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  1. I need advice on a situation that is really starting to bother me. First of all, I am an animal lover and have many pets. The problem here is my boyfriend's ill-trained dog. He bought this dog with his ex, obviously before I came on the scene. I have tried to speak calmly to my boyfriend about his dog's behaviour, but he won't listen and cuddles him loads. When we are preparing tea, his dog - let's call him Fido - stands close to the cooker watching every move my boyfriend makes, hoping to get scraps, which he usually does for the privilege of begging. I often find dog hairs in my foo
  2. I've been together with this guy for a few months now. It has been really nice, he is always there to help me. We cuddle a lot, spend a lot of time together. We have sex quite often, sometimes twice a day. There is only one thing that threw me off quite a bit. I noticed that he wasn't fully enjoying having sex with me. he lost his boner a few times when we were having sex, and he didn't really seem into it except when he drank. He actually said it to me one time. He wasn't able to drink enough that day otherwise we would have had amazing sex. I've talked about it with him and he only said the
  3. Hi guys...not used this for a long long while. But I think I'm just not getting something. Met a woman on an App. Chatted for just under a week. We discovered we had so much in common. I'm a teacher, she's a paediatric nurse. I have an 8 year old kid, she has a 7 year old. But also our whole attitudes to life seemed to match on our attitudes to enjoying ourselves, risk taking, humour etc. On paper at least I have not found someone to have so much in common ever and I'm 42. She is 37. We laughed and joked and flirted. We agreed to meet up on the Saturday for drinks. By that
  4. So me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year now and we get along pretty well, but she’s been getting these sadness streaks and when I ask her about them she says it’s because we don’t have enough intimacy in our relationship. While I’ve tried to fix this problem she’s right and we do have a intimacy problem. Well the other night she got a new phone and she left her old one on the dresser and I saw it going off with a message from a man she works with. While I wouldn’t normally pry it was around 1 am and that bothered me. So I pick up her phone and look at the message and the previous m
  5. Hello! I am 21 right now, soon turning 22. I have been dating this guy almost a year, but things have been bad lately. What I mean by lately–almost 6 months. At the beginning it was great as always, I was madly in love, he treated me and cared for me. Made breakfast, cuddled with me in the mornings, also he was very happy and positive. But now, I don't even recognize him. Our relationship is night and day when comparing to the beginning. He is being mean to me, criticizing almost everything I do. He never cuddles with me, instead he is on his phone the whole morning. Also, I feel that
  6. I met this guy at a party after his friend told me he likes me. It was pretty obvious cause he was staring at me constantly without looking away. We started chatting then he took me outside of the house and we just cuddled and talked until early in the morning. He said he would text me, which he did and after a few days of talking he asked me to come over in his dorm room. I immediately thought that was a red flag, however our mutual friends think otherwise. They all say he's a nice guy. I need to mention he didn't even try to touch me inappropriately when I was drunk, he didn't even try
  7. Hello, I'm new here. Romantic relationships weren't something I thought about until recently, as I never go looking for them so this is all pretty new to me. I don't really know how the whole relationship thing works For context, I'm 20 and there's a guy I started talking to (he's 21) over a year ago (in 2015), and we live 80 miles apart. We first became internet friends after bonding over our tastes in music and art, and have been speaking everyday since we started. After a few months of talking he came to visit me for a week and had a great time. We laughed so much. On the night befor
  8. I met a girl on online and we met for the first time this past weekend. We texted for about a month before meeting so we kinda knew each other before hanging out. Then we made plans to hang out. As soon as we saw each other we hugged. We hung out at her place and she introduced me to her friends, which I thought was a good thing. After her friends went to bed, we cuddled, watched some tv, and kissed. She was touching my arms and face, so she was reciprocating back. She was very smiley and made lots of eye contact. So these are some signs I feel like she is interested. I left, we hugged, and ga
  9. I met this guy about 3 months ago through a mutual friend, we hit it off that night & exchanged numbers. We texted a bit here & there, then he mentioned that he was doing renovations on his house, which I just finished on mine. I asked if he needed help, I ended up helping on & off for about 2 weeks but that turned into cuddling in his bed & watching movies, frequently. Our texts have gotten a lot more flirty since then as well. Now it has been about 2 months, we text back & forth most of the week, the movies & cuddling has now turned into a 2-3x per week thing &
  10. I've been hanging out with this girl for a month. We've cuddled once and will snap each other for hours on end but recently she hit me with a text saying "thanks bud" am I done for? Should I try to keep flirting with her or just abandon ship and move on I really do have feelings for her.
  11. Alright so there's this girl that I really like and I feel as if she might like me back but she constantly hangs out with this guy who according to her are not dating. I mean she says that she goes to his house "to cuddle" and says that they've kissed but she claims they're just friends yet obviously he wants to be more than that but I want her too. I'm 16 btw if that's important. What should I do??
