! Lol.. but at the time, my life was just consumed by thoughts of this self centred little boy... My most memorable crush was a few years ago when this guy at my Mum's work took my fancy. I was 15 or 16 at the time and I used to go to her work every day after school in the hopes that I would get a glimpse of this hottie... he had beautiful blue eyes, and gorgeous long hair.... This crush disappeared for a couple of years and eventually I forgot about him... until I realised that he worked in the same building as I did!! I used to drink heaps of water, tea, coffee, anything! because the toilet was near his office, so I would try and do all I could to make sure I saw him at least once a day... This crush is the man that I am marrying next year
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    Sounds like you're in a lot of pain Breakups are so difficult... and from what it sounds like, your ex is still trying to contact you... if this is making the situation worse for you, perhaps you could consider changing your phone numbers etc. so that you can get on with your life.. I hope that you feel better soon
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