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  1. lunatic
    Gilgamesh is right about the Mecury in tuna. Cut down the tuna and eat more broiled/grilled chicked. I found that Costco has grilled chicked in big bags that I put over romain lettuce and a little ceasar salad dressing. You could also add some grilled veggies also. Chicken is very high in protein and I eat it everyday. I take a break from chicken with tuna. Since you are probally not fat like I was then you could cut out the salad and just eat the chicken. Good luck, Hubman
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    I totally agree with Lokagirla on this. We all lie at times and there is no rhyme or reason for it. Some lies are not as bad as others but, in the end a lie is a lie. Someone always get hurt when a partner lies. My 2 cents. Hubman
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    I am a guy and I never ever turned down my girl when she asked me for sex. I personally think, you should NOT apologise for anything and that you might consider that he either is not interested in you or he is seeing someone else. Again I never heard of a guy turning down sex because I know that I would NEVER turn down my lady!!!!!! Remember everyone is different but, most men when it comes to this are ruled by hormones. I am sorry about being so blunt. Hubman P.S. PM me if you need more advice.
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    I would have to say there is a bond that you cannot put into words. You basically think about the person and get a wonderful feeling inside. When you think about her/him all the time for no reason. Plus I agree with everyone else. Hubman
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    Dude my last relationship was a rebound and I was with her for over four years. There is no time limit on how long it is going to last and there is no sense in waiting for her. I would start concentrating on yourself now and get your head back in order before you jump into another relationship. If you don't face the feelings now you WILL in the future sometime. This is something I have learned the hard way. Good luck and I liked your reply to her it was from the heart. That should be your closure letter and move on. Hubman
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    What does this mean????
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    Don't get this child pregnant because it is a life time commitment. You don't want to do this because it will probally ruin any chances you have at a normal life. You will be responsible for the kid the rest of your life. What happens if the two of you break up you still have to be in the childs life. Don't get her pregnant it is not time for you yet. You have the rest of your life to get married and have kids. Just my opinion anyway. -Hubman
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    Hey QT, Listen, tell him how you feel. Don't be afraid to open up to him. That might show him that you are trying to change for the better. If he knows how you feel then he might be able to continue the relationship. I hope this helps and I hope you work everything out with your b/f. -Hubman
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    My personal opinion is that I would probally go. I have always wanted to go the down under. I say it is a once in a life time oppertunity and you can work as an assistant for a year then become a nurse down there. Am I right about working a year and then becoming a nurse there??? I would look into that and find out what the deal is then make your decision. I would definitly go if I were you. Good luck, Hubman
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    I like them all they are very insightful. Thanks for sharing. -Hubman
  11. lunatic
    Keep very busy. Join a gym volunteer your time with local charity or organization. Hang out with friends and go out. Don't sit home and pout. Get up and get yourself going. -Hubman
  12. lunatic
    I have a few words for you. If you are in pain then you need to move on. Let her go and get on with your life. It will not be easy by any means but, you will get through this. No one should be in pain because of the actions of others. Be Strong and take a stand for you. -Hubman
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    Nothing ventured nothing gained. JUST GO FOR IT. remember if I was you I would be all over that. One more Korny saying: "better to have loved and lost than never loved at all" I can only say is just go for it and don't hold back. Good luck, Hubman
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    Damn girl don't do anything at all to yourself. God I wish I could have met you. Just be yoursef and if he is not into doing it then maybe you should do some self exploration (if you know what I mean ) That guy is really lucky and he has no idea how lucky he is. Hubman
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    I think virgins are way too over rated. It doesn't matter to me at all. At one time it did but that was when I was a teen and that was a long time ago. -Hubman
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    I totally agree with Gilgamesh because there is no way to summarize a person by a statement like the one that otherwise stated. There are too many factors in how someone turns out and everyone is different. -Hubman
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    I agree with Sisterlynch. I also would like to add that you are way too young to get married. It was bound to happpen sooner or later that one of you would want to break it off for a while. I think Sisterlynch is telling you the trueth and go find out who you are susposed to be. -Hubman