  12. I have been single for 7 years now. i'm Female and 30. Although i am very busy working full time and studying, at times i feel very lonely and sad and am so ready to meet someone to cuddle on the couch with in my pj's. I have been on tinder, but only found men looking for a one night stand. Don't get me wrong, i enjoy a one night stand on occasion, if just only for some skin to skin contact but i only really enjoy sex if i care about the person. All of my friends are now officially either married or are in a partnership with children. I don't think i'm ugly, but i am also not conventionally 'a
  13. I've been dating a lovely guy for a year now, we even moved in together 6 weeks ago. He's kind and considerate, we look after each other when one of us is sick, we laugh and joke, occasionally fight but never go to bed angry with each other - We have a great relationship, that I don't want to lose. But whenever we talk about how we feel about each other he tells me that, while he cares for me deeply, he doesn't feel any love for me. I can't get my head around it, as far as I'm concerned he acts like he loves me, looks at me with that shiny sparkle in his eyes, everything about us as a couple s
  14. I haven't been part of the forum long but of the few days I've been here, it seems like a lot of posts are regarding... problems in relationships. I thought I'd change things a little bit and bring up a lighter ...more pleasant topic: what do you love about you significant other? Some things to list for me: - The way he comes home and I am the first thing he looks for. - The way he randomly hugs or kisses me just because. - The way he lets me lay on his chest until I fall asleep. - The way his hands feel when we hold hands and when we cuddle. - The way his hands feel when we do
  15. So, there has been a girl that I have been kind of seeing at school... I guess you could say we are exclusively not dating..... however we spend most every other day together... and shes alot of fun.. its been about..... 5 months now? or something? And i realized today that we are actually pretty close, we do alot of stuff together, she'll spend the night every once and awhile, sometimes we'll cuddle up, other times we won't.... but it just dawned on me... that I really don't know anything about her past in terms of relationships, or really anything? Its like to me, she had no life pre- me mee
  16. I'm feel really conflicted. I am 18 and I have been single for like a year and a half and I feel like I really want a boyfriend. Recently a good friend asked me out and I said yes. We get along great, we have tons of common interests, he listens to me and acts interested when I talk about things that bored most people (seriously I spent ten minutes talking about the health benefits of avocados on our date), we like the same music, our in the same university program, we are both intensely athletic, and basically would be totally perfect for each other. The problem is I don't feel that spark.
  17. Brief background for context, went out with a really nice guy for two years, he fell out of love and broke up with me but not before withdrawing affection and contact and going radio silent for 3 days late 2015. I was absolutely shattered and spent the next two years trying to become whole again (making friends, trying hobbies etc). Over the next year we made the transition to friends, the same things that brought us together as partners made a good foundation for friendship and as I haven't a great many of them I was glad of this. End of last year I thought he was still interested and asked h
  18. It has never been the most perfect marriage we first met we knew each other for three days then I was put to the hospital in the burn unit and he never left my side since that day . we have gone through a lot and yes he cheated on me ,hurt me emotionally and physically but i’m not the kind of person that gives up on someone or marriage and this is my first by the way I feel as though through those years even with everything that has happened that has affected me is negative way but I’m not saying that he hasn’t been good at times he has he has provided and works hard but what brings us to
  19. I am going nuts trying to figure this guy out. I even get conflicting advice from friends. So I thought i'd ask in here. I am 45 years old and the guy is 28. I know that is a huge difference but I look and act like i'm in my 20's. Anyway, we are coworkers, and shortly after I started there, he started asking me out on dates. I was super busy all summer so we were only able to get together twice all summer but he still kept asking me every weekend if I was around. Once summer got over and I got more free time, we started hanging out more. Then he moved to the town I live in and he's been ask
  20. To set the scene I’m 38 years old. Up until my thirties I drifted around having lots of fun in different locations. Then when I turned 30 I suddenly had this incredible impulse to return to be near my family and have babies. For most of my thirties this became an obsession. I chose totally unsuitable men and went through boyfriends like a shark with a shoal of fish! Some of them were horrible. Then I gave up on men last year and decided to have a baby solo. That’s when I met my current partner. He’s young and fun. We became serious quite quickly. A year and a half later I’m living with him.
  21. Hi! Been lurking couple of days. We are 25 and we had been together for 2.5 years. We were strangers and had like, love at first sight. Relationship was good, we barely had any fights. For a year everything was PERFECT. Then after reflecting now, after a year I kinda faded a bit. I still showed her love. Anyway she always wanted to move in together, she asked me alteast every other month and I always postponed it. I postponed it because I felt I wasnt ready to take the step, I was scared, the relationship thing was new for me(And for her). We never moved in, she told me 6 months ago, if
  22. Hello I'm with my gf for over 2 years and not long ago we have had starts problems and the main and big problem is she is not attached to me anymore.. she said she still care about me and have some feeling just she don't have a spark or connection with me.and I still love her I'm happy to spend time with her and have cuddles while we watching movie and stuff like that..when I told her we can work on this problem she told me she is not sure if that will work..and now is the big question do I manage to fix it somehow or we break up ?
  23. So I met her at the gym, i was her trainer. After training her for a month i realized I had feelings for her. Asked her out for coffee after one sessions and she agreed. We started texting a lot after that. We did the same a week after but after coffee we hooked up. Two days later same thing. Then on Saturday that week she asked me to come over, and she told me she thought we were moving too fast and needed to slow things down.... It was very hard for me as I really loved the texting, cuddles and kisses that we shared, but after that conversation everything went down. We went on a couple of da
  24. My boyfriend (31) and I (32) had been broken up for 2 years with minimal contact. I reached out a few times to ask him to grab a drink and he always said not enough time had gone by. Until recently... We were together for 1.5 years and lived together for a year of that. We were super super super in love but it was a pretty tumultuous relationship mostly due to the fact that I was struggling with bipolar disorder. He has his flaws, too. He's childish, smokes too much weed and doesn't have much money (and spends it poorly). I'm pretty sure his friends hate me. So a couple months ago I wro
  25. Male 22 , female 20 broke up with me 6 months ago after 2.5 year relationship. I thought I'd be with her forever, still in pain. Still sit in this room we used to sleep in. Still sit on the couch we used to cuddle together on. I still see the holes in the wall from the pictures of us that used to be hung up. I do everything I can to forget but I cant. I go to the gym regularly, I go out with friends, I work a 9-5. I've been to counciling. While the gym helps marginally, and doing these things help me TEMPORARILY forget about this problem.. I still deeply miss the bond we had. Life i
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