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  1. Great post. I seek in a woman what I cherish in my own life - happiness , humor , passion towards something , being an interesting person who has gone places , done things , and has stories to tell. I briefly dated a girl who was ALWAYS negative on herself , and it was exhausting. I don't like associating with people like that , certainly not someone to be intimately involved with. Beauty to me is authenticity. Physically , spiritually , emotionally , what have you. All I want is a woman to be herself , and allow me to be myself.
  2. The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire Was just loaned it by a close friend yesterday , starting to read through it. It's all starting to make sense.
  3. Good luck on your final today. I know you've been stressed out like crazy with all the homework you've had. Have a fun rest of the week.
  4. I'm feeling increasingly better, and I trust that you are, too. I know that there was nothing I could do to change the fact that I was not meant for you, but it's so hard to let go of the person who I gave so much of myself to. Thank you for your warmth in the cold and sunlight through the darkness of Fall and Winter. Thank you for your patience and understanding. You are a wonderful, irreplaceable young woman and I feel blessed to have gotten a taste of your life. I wish I could call you my baby, but you are not my baby anymore. I've got a mountain of things to conquer in these next two mo
  5. I'm sure it's different for everyone, but I think it is worth opening yourself up to an activity or hobby that involves progression. If you work and focus on something that can evolve, then there is always time to be spent not worrying about basing your happiness on others. For instance, an artist's paintings or drawings will improve and manifest into different forms with years of attention and practice. This is radically different than sitting in front of a computer and playing video games, which will generally have an end point. In art, or music, or writing, there isn't ever going to be an e
  6. Enlightenment Unfolds: The Essential Teachings of Zen Master Dogen by Kazuaki Tanahashi, editor and One Bird One Stone: 108 American Zen Stories by Sean Murphy
  7. While physical health does seem to play some kind of role for most people in regards to 'self esteem', so too does our mental training. It's just a matter of not thinking about what might happen, but simply accepting what happens in the moment, because you cannot argue with reality. It just is. If you approach someone and nothing happens, then nothing happens. At least you did it, and can then move on and be that much more comfortable the next time around. Do not worry about what happens. You can only control so much - it's not worth getting wrapped up in what didn't go 'right'. It's just a
  8. I wouldn't call it a short-term solution, but learning a musical instrument might be a good idea. Gives you something to strive for, something that requires some discipline and patience. But playing an instrument can be very therapeutic, especially the better you get.
  9. The worst of it came right after posting this thread. It felt like a migraine attack. Had to go rest for a while. First I felt light-headed (seeing stars), then sounds started to become muffled, then I felt slightly nausous... and made my way to the couch. But by the time I got to the couch, I could hardly see anything clearly, so I had to feel my way on to the couch. It is hard to tell, but from just thinking about it, I may have woken up in the middle of the dream, which might explain the physical fatigue. My muscles were not relaxed at all. Weird. I haven't had one that intense in a l
  10. Last night I went to bed kind of late after work, and woke up this morning when I usually do. On Sunday mornings, I am rarely physically drained, just tired; you know, that Sunday feeling. But last night I had the most complicated dream in my life, and woke up extremely fatigued physically. Has anyone else experienced such a thing?
  11. In your opinion, would having very few friends be a hindrance in the dating process, or are social circles just fluff?
  12. Politics is always changing. 10 years ago, 20 years ago, 100 years ago -- all different. What a "democrat" is defined as now was not the same as what a democratic was during the WWII era. It has always been unpredictable who is going to become what. If you consider the possibility of debating or even discussing anything in relevence to modern society, it is important to first be aware of the history of your subject. That way, you are not just offering your opinion, but you are also speaking with merit and understanding about what your subject really means in the context of everything up to
  13. That's taking a shot in the dark, but go for it if you want. Don't be surprised if your expectations aren't meant.
  14. HAH... go figure. The instant I posted this thread, she calls.
  15. Last weekend I volunteered at this local event, and this one young lady and I were covering the same floor. At one point were a couple 1 1/2 hour breaks, so we passed the time by chit-chatting, getting to know each other. At the end of the event when we were leaving, we exchanged numbers for keeping in touch (not as potential dates). Later that night, maybe a few hours later, I was at work and was bored, so I called her and there was no answer. A couple days later I called again, left a message, and she returned it the next day... but I didn't have my phone with me when she called, so I jus
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