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  1. MaxPayne19
    Your girlfriend has probably just to the realization that she is comfortable around you and knows that you will be there for her when she needs you. Having sex once or twice a week is great; most people don't even get to enjoy that satisfaction as much as you do because the couple is too busy with work or other activities. I dont think you have anything to worry about right now, but if the lovemaking continues to decline you should set aside some time to have a talk with her and see how she feels.
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    You did the right thing by walking away. Most women are too afraid to even take that step. I would just try to keep myself busy with your friends and family so it will help take the load off your mind. Soon enough you will forget all about him and find someone better who treats you the way that you deserve and wouldn't hurt you no matter what.
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    Don't beat yourself up over the situation, there is nothign wrong with you. Just put your head up high and look for somebody that will make you really happy and treat you the way you deserve. Who knows you might even find some guy that is much better than him and cause his jealously to flare up. You dont want to be with those type of guys anyways. There the type that think nothing is ever good enough for their standards and are completely indecisive.
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    I met my girlfriend in kind of a strange way. I was interested in this one person that went to her school, but she was really all that interested in me. We would usually talk sometimes on the phone and text each other a few times. Well one of those times when I text her I told her about my new car that I got, which was a Mustang. My potential girlfriend happened to be watching what i was sending this girl and asked who i was and she text me. Then we kinda hit it from there and have been together for about 2 years.
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    Your girlfriend is starting to show some bad signs that could mean more problems...Like you said she rarely calls you and your always the first to contact her. It almost sounds like she is having more fun with her friends than you. You shouldn't let her upset you and make the rules in the relationship, you both should be able to negotiate a compromise that fits both of your needs. The situation with her dad could be why she is so independent, but it shouldn't control the way relationship is. You need to stand up for yourself and tell her that your feeling left out of this relationship. If she can't understand or respect that then it might be in your best interests to move on.
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    I understand how hard of a time you are having right now. Its good though that you are at least trying to put your head back up high and move on. She obviously has since she is having fun partying and drinking all the time. From the experiences ive had, I found it was best to stay away from those type because they can be a recipe for trouble. Don't kick yourself around because of it, like you said you treated her good and she was lucky to have you. One day she will realize all the good times she had with you after the partying begins to get old and boring. If she wants to be friends then she will call you and try to make plans, but in the meantime I would do my best to move on and continue dating others.
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    In my opinion I think you guys are moving a little too fast. It seems a little strange that she wants to talk about marriage and moving in together already after 1 and a half months. Even though you may really like and care for each other, you should still take things slow and let things flow along smoothly.
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    Well dont be too worried right away about trying to impress her. Girls seem to have some kind of beacon built into them that can tell when guys are trying too hard to get their attention. I would just kinda walk up to her casually and iniate some small talk with her. Try to become friends with her at first and see how that goes along. If your friendship is good then you might have a possibility at dating her.
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    Well it looks like your in a rough situation....its good at least that she is not blowing you off completely. I can see how much you care for her and the pain you must be feeling right now. I would just continue to lay low and let her iniate contact with you. Like you said if its meant to be its meant to be. And if it isnt....don't give up there are still plenty of women to have relationships with, your still young yet. Good luck with everything.
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    When your talking to one of the girls try your best to not make yourself look like a novice. You want to give them the impression that your interested but still cool and laid back at the same time. You don't want to be too pushy right away asking if they are single, that subject will come up in time. Just smile at them and try to make some good small talk, who knows they might just throw out their phone numbers to ya.
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    When your talking to a girl your interested in, don't ever dump all of your emotional problems onto them because they will begin to think that your insecure and they will probably sway away from you. Girls are looking for someone who has a lot of confidence in themself and someone who is an all around fun person to be with. Its best not to discuss previous relationships either, unless she happens to bring it up in a conversation. And the MAJOR turn off to a girl is when you are acting too clingy (calling to often, acting as if she the best you met, doing everything she wants to do all the time). From my experience those were all ways to get landed in the friend zone. Hope this helps
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    Have you been spending enough time with your friends throughout the high school years? These experiences are the most important and memerable because you will carry them with you throughout your life. Reaching your good and working hard is good, I did the same in high school, but its also important to just get time away from the textbooks and have a good time while your still young.
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    Sorry to hear about the breakup man....ive been through sort of a similiar situation a while ago. I was with this one girl for a couple of months and i was the happiest I had ever been. I thought everything in my mind was going well between us because she seemed to be very happy. Then all of the sudden shortly before my 18th birthday she dumps me without any good reason. I tried calling her throughout the next few weeks and she seemed as if nothing was bothering her, which really made me feel even more hurt. Later I found out that she had cheater on me with another guy I work with... It's hard to get over a breakup, but it is possible as time goes on. You just have to keep your head hi and hope you will find someone else that might make you even more happy.
