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  1. No, no, no, no no. I can't emphasize that enough. Edit: What I mean is, in my case, I never changed one bit. So no, not all people change in college. Some like me remain losers.
  2. Be brutally honest please. Since I have never done of the typical teenage/youth things that we are bombarded with on TV (and real life). Here's the things I've never done. Never as in never. holding hands, touching, hugging, kissing (both tongue and 'regular'), sex. I'm not really looking for advice on how to do these things since it's 5-10 years too late anyway. I'm 22. But if I get a woman, and she finds out these dark secrets, how repulsed will she be? Is it possible for me to hide the truth? EDIT: Yeah but I haven't even done the non-sexual stuff that most people do when they're 13-14. Making out for example.
  3. Good question, and I'm afraid there is no answer. It's just one of the major flaws in our society that needs to be changed. It is very unfair and proves that gender equality is a sham.
  4. Yup. But extra tonnage on a woman is an act of God and any guy who turns down such a woman for this reason is a shallow, superficial, pompous bigot. Yup. Makes sense, doesn't it?
  5. I'm not sure why you would ask this question. Are you just curious as to what other women do, or are you seeking approval? What if the majority of women say "NO" to this question? Would you then rethink your decision to date a short guy? If yes, why should the preferences of other women impact your decision? Why do you care what other women think of your dating choices? It's like me asking guys if it's ok if I date a woman fatter than me. What would you honestly think of me if I refused to date any woman ten pounds heavier than me? Of course if you're just bored and asked this question for no particular reason, please disregard whatever I said.
  6. OK, well, if I were in your boyfriend's shoes, I would totally believe you only if I "accidentally" stumbled upon this posting of yours on ENA. There's a hint for you there. I really don't know how you would arrange such an accident but if you are able to pull it off, it will most likely work, trust me. PM me if you want me to delete this.
  7. Well, I thought the humor was rather coarse and slapstick. But I liked the theme of the movie because it hits home hard.
  8. Ok, first thank you to everyone who responded to my post about the girl who gave me her phone number. I'm planning to ask her out but if she accepts, and we go, am I expected to invite her to my home afterwards? I know I would feel very uncomfortable doing that but if I don't do it, would she take it as a sign of disinterest or lack of confidence? PS: I forgot to add that this meeting place is very very close to where I live. Does it make any difference?
  9. Wow! I finally spoke to a girl and she offered her phone number to me! This is the first time in my life this has happened. What do I do now?
  10. Well I've never had sex but I can tell you that it's much easier to last if we've already ejaculated a few hours ago. Perhaps have minute sex in the afternoon and hour sex in the evening
  11. It really sounds like she is having a relapse of whatever mental disorder it is. Bipolar? I can't tell. I bet her disappearance was voluntary. Please get her psychiatric help before it gets worse.
  12. Wow, a little harsh to call him an insensitive lout don't you think? After all this is a 'brother' with past 'benefits', (which I guess would be 'incest' but that's another matter). I'm just wondering, Anna - if for any reason your b/f and you broke up, would you return to having sex with this so-called buddy of yours while waiting for the next relationship? If yes, then your boyfriend's unease is justified since it's not over and done with. I don't agree with your boyfriend forcing you to do anything but only because it's futile to force a girl to do anything But there are some trust issues that have to be worked out.
  13. Man I can understand. Although I don't have acne, I have very dark skin (which girls don't like), I am SHORT and my lips are always chapped. Girls never talk to me either. I'm afraid of exiting this world unnaturally, because you don't know what it's like after that. I've heard it's a lot like being in a dream, like Dr Malcolm Crowe in the Sixth Sense. That wouldn't be too good. So think real hard before doing anything like that.
  14. I understand your boyfriend's thoughts on this one. The reason I say so is this: "if I ever had any other romantic interests, then my buddy was just my buddy" Well I don't believe in that at all. I don't believe human emotions can be switched on and off at will depending on the situation. It's fine that you care about him but you and your b/f know that this isn't a truly platonic, sisterly kind of caring. I think you should lay it on the line with your b/f and let him know what's going on. Either he'll accept it, or blow up and in both cases it's all for the best for both you and your b/f. Subterfuge always worsens the problem.
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