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    Very quiet, avoids eye contact, feels uncomfortable about being in big groups of friends, doesnt like to joke around and have fun, worried about what others think of her.
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    Yeah stay close with your friends and talk to them about your feelings. Find some way to contact him at home and you should be able to tell if he is really surprised that yuo would call that number. If he is there is probably something that he is not telling you and you need to find that out before you persue to spend more time with him.
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    Yeah stay away from this guy; he sounds like a whole mountain of trouble. Just because he is missing something in his marriage that he feels he needs to meet someone new, doesn't mean he can interfere and mess with what you have. Tell him to take a hike and stay away or you'll have your husband step in and spill the beans about him to his family.
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    Yeah you really need some time to get to know this girl better first, before you go planning out your life together. Shes definitely not gonna want to be pressured into something shes not sure about. So I think that asking her to stay with you right now is not a good idea. You couldnt possibly be in love with this girl just yet, your just going through a period of infatuation with her. But if you really are dedicated to staying with her give her some time for the feelings to develop and be like her best friend.
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    Well what they are saying is right, if she is pregnant it is not your responsiblity cuz you never slept with her. But, I dont think that you should just abandon her. I think thats really wrong....you should at least be there for her as a friend if what she thinks is true. Even though you were only together for a "few months" you should still at least care about her enough to offer your support when she needs help.
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    Shes right, your at the right place to find help about this stuff. Everybody gets depressed about stuff on a constant basis, its just a fact of life. I once spent the whole summer pretty much by myself with nothing to do cuz I didnt have a job, no gf at the time, and my friends were all working. It was like the worst time in my life, but eventually things got better and now I couldnt be more happier. Maybe you should take a trip to the mall or something and just walk around for a little to get things off your mind and hopefully you might meet someone cool. Never give up on you life, its far too precious of a gift to throw away.
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    Life.

    MaxPayne19 replied to Protex's topic in Personal Growth

    I like what you wrote, it seems very insightful.
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    Yeah I can kinda be like that too sometimes, I just get the drive and I want it so bad. But depending on where we are we dont get around to it. I dont want my gf to think that having sex is the basis of our relationship cuz it isnt i really care about her and love her a lot.
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    Yeah like the other person said, dont be so hard on yourself. But sometimes you just gotta look at the world in the face and in time that will overcome your shyness. I used to be so shy that I would have friends ask if a girl liked me instead of me going up to them myself. I was not a big confrontation person as was very scared about not knowing what to say. Eventually it all just came into place when I hung around my friends more and it helped me open up to people more.
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    I hear ya too, ive been down that rode before....just leaves ya with more heartache thinking what things could have been like if she only lived 15 minutes away from your home.
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    Not necessarily....but I do think you shouldnt talk about only each others interests all the time. Just flat out ask her if she would like to go out with you and do something over the weekend. It doesnt have to be a date if she doesnt want it to be, but if it turns into one good luck with it. You dont want to come off as too nice and be boring to her. Be playful and fun around her, she might get attraction for you that way.
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    I dont think you necessarily have to go as far as letting him go, but I think what he did was wrong. He shouldnt of lied to you about him talking to her a the past that they had. Maybe he just lied cuz he thought it would make you more uneasy about the whole situation. I dont think its somethign that you should worry about. If he is faithful to you he wont do something like that to hurt your feelings again.
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    Yeah man, go for it. Show her how you feel about her and let the sparks fly.
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    Im not really into girls having braces....One of my first girlfriends had braces and we kissed and stuff. It wasnt really anything noticeable in difference compared to others though. I dont really have anything against them I just dont perfer them.
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    I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now and everything has been great. We love each other very much and have a good relationship. Its just sometimes when shes comes home from her work she is stressed out cuz her working conditions change alot and the supervisors sometimes give her a hard time. Sometimes when I come to see her at her house after work she is really bummed out and doesnt want to be bothered. How can I make her feel more happy to see me? How can I get her out of a bad mood and feel better?
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    Nah i dont think thats being selfish, I just think that your friend is being a little immature about that with what she said. Dont get yourself involved into too much high school drama cuz believe me ive been through plenty of it and its a royal pain.
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    Well the reason why you might be getting so many "I just want to be friends" answers is probably because you are being too nice. Im not saying that you have to be like a jerk or anything....im just saying try to be more cool, laid back, and funny. It might just swing her feelings about you in another direction and she could pick up an interest in you. I think if you tell her that you love her right now; it might make her feel uneasy and blow you off. Leave that piece for when the time is right between you to. Love is something you cant really rush to find, it must have taken me about 8 relationships to finally find out that I have the right girl that I love so much in my life.