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    STOP ALL CONTACT... You have to get away from her for you to be able to deal with your hurt. No one will ever say that when a long term relationship ends it does not hurt. All of us here can feel your pain but, you have to get hold of yourself. Remember that you lived most of your life without this person and you will be able to do so again. Get very busy, volunteer your time with a charity or an organization. Go join a gym and start working out to better yourself. Right now YOU are the most important thing in the world and never ever forget that. Hang out with you friends and family to get the emotional support that you need. TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS AND THIS IS NOT SOMETHING I AM MAKING UP. In a few months you will look back and think about how hurt you were and how much better off you are. If you are that devistated then write up a list of all the good points and bad points of your last relationship. Be honest and detail everything that was good and bad. Remember that in a relationship it is a two way street and usually one person gives all the time. You will probally find that she was a taker and not a giver. It is alright to be angry and upset. You should be because it sounds like she crapped on you at the end. Be angry and pissed but, never act on those feelings just endure them. They will go away and you will wake up one day realizing that you have become a better person then her. You will probally wonder how you stayed with her that long. You will get through this and you have something over most of us here when we went through it. You have this site and all these caring people to vent to. I wish when I went through my first true love breakup I had this site. You are not alone and you will get better in time. Be strong and smile! -Hubman
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    Starlippy7501, I have to say that you are being treated like a fool and you should dump this loser. He has everything he could ever want you and a mistress. Damn wanna come here and be with me(only kidding)? Don't be so coy and use your head not your heart. You tell me that he stays at this persons house overnight and you think nothing is happening. WAKE UP and use the spine that god gave you. Comon you don't need this jerk and he is playing you as a fool. You want my advise then tell him to go and NEVER EVER LOOK BACK. You deserve better than this jerk. I don't understand why women like you stay while this ass*ole treats you like dirt. I can't seem to find anyone that will want me as their friend and lover. This loser doesn't deserver a woman like you. Get him out of you life now. I have to be honest here because men like this piss me off to no avail. Because they give all men a bad wrap. LEAVE THIS JERK! You not only will be better off but, maybe you will find someone who can return the unconditional love back. Be Strong, Hubman
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    Sorry to hear that you are having such a bad time with the split. We have all been in that position and made it through it. You have to think about the past and realize it is over. That does not mean your life is over. Think about this as a changing point in your life. Like a new chapter in a book you are starting with a clean slate. Everything is what your mind makes it. Have a positive attitude about this and think about you. Give you some time to heal and as the weeks go by it does get easier to get by. I will not tell you it will be easy because it wont. This is what makes you grow as a person mentally, spiritiually, and as a person. I am sorry but things will get better and that is a thought you will have to trust. Be strong and don't knock yourself we are all human. Hubman
  21. lunatic
    J LOL I think wood floor is best and I do Reciprocate all the time. Thats my two cents. Hubman
  22. lunatic
    Hey Cawls, We have all been there my friend. You have to trust that it will get better in the future. A positive outlook is what the doctor prescribed. Keep your chin up and face the day one at a time. It is the truth that time will heal all wounds. hubman
  23. lunatic
    Dgirl, You are never alone and you should not feel that way. Maybe it is time to get someone from your family involved and see what they think of your situation. I think maybe you already know what you need to do with this guy. He seems like he doesn't give two sh*ts about you and your feelings. I can tell you that if you keep catching him in lies then he has got to go. Honey you have to do what is right! Dump this loser and move on. Someone out there would love to meet someone like you and never doubt that! Be strong and get a backbone and tell this one to get his ass out of your life. PM me if you need a mans advice on this matter. -Hubman
  24. lunatic
    I only have two words for you: MOVE ON Forget this one because she is playing with your emotions and feeding off your pain. screw her you can do better for yourself. Hubman
  25. lunatic
    I hate to say this but, if she is not listening now what makes you sure that she will listen in the future after the wedding???? If she wont listen to you about your concerns then there is a problem with communication between you two. If she wont listen to you the nrun for the hills because it will only get worse. I would sit her down and talk about this like two adults that you are. As I said if she will not hear your concerns then it is time to leave. I was engaged once and after I put the ring on her finger she changed over night. The first two weeks she and I were glowing with love and after it all went down hill. If you are not happy with the date that is planned and she will not listen then it maybe time to get out of this relationship. Good luck, Hubman
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