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  1. Much thanks you guys!! My brain turned upside down cuz I've never heard that from someone before, its uncharted territory. I should be able to clear up my mind now. I just hope I find another person that'll feel that way about me again, cuz it would kinda suck if she was the only one.
  2. Ok. this has to do with one of the most serious, scarriest things you can imagine. Number one on the list, in my opinion would be "I'm having your baby" and number two is Marrige. This friend of mine, has just told me that when she thinks about settling down..........she thinks about me and it dosen't scare her. I feel like getting on a plane and moving to another country right. She's a really good person don't get me wrong but she's not my wife, and I fear that she.......loves me. I don't feel the same about her. No matter how hard I've tried to push her away she never gave up. The interesting part is, she told me everything I ever wanted to hear....ever. Like you're a nice guy, but on a way bigger scale. How do get out of this situation sately?
  3. Omg!! Hey man, I went through the same exact thing with a chick from HS. I would think about her all day and night. It got to the point where I started to worry about myself cuz I couldn't stop. I gotta say, the number one thing that helped me get her out of my mind was actually telling her how I felt. I planned and thought about it for weeks and my best solution was to write her a letter. I knew there was no way in hell I could tell her face to face (this was HS I was super shy). Plus she had a boyfriend. Once I got everything off my chest it was super easy to move on. I knew I didn't have a chance with her but it made me feel better at least she knows how I feel. Don't think you're crazy either, you're not. This happens to many. Stay cool and don't let it get to you that way. I know how it is.....it SUX!!
  4. Hi linekekei. Geesh, your post sounds a lot like what I was going through not too long ago. You said that sometimes he seems interested and other times he's like whatever. That will create a lof of unnecesary conflict, specially if your feelings for him remain the same. He might change his mind, you never know. If you two have a good friendship worth keeping than by all means do so but looking at other options wouldn't be a bad idea. And by options I mean guys.
  5. Zup m3636. Sounds like that chick really messed your mind up. But it happens to the best of us, it happens to all. There's nothing wrong with being cautious but don't let her ruin your chances at potentially meeting someone 10x better than she'll ever be. The real test will be paitence, in time things will be better.
  6. lol I agree with the previous reply. Its very difficult to say no when you're having fun. But a year ago??!!! That's a bit much. Somebody's not willing to admit they still have feelings for the other person. It happened to me
  7. hello all. Well, tiz been a while since I posted but my mind hasn't been this confused in just as long. Ok, so I posted this thing about a girl that liked me and I didn't really feel the same about her but she said that's ok, let's have fun (sex) anyway, and I was like "Cool." Long story short, we had way too much fun. She grew more feelings towards me and my mind never changed so that created some conflict. My thing is that, even though she's dating someone new, I feel like I did when my last girlfriend started dating someone else. Which I shouldn't feel that way cuz we were never really "Official", it was just a friends with benefits thing. I even feel kinda weird hanging out with her cuz I know she'll be talking about her new guy and stuff. I guess its kinda wrong to not want to hang out with her but I can't understand for the life of me why I feel this way. I still think deep down inside that if we were to get serious we wouldn't be a good couple.
  8. Hi dyingfaery. Coming to this site was a really good thing. That part of you that dosen't want to die will always be there. Its just that sometimes it gets ignored. There have been times where I've just wanted to end everything cuz it just hurt way too much. But the only thing that kept from doing anything crazy was my mom. Its not like have a super good relation with my parents or anything, its just that I didn't want to put her through something like that. People say suicide is bad and stuff not so much cuz of the fact that a person destroys themself but because of the effect it has on others. I don't know anything about you other than the words I read on your post but I already feel sad because there's someone out there who's going through something nobody on this earth should ever have to go through. Think about what you'd be leaving behind. Despite how messed up things can be there's so much to experience that will change everything you ever thought about life.
  9. Hey wassup dude. I think you did the right thing by telling her how you feel man. If you didn't, there would always be that "What if" factor running throuh you mind. Damned if you do dammed if you don't type deal. Don't sweat it, this girl sounds like she just dosen't want you falling for her so she gives you the cold shoulder at times. Watch out, if she starts getting bitchy with you, you don't need her. You were man enough to express your emotions for her and that's the thanks you get??
  10. It seems like you are ready for change. You admit your flaws and that's a good thing because realizing them is the only way to get rid of them. You're not gonna do a total 360 overnight, so don't stress over it too much. Listen to some 311, from chaos, evolver or transistor to be specific....I'm serious.
  11. wuzup summerdreams. That does sound kinda messed up but you said he admits it so that's gotta be plus at least. Try to get him to realize what you do for him. If he just dosen't get it then....do whacha gotta do.
  12. Wasup Kantrone. Man I SO agree with you, that shiot is true! There's a good amount of girls that do fall for jerks. But its just cuz of the whole "Bad Boy" thing. Confidence and power, so true, but so misguided. I cannot stand those guys that walk around and try to act all hard and S**T. They're so fake. Being "the nice guy" has its draw backs, but I'll be damned if I become a jerk. NEver Change, we're a rare breed.
  13. Ok, so how many of you females shave (or wax, whatever) down there? Do you do it because you want to or have to? I've heard from some girls that the don't like to do it. But don't you get more pleasure, or sensation (during oral sex) with less hair than if you had a hairy bush? I'm just wondering cuz this topic came up with aahhhh...., someone. She dosen't shave and I don't go down on her that much cuz of it.
  14. Well, I think you are ready to tell him "I Love you". I mean it's practically eating you up inside. The more you keep it in, the more damage it'll do. You gotta let this guy know exacly how you feel, for your benefit. The question of him feeling the same for you or not is something that has to be dealt with sooner or later. Just find a nice way to release all your emotions out in way that he'll understand.
  15. Good relationships often start out as good friendships. Yes its good that ya'll talk every night. Unfortunately the signs of whether or not a girl likes you differ most of the time. Some choose to totally play it off and act like nothings up, while others may be very forward and let you know right away that they like you. Just play cool, don't stress or analyze everything too much. You'll know whats up if anything happens.
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