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I'm in my 30's and I get a boner just holding hands with my girlfriend

Thsi has happened to men since the beginning of time , dont worry it just nerves.try to relax Its happened to me at the beginning of a relationship. I guess it was nerves , I didnt feel nervous but the same thing happened. After a few tries though everything starts working again.

Been thinking about emailing an ex gf lately, but not sure if its a godd idea. Sort of a weird situation, we dated for a few months ,never had sex ,but she kept running away and coming back. Eventually she decided not to talk to me anymore because I had feelings for her. I have only tried to be her friend the whole time.we see each other around often but dont talk to each other. She eventually accused me of stalking her although I wasnt. Now its been six months since i have seen her I miss her as a friend , I dont have romantic thoughts about her anymore. I just want to talk to her and try to be friends, but I know if I did hang around her again the feelings would come back. We are in our 30's , so I dont want to continue playing these stupid games.

I was in long distance relationship with a woman 5 hours away. The last time I visited her she basically ignored me and ended it. We have started talking a bit on MSN lately as friends, I would never mention anything about the relationship and we were talking today and out of nowhere she tells me that although she is not in love with me she still misses me. I never replied to it and just continued talking about what we were talking about.I not one to talk about that kind of stuff , I want to be friends and if it develops into more so be it. I have been thinking of what to say to her regarding this, and this is what i was thinking; I am not in love either , but I do like her a lot and wanted to hang out and have fun together without any expectations. I would like too see her again , so what do you think I should say to her? thanks

A few weeks ago the girl I was seeing ended it because she didnt see any future betwwen us. We get along great have a lot of fun together and have lots in common. I was honest with her ,I told her I liked her and wanted to pursue a reltionship with her. Then I stopped calling her , I didnt plan on talking to her anymore. The last time we were together she wanted nothing to do with me. She would move away anytime I got close to her..Now she is sending me emails with kisses in them? I am confused.

I met this woman this summer we both live in different cities thn the on we met in. We started a long distance relationship, we visited each other a few times and we got along great.In fact she was all over me every time we were together. Things seemed to be drifting apart on the phone,so I drove 5 hours to visit her a few weeks ago , and she basically ignored me the whole weekend and we sort of broke up. I haven't contacted her at all since that weekend. Now she keeps emailing me and asking all kinds of questions and telling me about what she is doing. Its like she has forgotten that she wanted nothing to do with me a month ago and now she is interested again. So, what you think is going on with her? I have been very vague in my replies to her. i wouldn't mind seeing her again but I am not going to let her come back too easily. Any suggestions?

The original post was almost three weeks ago. She broke up with me a couple of days after that.Havent talked to her since.

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I 'll be honest i am only attracted to white girls, and that is girls of northern or western European background. I would say the chances of me dating outside of that are about 1%. ... That's just what attracts me.

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unfortunately no

He's probably to shy to START a conversation. I'm like that with woman I am attracted to, if they talk to me I 'm fine but I have a hard time initiating the conversation. Sometimes I would silently pray in my head for the woman to come and talk to me.

If the woman you are dating emails you to tell you that she will call tonight and then doesn't call for a few days, what do you say? If she apologizes for not calling you when she said she would but it takes her 3 more days to call.Should I say that's OK , dont worry about it or should I ask her why she says she will call but doesn't? I am not sure , do I be nice and understanding or do I be nice but not allow her to disrespect me? I don't care how busy people are evrybody can make 5 minutes to call someone.

i always ask lots of questions , simple stuff though like where do you work or where did you grow up i try not to be too nosey but just enough so that she knows I ma trying to show interest.

Go , ahead and share the bill. As a guy I dont expect it but the girl gains a lot of respect in my book when she shares the bill. I think of a woman didnt even offer and expected me to pay that would be a turn off.