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This is where many of you looking for jobs need to be, especially for those who just finished their technical degrees or college degrees in engineering or computer science. I am speaking of 15,000 a month straight out of college. There are downsides to it though. You may have to go to the rig for like 2 weeks at a time, physical labor may be required (left more than 50 ibm) (if you are in a drilling segment). I am speaking of companies who provide services for companies like BP, Shell, Exxon, Encana, Pablo, Chesapeake, and so on. The oil field is basically divided into three main segments: 1) Drilling 2) Wireline 3) Well completion. Of course there are more. Most of those companies will hire and would provide extensive training for their employees. Their training is like school. You fail you are fired, you pass you make tons of money. Some of these companies are: Schlumberger Baker Hughes Halliburton PathFinder Scientific Drilling. Schlumberger alone is looking into hiring 6000 people this year. Take the advantage and search into these things. Good luck to you all.

All I can say is that I seriously appreciate the advice from every single individual over here. LAL wrote: No reason really, my friends and I always call our wives "The Wife". some_guy282 wrote: This is the type of person I am. I have done this with every single trainee we had; the difference is that with this one I crossed my line and screwed up. I am that kinda of person who planned every single thing for his life. You are totally right, I need to get tested for STD now, I need to know and hope to God she isn't pregnant. As far as I know, I may have already destroyed my life. To be honest, I don't think I'll ever tell my wife. Maybe I'll just let it go as if it never happened and compensate her greatly. I realize that even if I tell the wife and she stays with me, the trust is gone. What really hurts me is how much I am also attached to my wife's Mom and Dad; they had us live with them for 2 years making sure we save money and get on our feet, they fed us, paid for our food, and never asked for a dime. How I betrayed this trust is killing me. No matter how much I write I can never express the shame and the guilt I am feeling. In a way, I truly understand why ancient people stoned such people and if I am to be stoned to death with it so be it. theantibarbie23 wrote: This woman is dysfunctional I believe. After only one week of being together she's already asking for one. I think the reason why she is so attached to me is because she grew up without a father. Amazingly, her father was having an affair with her mom and she was the product of it. Her father never told his family and died without them even knowing about it. When I showed up with all the protection and need (my shining asmor), she saw in me the "father figure" and I admit I took advantage of it just to experience lust. Now, if she really gets pregnant, then she is repeating the same story her mother did. I can't imagine the same story happening again. As far as her mother goes, and if she really gets pregnant, then what comes around will come back to haunt her again. iceberg21 wrote: She will be leaving for the oil rig tomorrow and won't be back for a couple of weeks. By the time she comes back I will be gone to England for more training and when I come back in June, the house I am building for the wife and the daughter will be ready for closing. I work in the office and she works in the field. She will be gone for weeks and back for a day or two. This job is really hard and like I said before, it is not fit for females to do due to the huge physical work required for it. MaxPayne19 wrote: Today will be the last day I hope and then she will be gone. However, I feel that I do not want to wait until her next period to find out whether she is pregnant or not. I am thinking of doing a blood test. We have been having sex for a week now. If any know about this please help. Is the blood test going to determine if she's pregnant earlier than regular urine tests? I may have to drag her to a doctor to do it before she leaves for the rig. I am 28 right now, and worked so hard to build a decent life for my family and me; I ask myself, why would someone self-destruct like that? How can I destroy my own life with my own hands? It is nothing but an amazing thing. Sometimes I tell myself I worked so hard and I need some amusement, and I really did suffer so much, but again this is never an excuse. I watch the news, see people getting killed, robbed, cheated on and so on and I tell myself am not like those retards". Well, I am now. Like I said above, words can never express how screwed up I feel. I know that some of you will read this and say a loser". Believe it, I was that guy who used to say that stuff and now it is said back to me. My priority right now is to make sure she isn't pregnant, but my problem isn't' over. She works with me, and like others said she may go tell the wife about it. Maybe this is the least I deserve as a punishment but I hope it never comes. I have already told her that she shouldn't stop looking for a mate even though she claims she is in love with me. I have lied to her and said that I love her, but I can't be with her because I cannot have my baby daughter live without a father. She understands that. But again, what if she gets pregnant? I don't know. I just don't want to think about it; it's too big of a thing for me to bare.

Hello, I write this as a cheating husband. I am writing this and the woman I am cheating with is sleeping next to me on the bed. There is no way to express my emotions. I am caught in a dilemma and I seriously don't know what to do. You may want to excuse my long and boring post, but if any feel like bashing me please do, I deserve it. The story starts when I got married 5 years ago. I met my wife and within 6 months we were married. I have grown to love her even more after we got married. She spent two years of our marriage paying for my education. I am now an engineer at a company making some seriously good money. I can not ask for more. My company relocated me to a different state. I agreed with the wife that she stays in our home state while SHE is Pregnant. I would arrange to buy a house, settle down and so on, and then she would come after the baby is delivered. I'm gonna be having a daughter which I know I am already deeply in love with her. Things have not gone according to plan. I will admit that I am fascinated with sex, I almost masturbate on a daily basis even though I am married. Anyway, a new female worker was hired and from the first glance I knew that she liked me. Luckily, or maybe I should say sadly, she moved in with me in the company apartment (this is the place where all relocated and new employees are placed). It was only the two of us. She's from a different country and needed lots of help in terms of SSN, banking account, cell phone, and work issues. I was the one for her. We almost spent most of our time together and I made my wife aware of it. At that time I did not intend to do anything and I purely believed that I was doing a good thing. After three weeks of being together the wife decided to come for a visit. The wife comes and I just could not make love to her. I blamed it on her being pregnant and that I was put off by it. I realized that I missed that other girl and I tried to find the slightest reason to leave the hotel and go back to the company apartment just to see her. The wife left back to our home state and I was back again with the new employee. The new employee left for three days and that's when she told me on the phone that she was in love with me. She comes back and I just couldn't resist. I am currently cheating on my wife and it has been a week. She tells me that she is only borrowing me for a few months until the wife comes in. I, on the other hand, am feeling more and more uncomfortable. Believe it when I say that the only reason she didn't quit is because of me. The job requires lots of physical strength which is a thing she doesn't have. I feel that if I leave her early she will just quit and lose a great career opportunity, and when I say that I seriously mean it. Especially when we consider where she came from. However, at the same time, she is telling me now that she feels she is pregnant and that she truly wants a baby from me. I can not believe how fast this is going and I am starting to realize how badly I screwed up. It is truly amazing, she is sleeping next to me and I'm writing this. I feel so guilty and I truly love the wife. I have invested 5 years in our relationship and things are getting seriously good for us but I screwed up. The problem is that I am truly scared that she could be pregnant. At least she realizes that I will be leaving soon (next week), but I can not bare the thought that I may have conceived a baby from her. I am not a rational person anymore and I feel so lost. I do not have an excuse for my actions and all I can say is that I hope she's not pregnant and that somehow this nightmare I'm in would be over. But I know it's gonna be even worse for the wife if she finds out. An advice would help and a flame would be even better. I suck.