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    Well it might not necessary be the best idea if you start hitting on her with your first approach. You have to imagine that if she is a really attractive girl then she probably has guys coming up to ask her out all the time. You have to find some way to be original and unique compared to the rest of the yahoos out there. If you work at the gym try jsut working out in front of her or somethign and see is she glances up at you. If she does then you can just introduce yourself to her and go from there.
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    Well it seems like he is feeling unsure about what to do between you 2 as a relationship because he is being hesitant about calling you back. He should really be more understanding with you if you have demonstrated to him that you can take care of your own bill and live comfortably. I dont think that the relationship is over for good. If you both give enough committment you can patch the relationship back up in time. Maybe you should just give him a day or so to wait so he can call you back and then you guys can talk.
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    If I were you I probably wouldnt do it. I have dated 2 girls that I worked with at the same job and both turned out to be flops and dumped me for other guys. It just created a hostile work environment and almost got me in trouble for various things.
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    Well I was also in a long distance relationship for about a year and a half(I lived in PA and her in Texas) a long time ago and we became very close. We would talk to each other every night and would also say things like "when we are married or have kids". In a similar way to yours we both found other partners to be with and still talked as friends but not as much. In a way I really missed her, but I wanted her to be happy with what is up in her away. I found myself wasting to much of my time on my computer and neglecting to go do things with my friends. Anyways...you probably dont want to hear about me sorry..lol. Adam seems to be like a good guy and everything, he just might be scared about what could happen if you guys would become committed to each other. People are always saying "long-distance relationships never work out" but I dont think that is true because as long as you both really love each otehr you can make it work out. Its a good thing that he invited you along on his vacation so you can be together and have a good time. I just wouldnt try to pressure him to much to make a decision cuz it will make him confused and uneasy. Just try to relax and have fun on the vacation and towards the end you can bring up about where you feel if you could be a couple. Dont get yourself too bummed and worked up about it, just let things happen and hope for the best of things. Hope this helps, good luck.
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    Its seems to me that she has possibly moved on to somebody else or just doesnt want to really remember the times you shared together. Im not saying you did wrong or anything, I just think that she should be more talkative to you now that you guys have ended the silence barrier. I think you should say something to her about it in a matter style. Maybe even joke around with her a little bit to make her feel more comfortable around you and talk more.
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    Well the mall is actually a pretty good place I think; I met my girlfriend there. Other good places could be the outside of a movie theater, a bar, any sports or social event.
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    I really dont think that you would be considered as a "big baby" if you just brought up the situation to him causaully. I mean you certainly have the right to say something because what he did was rude and disrespectful. Like imagine if you did this to your girlfriend, she would obviously get very mad at you for not staying committed to your plans. You should talk to him and just say "hey I was kinda bothered about what you did to me the other night cuz I was just sitting here waiting until you came back". Expressing your feelings on that matter is hardly at all childish its being assertive.
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    Sorry if this turning into rambling but I just had a few things on my mind that I wanted to get some advice about so thanks in advance if your reading this. My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months now and that have been the best times of my life. Its just sometimes when she comes home from work in a bad mood or has an argument with her friends she gets very emotional and shuts out everything. She doesnt want to be touched or talked to much when she is in one of these moods. It makes me feel kinda hurt when she is like that because I am her boyfriend and I care for her so much, I want her to come to me right away when she is feeling down or upset about something. She has told me that she always gets like that and its just the way it is, but I wish it wouldnt be like that. Is there anything I could do to make her feel more comfortable coming to me when she is going through problems? I can also be a very attention needing person a lot of the time and want to be kissed or hugged. But sometimes she is just not in the mood to when I am and it get her kinda pissed. I just cant help it, when I dont get enough attention I will think that something is wrong and feel bad. I dont want her to get mad at me, I love her so much. A lot of the time i find myself thinking of our futures together and hope that we live a happy life. She has also told me about how she always wants to be with me and that Im everythign she ever wanted. Im just a little worried because she is starting at a beauty school for cosmotology in the fall and I will be continuing at community college. I mean we will still have time to see each other but im just worried cuz I want to go on to another university afterwards to get my degree. Her school will only last for a little over a year and then she will be able to start working already. If I transfer to another university in the area I might end up being in college for another 3 years. I dont want her to end up leaving me because of that, I would be so heartbroken and I dont know what I would do. I dunno maybe im just overreacting about things but I dont know sometimes im just afraid of changes in the furture I guess. If anybody has some advice that could help me with these matters it would be greatly appreciated thanks.
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