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  1. the47ronin
    Hi, Im 18 and I recently found out that my family will be moving in summer. Right now Im with this amazing girl who I love. She feels the same way (shes 17). We have only been together for about 2 months but we both have never felt this way about another person. She has said that she doesnt want to search for her soul mate anymore casuse she has found it. If I move, I will be gone for about 2 years. After I finish my college course I will go anywhere she is. Do you think she will end it cause im moving? Ive thought about basically puttting my life on hold for her. Meaning I stay here and postpone school for 2 years, get a full time job, appartment etc. This is risking a lot though cause if her feelings change, then I have basically wasted a year or two of my life. Any suggestions/comments? Thanks in advance
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    well 1st things first. After the breakup I was still there for her. 2 weeks after our break she called me one night crying. I thought she may have realised something with me or was in trouble. She tells me this guy she likes, thinks she is a slut. She then asked me to log on and add him adn tell him that shes not a slut, then asking him to ask her out. Of course I couldnt do that but still, i was there. There was some other things I helped her out with. For the first little bit after the breakup, I would email her telling how i felt. Lately Ive been better except for an incident which happened last week. Someone i guess hacked into her email and sent me a message poising as her. The message stated that she wanted to see me again etc etc. I was happy to say the least, of course the real her msged me back saying it wasnt true. We had a phone convo accouple of days later, speaking as friend. I thought it was good. So today she tells me that I make her "uncomfortable", i admit i was drunk, she knew it. She tells me all I do is add to her stress, basically speaking down to me. Saying "get over me , move on already" etc. I think she blocked me now on MsN. What do you think I should do. I didnt really want to end like this. I wanted to end on a good note.
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    well I got totally wasted last night and I told her off over the net. I dont really remember what I said fully. lol i dont really know what to do now.
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    thanks for the link. My major problem is im so tempted to talk to her. I dont phone or at all really but I talk to her on MSN. I've block/deleted and then re added her like 4 times today. The best thing is prolly to get away from the PC but I talk to a lot of freidns on here. I wish I could just forget her. This jealousy is a killer. lol I would be so much better right now if she didnt have a interent bf. That adds so much to it.
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    What happened to you if you dont mind me asking?
  6. the47ronin
    Wow our situation is very similar. Thanks. I do want to mopve on, I guess it doesnt help that Im a jealous person at heart. The thought of her doing that with a guy makes me so angry and so hurt.
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    thx for the responces. Yeah I really do like her, a lot. She has some problems though. Shes an exibitionist even tho shes only 16.
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    Hey, I ll basically sum up my situation from previous posts. My Girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me about 2 months ago. I've basically have been going through hell ever since. She tells me she has a internet relationship with a guy. They talk on the phone every night for 4 hours. I found out that they have phone sex. Basically Im a mess. We have been friends since we've split. Right now I admit , all she does is bring me pain but when I talk with her I feel at ease. I think I still have hope, which is the only reason I've been so patient with everything. Today we talked awhile on the phone, I told her Im moving early next year (I was origianlly going to stay here for her). From here is where I need help. today when we talked, it felt good but it will probably only be temporary. Now do I become her friend and leave this city as a good friend or should I just drop it now, ignore her compleatly. The reason why im asking for your help is because the decission I make will not be based on whats best for me but whats the better chance of getting back together. lol Maybe you can tell me both. A) What should I do for me, to help me get over this pain B) What should I do to make her remember me and maybe one day regret leaving me Thanks for your help
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    well the situation has worsend. Today I found out that she has phone sex with this guy. For the first time ever I feel suicidal, and i think i may do it. The thought that she wants to do that with someone kills me. I would have done anything for her. I am a nice guy. See the fact is , its not me she doesnt like. I know if I acted like me but pretended to be someone else on the interent, that she would like me.
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    yeah I really got to keep busy. Well im 18 shes 16. She wanted to me to become more involved with her family and stuff. I would have but I didnt have a licence and she lives on the other side of the city. I still should have made more of an effort I realise that now. I did change. She said it was too little to late. Thats what I cant live with. That reason kills me inside. It means that I blew it for such a stupid reason.
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    She broke up with me because she said I took too long to move to the next step. She said she was still having fun at the end of our relationship too. But I feel she has something to prove to herself. She very self conscience about herself, she thought I was the only one who could love her.
  12. the47ronin
    its has been 2 months shes broke up with me. 2 days ago she told me about this. Well maybe I should try to stop loving her. Kinda expect the worst and hope for the best. Is there anything I can do to well stop feeling for her? Thanks again
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    Hi, I posted awhile back about my situation. Ill sum it up. My GF of 2 years broke up with me 2 months ago, and since then I've been in pain and very jealous. She said she wanted to remain friends, which i knew wouldnt work. The friendship thing has been working OK up to 2 days ago. She has a new bf. When she told me this I felt so much...pain. It is an internet relationship but they have plans to see eachother in summer. Yesterday I told that I have to depart from talking to her. She knows how much I feel for her. And yes I still love her... Its causing me extreme pain but I dont want to let go. I love this person. What should I do? Thanks P.S. Do these internet relationships usually last?
  14. the47ronin
    Thanks for your responses I appreciate it. I think Im getting better. I think I should avoid contact with her like you said. Is it normal for me to want to beat the next guy who has sex or even kisses with her? I dunno, thats the main thing that bothers me. Contact with another man ie(kiss etc). I will start working out more , maybe it will get my mind off it. I just felt we were so unique and special. Right now I think "how can she ever be matched?" I mean I loved everything about her.
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    Its weird. When I talk to her (on the net) I feel relief. Maybe I'm hoping for her to come back. I know this wont happen. It's just that we built something special in those 2 years. Maybe I became too dependent on her. One thing that bothered. We broke up about 1 month ago. She knows how bad im taking it. 2 days ago she called me, she was crying. I wanted to help her so i made her feel better than I asked what the problem was. She says this person she went on the date with wont talk to her anymore on msn. She then asked me to add him on my MSN and talk to him , and ask him to take her back. I mean this hurt A LOT. I didnt show my pain to her tho. I cant lie to myself. I'm still in love with her. I miss her. I just feel lost..
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