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  1. pooh-bare
    I'll be looking into ING Direct. Very much appreciated.
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    I listen to Clark Howard on Talk Radio and he HIGHLY recommends Online Savings accounts, they yield approx 5% apr vs the usual 1-2% for traditional banks. My question is how do I know which one to go with? There must be 1000's! Clark didn't name any specifically, so I'm not sure which one is better than another. Anyone have an Online account who could shed some light on this for me? Thanks!!!
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    Doesn't matter if she's interested or not since you're both married.
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    Acknowleding what you're worrying about is a good start. Face it head on.
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    could be ; Hormones kicking into overdrive after a miscarriage......long periods are normal for her.......nothing to worry about, unless as said above she's soaking pads/tampons every hour or so......
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    Classic case of wanting what we can't have.........get a grip on yourself and quick.
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    Once kids get to a certain age they discover that we as parents can only control so much. They are going to do whatever it is they are going to do. And unfortunately we can't stop it since we can't be with them 24/7.....Always having an open relationship with them I think helps. Allowing them to talk to us about anything and everything with honesty helps. This along with keeping them involved in extra cir. activities and with church has been successful with me..... But I don't believe it's possible to decrease their likelihood completely.
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    It's his way of keeping in contact........He's not ready to let go completely just yet......
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    My kids when VERY young giggled, cooed and smiled while sleeping.
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    I think it's very possible.......when I first met my ex, I wasn't interested in all. My first thought was "not so hot looking", but then I got to know him, fell in love with him and he became THE most gorgeous man I'd ever seen.....Too bad he turned out to be a real jerk in the long run..............."I firmly believe lust and passionate sex are the basis and foundation stones of a healthy relationship" ~ unknown
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    Sounds to me as if she's hanging on to you just in case things don't work out with the other guy.....you're her back up.
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    Guess you need to decide which is more important. Your sanity? Her seeing England? ....... Matters will only get worse. Be honest with her. Have a chat.
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    Honesty is always the best policy .......... so I'm told
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    IMO, he's just not that into you. He's thinking what if someone better comes along and he's in a commitment! And until they do, he doesn't have to be compeletly alone...........I say it's ultimatum time! ...... * * * * or get off the pot.
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    Doesn't matter........A loss is a loss, and it sounds like you're in the anger stage of the 5 stages of grief..........this too shall pass.
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    My parents were divorced for 16 yrs, my dad remarried, my mom did not..... they remarried each other 19 years ago and it's as if they were never apart.
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    It's a way for him to have contact with you......an excuse.....he may be realizing his free ride is now over....Try ignoring him and if he persists then just tell him you threw the book out and buy new socks.
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    Just b/c you have a child w/someone doesn't mean you have to be with them.......Always make the child your FIRST priority & the rest will work out.
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    Take it one day at the time........You're probably stronger than you think........Take any job you can get until a better one comes along.....Lord knows if I can do it, anyone can
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    Too much emphasis on money? What did you do for her besides buy her?
  22. pooh-bare
    First, I always pee before. 2nd, if I'm not *wet* I'm not into it, thereforeeee no O for me. 3rd, practice which leads to experience is needed - You don't know what you don't know.
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    Classic case of he wants what he can no longer have? He blew it, and seeing you caused him to realize it.
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    Please, please, try to find a way to get some professional help.... I am not a *cutter* nor have I ever starved myself, but I am an alcoholic. Thru a 12 Step program and counseling I've learned what "caused" (for lack of a better word) my alcohol abuse which eventually progressed to alcoholism. I've been sober for many years now and have no desire to harm me ever again.....I'm praying for you, hun..It will only get better if you take the first step and desire to get better.
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    It depends on the type of STD as to what the consequences will be........If you have a bacterial infection (or yeast) and are still sexually active, your partner needs to be treated also. Otherwise you're just passing it back and forth. Please get tested ASAP.
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