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    Hey, theres nothing wrong with not being attracted to a guy. There is no way that a can feel attraction for a person if there wasn't an initial attraction when you both met. Theres just nothing you can do, you can't make yourself like somebody when you don't. You have good intentions in mind when you said that you just want to be with a bunch of people before you decide who is Mr. Right. A lot of women can seem to get that. They try to make everyone they go out with seem like the perfect one that they will one day marry... If this guy asks you about going out or something don't hurt his feelings, just say that it would be ok as long as its just friends. Good luck.
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    Go for it mysterman, what have you got to loose? If she has a boyfriend then so what, a least you know what is going on rather than being left wondering if there was a chance. If she is single then just kind of reintroduce yourself again. Try to be charming and funny, say something like "Hey its been a long time, you probably wouldn't remember an awesome guy like me". Lol i dunno thats just an example, but not a very good one... Don't be nervous, just work up your courage and ask her if she would like to hang out with you sometime. Good luck man.
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    I dunno thats a tough one. It's a little too soon to tell if he really likes you or not. Meeting you in person drunk isn't a great way to start things off...I would just wait until he calls you back and if he doesn't you will know if he was truley interested or not.
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    I would say to go for Jon. You have known him for at least 2 years so you pretty much know what he is like. He is obviously interested in you since he stares so often. Go talk to him!
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    Well i see the seriousness of the situation here....Its good at least that you realize what you did is horrible and wrong. But the hard part is going to be that you will have to break the news to your wife eventually, you can't hide it forever. You need to break away from this coworker immediately, she obviously realizes that you are going to be having a family but could care less. She seems to be just focused on her own sexual interests. You can't let something like this happen again especially with your child being on the way. I wish you the best of luck.
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    Well even though you probably dont want to, i would suggest that you just try to put this old relationship behind you. She might have got interested in somebody else or was just caught up too much with school or whatever. There is still plenty of women out there for you, your still young yet and you got your whole life ahead of you. You might not have necessarily done anything wrong, you guys probably just drifted apart from different interests. As for your new GF, don't be afriad to call her on the phone, you have nothing to lose. If she doesnt answer just leave a message. If she doesnt call back then just give her time to respond. Good luck.
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    I agree that he should be more open with you and tell you wants on his mind, instead of closing you out. Maybe he said that because he still has weird feelings about meeting again tonight and has as lot on his mind. At dinner tonight you should ask him how he is feeling about the break you guys had. He should be able to communicate you like a mature adult and openly tell you what he is thinking. I wouldn't get upset about the IM inncident, but just try to figure out if he has anything negative on his mind. Good luck.
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    You could also read over a section of the article or paper quickly by just looking at the key words that jump out at you. These keywords will probably help you to comprehend the message that is being sent accross.
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    Its good that your dedicated to making the relationship work out. You obviously want to keep him in your life for all the work you are doing to keep things strong. He must do his own work as well by eliminating the insecurites he has on guard and put the past behind him. If he is only calling you over because of his sexual desires, then he is using you. Don't jump to conclusions just yet, give it a little time. As far as thinking about dating new guys, you have to realize that every is different and is unique in his own way and style. You have to get away from modeling a person after your ex because you will be doomed to repeat some of the same mistakes.
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    I really don't think that it anything you've done. He's just going through hard times right now facing debt and and trying to set things straight. Im sure he will come around and things will get better soon. Just make sure your their for him to be supportive and encourage him to meet his goals.
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    Well maybe your just going through this mood because of winter. I know my friend Kyle acted similar once for no reason. It just triggered him to feel depressed and down on himself constantly.
  25. MaxPayne19
    Well there may be a chance and there may not be, but you just have to give it some time and just let things happen on their own. It just seems that she is confused right now because she is dealing with the stressing of studying oversees and being far away from all of her friends and family. Even though you are there for her to comfort he and help her, she still needs a little time for her own personal space and free time. I would say give yourself a couple of days of being apart from each other and try to do your own thing. Try hanging around the university and mingling with new people and make some new friends. She will also have time to do the same and that might help her feel more relaxed about living in that area. She will probably call you soon after so you guys can be together and do something fun. I think you still got a chance, just be careful not to be too pushy and have her rush into making decision because it could make her resent you. I've had something like that happen to me once before, so i know from experience. Just give things a little bit of time and see what happens from there. Good luck.
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