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    Same boat - can't say I have any besties and I quite often used to get in trouble from my friends because I'm not a socialite and they used to get shirty when I didn't want to go out.. It's definitely not weird. Sounds to me like you are independent and don't need to rely heavily on friends.. and that isn't a bad thing...
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    Hey Freshie, That's great!! glad things are working out for you and that your dream gal is into you! And I'm so glad got your dance back!
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    Sometimes dreams can be so visual and so real can't they... Having a hot shower about half an hour before bed can help you sleep... or warm milk... or even a cup of hot chocolate or chamomile tea. If you continue to have problems with your sleep and anxiety, definitely go and see your doc or a counsellor about it.. quite often these things are linked to problems in your life and it's so important for your own sanity that you straighten this out... Good luck!
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    I for one would rather have a partner that is closer to eye height instead of boob height
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    A bit tricky isn't it!! But sounds like you are absolutely smitten! I would probably just ask him one day after work if he wants to go for a drink or something, or perhaps to the movies?? It's the intial contact that's the most difficult, but after that you guys should have a pretty good gauge of each other and you should know where to go from there... I hope that makes sense... I'm listening to music as I type so it's a possibility that I'm just babbling...
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    It could be shyness... it could also be that she's not interested in you but she's not willing to talk to you directly about it, hence she doesn't make an effort to initiate conversation... If I were you I'd leave it for now eh... if you made signals that you are interested in her, then she knows how you feel about her. The fact that she isn't making an effort to reciprocate indicates to me that she's not really interested... Good luck with it all..
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    If you felt that her remarks were not in good taste, perhaps you should have made her aware of this... Regardless of whether she has bipolar or not, she obviously offended you... If you are having second thoughts about moving in with her, then don't do it....
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    Nah I would definitely not reply... don't give her that satisfaction of a reponse....
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    Glad to hear that you are doing ok... it's going to be rough but you are doing the right thing, even if it doesn't really feel like it right now. You need space to heal and to sort out where you are at... Keep us posted with your progress.
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    I used to be, and still am a very clingy and anxious person when it comes to my relationship with Luke. It's something that does take a while to get over and as has already been mentioned - talking to someone about it really does help. In the end, it's good if you get a hobby or something to occupy your mind. Go to the gym, volunteer, go out with friends, something that makes you happy. You guys are in it for the long haul... you need space away from each other sometimes, because otherwise you'll get tired of each other pretty quickly!!! Good luck with it all.. and make sure you talk all this over with your boyfriend as well so he knows where you stand...
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    I agree... It took mine a lot longer than that to heal (partially because it took me a while to realise that I was allergic to the stud!). If it's against your company's policy, definitely don't do it. If you really want to get a piercing, get it done elsewhere...
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    Wow, sounds like you're in a bit of a hole.. Stay positive. You did the right thing by breaking up with him. It will take a while to get over him (and it seems like he is trying to get you to come back to him even?) but just don't give him the satisfaction of having you chase after him. You did the right thing by confronting him about the relationship. Whenever you think that you should try and get back with him, just remember the way he treated you, and how he would cheat on you and flirt with others. That isn't love. That's being a man- * * * * *. I hope you find your direction!
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    You could use an electric shaver thingo instead of a standard razor....
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    I agree with Johnny.... If she wanted her stuff that badly, she would have taken it with her in the first place.
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    Confused, I had the same problem when I was on birth control, I grew bewbies, and more curves... but I also put on about 10 kilos (which I guess was good, because I was underweight before)... The best thing you can do is make sure you exercise and eat healthy to try and keep this weight off...
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    Yeah.... he probably did it to make you out to be the bad guy... in fact it's quite likely that he would have told his friends that he dumped you, because that way it would sound like he was at the top of the relationship if you know what I mean? That's just what it sounds like to me...
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    I think you answered your own thoughts in that post Amazing... Don't bother meeting up with her on Sunday, when you know it's not what you want, plus you will be giving her false hope. Your ex thought she could get away with hurting you, thinking you'd forgive her and give her another chance. Now that you haven't, it feels like her protective shell that you created, has disappeared around her, and she realises that she is alone and unsupported by you.. if that makes sense.. Best of luck finding The One... she is out there somewhere...
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    Wow, I'm so sorry to hear this... A restraining order sounds quite excessive though... but I do agree with what your therapist said... I think it's best for you to leave it at that, don't let him win... this was all his doing, not yours, and you shouldn't be feeling like it's your fault... Good luck, I hope you find your path... and feel free to PM me if you need to talk it through more...
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    Lol my boyfriend does that..... I think that it depends on the personality of the person. Some people don't like confiding because they feel that it might make them seem like a weaker person... if you know what I mean..
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    I think you need to really look at this through the microscope and figure out if you want to be hurt again or not. Personally, if someone did that to me, then told me that they loved me and would never hurt me, I would laugh at them. If he loved you, he wouldn't have done this in the first place. I hope you find your way..
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    I'd have to say I only orgasm about 5% of the time...
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    Well, I usually sleep facing Luke, on my side, with my head on his shoulder (he's lying on his back) - that's we first get to bed... then I turn onto my right side and he snuggles up behind me... But later on the night I space myself, cause I get too hot in bed!!
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    You have been with her for two years....You get used to being with this person and now that she isn't with you anymore, you feel like something is missing. Just stay with NC, it's the best thing for you right now.... you will feel better soon, but it will take a while... Counselling is probably a great way to go as they can help you to confront your emotions... Let us know how you go..
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    Good on you!
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    I'm sure she didn't mean it in an aggressive way... Gee, what's with all the * * * * *fighting on here at the moment?
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